6 Cock Milking Techniques for Harvesting Sperm Through Joint Edging
Since you’ve found this cuckold blog article, you’ve probably already come across the terms “penis edging”, “orgasm ruining” and “orgasm control”. The aim of this stimulation technique is a controlled and orgasm-free milking of the penis in order to trick the refractory phase.
Unfortunately, there is a lack of concrete examples and practical instructions in the German language. In our guide 7 reasons to milk the cuckold by penis edging, we have already explained why you should learn orgasm control.
In the following guide, we would like to explain to you how you can perform penis edging together as a couple using six desemination techniques. In addition to numerous tips, you will also find out how you can utilize your love juices and which aids are suitable for harvesting semen.
Please leave a comment below the guide if you have any questions, comments or would like to share your experiences and suggestions with us.
Six Techniques for Milking the Cuckold Through Penis Edging
There are several very good ways for couples to prevent the male ejaculation reflex from being triggered. The trick is for the partner to ruin his orgasm at the PONR (point of no return) in time.
Below we explain six techniques on HOW you can perform penis edging together as a couple:
Penis Edging by Hand Using the Start-Stop Method
The best way to wank off a penis by edging is by jerking off by hand.
By using different jerk-off intervals, grip techniques, and pressure, the partner can bring her cuckold’s or slave’s cock to the point of no return in a very controlled and extremely targeted manner.
The woman feels any twitches, sees the urethral opening and can react immediately when the ejaculation reflex sets in shortly before his orgasm.
In our practical guide Penis Edging Game “The Sperm Harvest” you can find detailed information about this method of penis milking.
Start-Stop Jerking Technique Instructions:
- The man should be in a supine position, tied up and blindfolded.
- The number of ruined orgasms should be agreed.
- Start a smartphone or kitchen timer when the man is only allowed to reach his final orgasm (30, 60, 90, 120 minutes).
- Have a plate or small bowl of sperm ready to catch drops of desire and pre-ejaculate. Have a plastic spoon ready.
- The man uses his thumb, index finger and middle finger to indicate how close he is to the point of no return. (Thumb up = everything ok; thumb index finger = caution!; thumb index finger middle finger = danger of squirting!!!)
- The penis is pampered, stroked and jerked off at intervals.
- At the beginning, it is advisable to jerk off in intervals of 50. Then stop, count to 5 in your head and start the interval wanking again.
- When the man stretches out his thumb and index finger, you become very attentive. You will quickly get a feeling for when you need to reduce the start-stop-fast jerking to the 30, 20 and 10 second intervals. However, strictly adhere to the 5‑second pauses so that the penis can calm down and you have more control!
- Then it gets interesting: as soon as the orgasm threshold is closer and the man stretches out his thumb, index finger and middle finger, only jerk off in 6‑second intervals. So: 6x quick wank, hand off; 6x quick wank, hand off; 6x quick wank, hand off. …and so on…
- If the penis twitches, remove your hand IMMEDIATELY!
- At some point the time has come! The point of no return sets in: The man moans loudly and his cock twitches! Ruin the orgasm by taking your hand away from the cock IMMEDIATELY. Quickly hold a sperm bowl, plate or glass under the penis to catch any leaking precum and sperm!
The Ejaculation Reflex Is Canceled!
The penis quivers and twitches violently during successful orgasm ruination. The glans is plump, shiny dark red, the veins protrude widely. The testicles are close to the body and the urethra is wide open. Most of the time, the imposing cock bounces up and down violently and desperately and can even make stirring movements sideways.
While the man moans in agony and despair, precum runs or squirts out of the urethra (the penis cries! ^^). The pre-ejaculate can now be returned to the cuckold or slave via the mouth if the man wishes to recycle sperm.
Then the start-stop game starts all over again. Depending on how well-rehearsed and experienced the couple is with orgasm control, the orgasm can be ruined two to a maximum of six times. The intense spectacle is extremely arousing for the woman.
Orgasm Control Through Blow Jobs
It is also possible to ruin the male orgasm several times by blowing and licking. The main advantage is that the woman can feel every “tiny” twitch or penis movement with her lips and tongue.
As with the start-stop jerking method, we recommend that you decide on the number of ruins and the three-finger display rule together beforehand. You should also agree on the duration of the edging session beforehand and clarify who should be responsible for swallowing precum, drops of desire and sperm. (Ideally, the cuckold should do this!)
The penis can be stimulated very intensively with lips and tongue. The vacuum when sucking and the use of plenty of saliva provide additional stimulation.
The point-of-no-return is announced by a deep moan from the man as well as violent twitching, throbbing and quivering of the penis. At the onset of orgasm, all stimulation is stopped IMMEDIATELY so that orgasm cannot be reached!
Experienced women can still touch the penis very, very lightly with their tongue during orgasm. However, this must be done very carefully.
Depending on the duration of the stimulation, the number of orgasm-free days beforehand and the degree of arousal, considerable amounts of very sweet-tasting precum can leak out or squirt vigorously. Depending on the arrangement, the woman kisses her cuckold or love slave with her tongue(snowballing) and the edging game goes into the next round.
Penis Edging With Sex Toys
Experience has shown that creative and playful couples like to use sex toys in their love games.
The Fleshlight masturbator, which is placed over the erect penis and moved up and down, is highly recommended for edging games and orgasm training.
High-quality penis vibrators, massage guns and massagers are another very good method of triggering an orgasm and training it at the point of no return.
Compared to stimulation with the hands or mouth, however, masturbators and penis vibrators are very difficult to control. It can quickly lead to overstimulation, so that the climax is ruined a few (milli-) seconds too late.
We therefore recommend that you count the seconds or strokes (up and down movements) of the sex toys silently and take 5‑second breaks every now and then.
Prostate Stimulation and Ruining Orgasms Several Times in the Process
The prostate, which is located in a man’s rectum, is the male G‑spot and therefore a very intense erogenous zone.
The sex gland is filled with ejaculatory fluid and has a lot of sensory and parasympathetic nerves that play a role in erection and ejaculation.
Unfortunately, very few men are aware of the enormous sexual excitability of the highly sensitive prostate through touch.
Through active stimulation with an anal plug, finger, dildo or other objects, some men can reach orgasm simply by playing with the prostate. If a man engages in prostate stimulation, he will be rewarded with intense sensations, full-body goose bumps, powerful spurts of semen and extremely intense orgasms.
As a couple, you can stimulate the prostate very well together. We recommend that you perform an active prostate massage in combination with one of the three stimulation techniques mentioned above (start-stop jerking, oral penis stimulation or massager / masturbator).
If the prostate is stimulated during a longer penis edging session, massive leakage and powerful squirting of love juice occurs. This can result in a third to twice as much love juice being released as usual.
In FemDom and BDSM,“milking the prostate without orgasm” and ” ruining multiple orgasms” is incredibly popular. This involves using suitable dildos or finger techniques to induce ejaculation without orgasm (see photo below).
Prostate Milking With a Strap-on (Strap-on Dildo) Penis Edging
A very powerful and partner-bonding edging method is to penetrate the man’s anus with a strap-on (strap-on dildo) while edging the penis with the manual start-stop-wank technique.
However, this requires the couple to have extensive experience with anal penetration and prostate stimulation.
The trick is to find the perfect strap-on dildo that doesn’t cause the man any pain.
The man must be completely relaxed and enjoy anal stimulation with a dildo. He should also be no stranger to the intense feeling of ruining an orgasm
After an anal shower and gentle foreplay, the woman penetrates very slowly with lots and lots of lubricant.
We recommend that you proceed according to the instructions described above “Penis Edging by hand using the start-stop method”. It is possible to ruin the orgasm one to six times during anal fucking. Even milking or even an orgasm without penis stimulation is possible.
Strap-on fucking leads to incredible physical reactions from the man. From full-body goose bumps, to extremely loud moaning, to uncontrolled, spasmodic muscle twitching, the man experiences indescribable pleasure.
Usually, very powerful fountains of pre-ejaculate and sperm are ejected, or rather, considerable amounts of love juice leak out.
We therefore recommend that you place a sperm cup or a sperm plate on the man’s stomach to collect love juices and allow the man to recycle them orally. If the man is being fucked from behind in the doggy position, you should also place a plate under the penis.
Orgasm Control During Sex
You can also practice effective penis edging during normal sex. Even if this method sounds very banal, it requires maximum self-control and a certain amount of experience with orgasm control from the man.
During fucking, a man very quickly reaches the point where he realizes that orgasm is imminent. He needs to know when the point-of-no-return (PONR) sets in. Before the ejaculation reflex sets in, he must pull his penis out of the vagina IMMEDIATELY and avoid touching the penis at all.
The penis is naturally really angry about the ruined orgasm! It quivers, bounces up and down, twitches violently and squirts one to three powerful squirts of pre-ejaculate onto the mons veneris (mons pubis), into the woman’s pubic hair and abdomen. Sometimes the penis simply leaks.
To the woman’s delight, after a break of 30 to 60 seconds, the man can become erect again with a stiff penis and continue fucking. Using this technique, it is possible to ruin the orgasm one to four times. Achieving it more often is more of a feat due to the intense vaginal stimulation.
The final, real orgasm is extremely intense. The man then usually fucks very quickly and hard, which in turn benefits the woman.
Utilization of Milked Love Juices (Sperm Recycling)
As a cuckold couple, you should generally get into the habit of always collecting and recycling your love juices from your penis and vagina.
This is because semen and pre-ejaculate should never disappear carelessly into bed linen, mattresses or towels and certainly not be disposed of with Kleenex, handkerchiefs or toilet paper. It is a basic task of a cuckold to clean up spilled love juices.
One of the reasons why penis edging is so much fun is that enormous amounts of pre-ejaculate and semen can be milked off. Depending on the selected ejaculation technique, the penis will inevitably leak several times, copiously or even squirt one to three fountains.
It makes sense to collect the hot cum directly with a glass, plate, spoon or bowl in order to use it for further messes. Black bowls and plates have proven their worth in practice.
The collected penis juice can be used for many things: Rubbing on nipples, drinking cum by the hotwife, swallowing cum by the cuckold, rubbing on the hotwife’s breasts, freezing as a cum ice cube, as a lubricant for dildos and much more.
You can find out which tools are suitable for sperm harvesting below.
The leaking pre-ejaculate / precum / pre-juice tastes very sweet & pleasant and is ideal for cuckolds or the hotwife to practise swallowing sperm!
Three Aids for Sperm Harvesting
As already mentioned, drops of desire, cum and pre-ejaculate (precum) should always be collected with a plate or bowl and a spoon. In practice, the following three utensils have proven to be effective for collecting semen:
1.) Sperm plate
Plates are simply excellent for collecting love juices during penis edging. To ensure that the cum always looks appetizing and provides a good contrast, we definitely recommend the color black. Black sperm plates are also frequently used in German Goo Girls and Sperma-Studio porn.
We recommend that you order three plate sizes:
A 32 cm pizza plate if the man wants to squirt really hard while standing or kneeling and doesn’t feel like hitting the table top. You can also use a large plate like this to seed cookies and cakes(cum food).
With a 25 cm dinner plate, the penis can still squirt relatively freely — however, you should choose a steep ejaculation angle. It is also great for catching a creampie or when the woman milks the man from behind in the doggy position. This plate size is also ideal for milking the prostate with a strap-on dildo.
A small 19 cm breakfast plate is also practical as you can place it on the man’s stomach. Leaking and squirting ejaculate can be collected.
In practice, these three plates have proven to be excellent:
- Luminarc serving plate Pizza Friends 32 cm, black
- Luminarc Diwali Noir dinner plate Opal 25 cm, black
- Luminarc Diwali Noir breakfast plate 19 cm, black
2.) Sperm bowl
We have tried many bowls and dishes for collecting semen and pre-ejaculate when milking a penis. Not everything is suitable as a sperm bowl.
In our opinion, so-called “spoon rests” from the kitchen are perfect for milking the penis and collecting semen, pre-cum and drops of desire.
The bowl can be easily and conveniently placed under the penis and the cock cream can run or squirt directly into it. The man can sit, lie or kneel during the edging session. Really very practical!
The great thing is that the bowls don’t let the sperm cool down. You can also easily lick them clean again.
It’s also cool that you can safely store your sperm spoon in the spoon holder without it getting dirty during edging breaks.
We can recommend two practical spoon holders:
- Calypso Basics by Reston Lloyd spoon rest made of melanin, black
- Zing Spoon Rest made from silicone, black
Alternatively, you can also use Chinese soup spoons.
3.) Sperm spoon
Like a Swiss army knife, a sperm spoon is very versatile for harvesting sperm. It is also part of the basic equipment for penis dipping.
You can collect drops of semen from the penis glans, but also collect leaking pre-ejaculate (pre-cum) from the penis shaft and collect semen ejaculated onto the stomach. They are also perfect for spooning out a cum-filled cunt or for collecting a creampie.
In practice, so-called baby food spoons made of silicone and black, long-handled spoons made of melamine have proven their worth.
Unlike metal spoons, they do not allow the cum to cool quickly and the edges are rounded.
We recommend the following:
- Nuby ID5377 — Long silicone teat spoon, colorful
- Cabilock 6 pieces Asian soup spoon made of melamine, black
- HONG KONG Melamine party spoon, black
All models have a deep bowl (spoon bowl), which can also safely catch surprisingly large amounts of sperm.
Summary: Penis Edging Is the Hottest Thing a Man Can Experience!
We hope that this cuckold guide has given you some practical ideas for penis edging.
Basically, all ejaculation techniques are similar in that the man learns to recognize the point of no return in good time and that the woman stops stimulating his cock IMMEDIATELY just before his orgasm.
As the ejaculation reflex cannot kick in due to the lack of “residual” stimulation for an orgasm, this results in a mixture of extreme frustration and unexpected feelings of pleasure for the man! The penis goes completely crazy and leaks or squirts precum violently.
If you manage to ruin his orgasm 3–5 times, the man will be rewarded with an unforgettable mega-orgasm at the end. The ruined orgasms are agonizing, but at the same time pretty much the hottest thing a man can enjoy sexually.
All six of the above-mentioned release techniques can be learned in a relatively short time. After just a few weeks, you’ll be a well-coordinated team.
Orgasm control with hand, mouth and sex toys are suitable for beginners. Advanced users can learn edging during sex and prostate play. Finally, professionals love to ruin the male orgasm several times during strap-on dildo sex.
In general, get into the habit of collecting pre-cum (also known as pre-ejaculate) and semen with a spoon and a black plate or bowl during your edging games to recycle the hot, sweet love cream.
Although it sounds totally controversial, Cum Control will give your sex life a huge boost and will massively bond your partnership. These penis edging ceremonies undoubtedly even have spiritual qualities.
Further Sources on the Subject of Penis Edging:
- nice-magazin.de: Milking the prostate: This is how the erotic forced desemination works
- Nandisa: Harvesting Cum
- CumClinic.com — Cock milking and orgasm control
- Dominante-gruesse — Ruined orgasm — Cum without climax
- MeanMassage — orgasm control, cock milking ruined orgasm
- FemDomEmpire — BDSM, FemDom, Milking penis, Learn to swallow your own cum
- EdgeQueens — Different Penis Edging Methods
- ClubTug — Dominant penis milking & orgasm ruining (various handjobs )
- MilkingTable — Penises are milked on a milking table
- FinishHim — cocks are milked and their orgasms are ruined by edging
- Why you should milk your cuckold’s prostate regularly
- Let It Cum!
- The Female Edgepert 2
- Deep Edging (1)
- Ruined Orgasm
- The Scope of Manual Penis-Loving
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