Penis Edging Guide for Couples: How to Milk a Penis?

6 Cock Milking Techniques for Harvesting Sperm Through Joint Edging

Since you’ve found this cuck­old blog arti­cle, you’ve prob­a­bly already come across the terms “penis edg­ing”, “orgasm ruin­ing” and “orgasm con­trol”. The aim of this stim­u­la­tion tech­nique is a con­trolled and orgasm-free milk­ing of the penis in order to trick the refrac­to­ry phase.

Unfor­tu­nate­ly, there is a lack of con­crete exam­ples and prac­ti­cal instruc­tions in the Ger­man lan­guage. In our guide 7 rea­sons to milk the cuck­old by penis edg­ing, we have already explained why you should learn orgasm control.

In the fol­low­ing guide, we would like to explain to you how you can per­form penis edg­ing togeth­er as a cou­ple using six desem­i­na­tion tech­niques. In addi­tion to numer­ous tips, you will also find out how you can uti­lize your love juices and which aids are suit­able for har­vest­ing semen.

Please leave a com­ment below the guide if you have any ques­tions, com­ments or would like to share your expe­ri­ences and sug­ges­tions with us.

Six Techniques for Milking the Cuckold Through Penis Edging

There are sev­er­al very good ways for cou­ples to pre­vent the male ejac­u­la­tion reflex from being trig­gered. The trick is for the part­ner to ruin his orgasm at the PONR (point of no return) in time.

Below we explain six tech­niques on HOW you can per­form penis edg­ing togeth­er as a couple:

Penis Edging by Hand Using the Start-Stop Method

The best way to wank off a penis by edg­ing is by jerk­ing off by hand.

By using dif­fer­ent jerk-off inter­vals, grip tech­niques, and pres­sure, the part­ner can bring her cuck­old’s or slave’s cock to the point of no return in a very con­trolled and extreme­ly tar­get­ed manner.

The woman feels any twitch­es, sees the ure­thral open­ing and can react imme­di­ate­ly when the ejac­u­la­tion reflex sets in short­ly before his orgasm.

In our prac­ti­cal guide Penis Edg­ing Game “The Sperm Har­vest” you can find detailed infor­ma­tion about this method of penis milking.

Start-Stop Jerking Technique Instructions:

• The man should be in a supine posi­tion, tied up and blindfolded.
• The num­ber of ruined orgasms should be agreed.
• Start a smart­phone or kitchen timer when the man is only allowed to reach his final orgasm (30, 60, 90, 120 minutes).
• Have a plate or small bowl of sperm ready to catch drops of desire and pre-ejac­u­late. Have a plas­tic spoon ready.
• The man uses his thumb, index fin­ger and mid­dle fin­ger to indi­cate how close he is to the point of no return. (Thumb up = every­thing ok; thumb index fin­ger = cau­tion!; thumb index fin­ger mid­dle fin­ger = dan­ger of squirting!!!)
• The penis is pam­pered, stroked and jerked off at intervals.
• At the begin­ning, it is advis­able to jerk off in inter­vals of 50. Then stop, count to 5 in your head and start the inter­val wank­ing again.

• When the man stretch­es out his thumb and index fin­ger, you become very atten­tive. You will quick­ly get a feel­ing for when you need to reduce the start-stop-fast jerk­ing to the 30, 20 and 10 sec­ond inter­vals. How­ev­er, strict­ly adhere to the 5‑second paus­es so that the penis can calm down and you have more control!
• Then it gets inter­est­ing: as soon as the orgasm thresh­old is clos­er and the man stretch­es out his thumb, index fin­ger and mid­dle fin­ger, only jerk off in 6‑second inter­vals. So: 6x quick wank, hand off; 6x quick wank, hand off; 6x quick wank, hand off. …and so on…
• If the penis twitch­es, remove your hand IMMEDIATELY!
• At some point the time has come! The point of no return sets in: The man moans loud­ly and his cock twitch­es! Ruin the orgasm by tak­ing your hand away from the cock IMMEDIATELY. Quick­ly hold a sperm bowl, plate or glass under the penis to catch any leak­ing pre­cum and sperm!

The Ejaculation Reflex Is Canceled!

The penis quiv­ers and twitch­es vio­lent­ly dur­ing suc­cess­ful orgasm ruina­tion. The glans is plump, shiny dark red, the veins pro­trude wide­ly. The tes­ti­cles are close to the body and the ure­thra is wide open. Most of the time, the impos­ing cock bounces up and down vio­lent­ly and des­per­ate­ly and can even make stir­ring move­ments sideways.

While the man moans in agony and despair, pre­cum runs or squirts out of the ure­thra (the penis cries! ^^). The pre-ejac­u­late can now be returned to the cuck­old or slave via the mouth if the man wish­es to recy­cle sperm.

Then the start-stop game starts all over again. Depend­ing on how well-rehearsed and expe­ri­enced the cou­ple is with orgasm con­trol, the orgasm can be ruined two to a max­i­mum of six times. The intense spec­ta­cle is extreme­ly arous­ing for the woman.

Orgasm Control Through Blow Jobs

It is also pos­si­ble to ruin the male orgasm sev­er­al times by blow­ing and lick­ing. The main advan­tage is that the woman can feel every “tiny” twitch or penis move­ment with her lips and tongue.

As with the start-stop jerk­ing method, we rec­om­mend that you decide on the num­ber of ruins and the three-fin­ger dis­play rule togeth­er before­hand. You should also agree on the dura­tion of the edg­ing ses­sion before­hand and clar­i­fy who should be respon­si­ble for swal­low­ing pre­cum, drops of desire and sperm. (Ide­al­ly, the cuck­old should do this!)

The penis can be stim­u­lat­ed very inten­sive­ly with lips and tongue. The vac­u­um when suck­ing and the use of plen­ty of sali­va pro­vide addi­tion­al stimulation.

The point-of-no-return is announced by a deep moan from the man as well as vio­lent twitch­ing, throb­bing and quiv­er­ing of the penis. At the onset of orgasm, all stim­u­la­tion is stopped IMMEDIATELY so that orgasm can­not be reached!

Expe­ri­enced women can still touch the penis very, very light­ly with their tongue dur­ing orgasm. How­ev­er, this must be done very carefully.

Depend­ing on the dura­tion of the stim­u­la­tion, the num­ber of orgasm-free days before­hand and the degree of arousal, con­sid­er­able amounts of very sweet-tast­ing pre­cum can leak out or squirt vig­or­ous­ly. Depend­ing on the arrange­ment, the woman kiss­es her cuck­old or love slave with her tongue(snow­balling) and the edg­ing game goes into the next round. 

Penis Edging With Sex Toys

Expe­ri­ence has shown that cre­ative and play­ful cou­ples like to use sex toys in their love games. 

The Flesh­light mas­tur­ba­tor, which is placed over the erect penis and moved up and down, is high­ly rec­om­mend­ed for edg­ing games and orgasm training.

High-qual­i­ty penis vibra­tors, mas­sage guns and mas­sagers are anoth­er very good method of trig­ger­ing an orgasm and train­ing it at the point of no return.

Com­pared to stim­u­la­tion with the hands or mouth, how­ev­er, mas­tur­ba­tors and penis vibra­tors are very dif­fi­cult to con­trol. It can quick­ly lead to over­stim­u­la­tion, so that the cli­max is ruined a few (mil­li-) sec­onds too late.

We there­fore rec­om­mend that you count the sec­onds or strokes (up and down move­ments) of the sex toys silent­ly and take 5‑second breaks every now and then.

Prostate Stimulation and Ruining Orgasms Several Times in the Process

The prostate, which is locat­ed in a man’s rec­tum, is the male G‑spot and there­fore a very intense eroge­nous zone. 

The sex gland is filled with ejac­u­la­to­ry flu­id and has a lot of sen­so­ry and parasym­pa­thet­ic nerves that play a role in erec­tion and ejaculation. 

Unfor­tu­nate­ly, very few men are aware of the enor­mous sex­u­al excitabil­i­ty of the high­ly sen­si­tive prostate through touch. 

Through active stim­u­la­tion with an anal plug, fin­ger, dil­do or oth­er objects, some men can reach orgasm sim­ply by play­ing with the prostate. If a man engages in prostate stim­u­la­tion, he will be reward­ed with intense sen­sa­tions, full-body goose bumps, pow­er­ful spurts of semen and extreme­ly intense orgasms.

As a cou­ple, you can stim­u­late the prostate very well togeth­er. We rec­om­mend that you per­form an active prostate mas­sage in com­bi­na­tion with one of the three stim­u­la­tion tech­niques men­tioned above (start-stop jerk­ing, oral penis stim­u­la­tion or mas­sager / masturbator).

If the prostate is stim­u­lat­ed dur­ing a longer penis edg­ing ses­sion, mas­sive leak­age and pow­er­ful squirt­ing of love juice occurs. This can result in a third to twice as much love juice being released as usual.

In Fem­Dom and BDSM,“milk­ing the prostate with­out orgasm” and ” ruin­ing mul­ti­ple orgasms” is incred­i­bly pop­u­lar. This involves using suit­able dil­dos or fin­ger tech­niques to induce ejac­u­la­tion with­out orgasm (see pho­to below). 

Prostate Milking With a Strap-on (Strap-on Dildo) Penis Edging

A very pow­er­ful and part­ner-bond­ing edg­ing method is to pen­e­trate the man’s anus with a strap-on (strap-on dil­do) while edg­ing the penis with the man­u­al start-stop-wank technique.

How­ev­er, this requires the cou­ple to have exten­sive expe­ri­ence with anal pen­e­tra­tion and prostate stimulation. 

The trick is to find the per­fect strap-on dil­do that does­n’t cause the man any pain. 

The man must be com­plete­ly relaxed and enjoy anal stim­u­la­tion with a dil­do. He should also be no stranger to the intense feel­ing of ruin­ing an orgasm

After an anal show­er and gen­tle fore­play, the woman pen­e­trates very slow­ly with lots and lots of lubricant. 

We rec­om­mend that you pro­ceed accord­ing to the instruc­tions described above “Penis Edg­ing by hand using the start-stop method”. It is pos­si­ble to ruin the orgasm one to six times dur­ing anal fuck­ing. Even milk­ing or even an orgasm with­out penis stim­u­la­tion is possible.

Strap-on fuck­ing leads to incred­i­ble phys­i­cal reac­tions from the man. From full-body goose bumps, to extreme­ly loud moan­ing, to uncon­trolled, spas­mod­ic mus­cle twitch­ing, the man expe­ri­ences inde­scrib­able pleasure.

Usu­al­ly, very pow­er­ful foun­tains of pre-ejac­u­late and sperm are eject­ed, or rather, con­sid­er­able amounts of love juice leak out.

We there­fore rec­om­mend that you place a sperm cup or a sperm plate on the man’s stom­ach to col­lect love juices and allow the man to recy­cle them oral­ly. If the man is being fucked from behind in the dog­gy posi­tion, you should also place a plate under the penis.

Orgasm Control During Sex

You can also prac­tice effec­tive penis edg­ing dur­ing nor­mal sex. Even if this method sounds very banal, it requires max­i­mum self-con­trol and a cer­tain amount of expe­ri­ence with orgasm con­trol from the man.

Dur­ing fuck­ing, a man very quick­ly reach­es the point where he real­izes that orgasm is immi­nent. He needs to know when the point-of-no-return (PONR) sets in. Before the ejac­u­la­tion reflex sets in, he must pull his penis out of the vagi­na IMMEDIATELY and avoid touch­ing the penis at all.

The penis is nat­u­ral­ly real­ly angry about the ruined orgasm! It quiv­ers, bounces up and down, twitch­es vio­lent­ly and squirts one to three pow­er­ful squirts of pre-ejac­u­late onto the mons vener­is (mons pubis), into the wom­an’s pubic hair and abdomen. Some­times the penis sim­ply leaks.

To the wom­an’s delight, after a break of 30 to 60 sec­onds, the man can become erect again with a stiff penis and con­tin­ue fuck­ing. Using this tech­nique, it is pos­si­ble to ruin the orgasm one to four times. Achiev­ing it more often is more of a feat due to the intense vagi­nal stimulation.

The final, real orgasm is extreme­ly intense. The man then usu­al­ly fucks very quick­ly and hard, which in turn ben­e­fits the woman.

It goes with­out say­ing that real cuck­olds lick all the leaked and squirt­ed sperm clean from the wom­an’s body.

Utilization of Milked Love Juices (Sperm Recycling)

As a cuck­old cou­ple, you should gen­er­al­ly get into the habit of always col­lect­ing and recy­cling your love juices from your penis and vagina. 

This is because semen and pre-ejac­u­late should nev­er dis­ap­pear care­less­ly into bed linen, mat­tress­es or tow­els and cer­tain­ly not be dis­posed of with Kleenex, hand­ker­chiefs or toi­let paper. It is a basic task of a cuck­old to clean up spilled love juices.

One of the rea­sons why penis edg­ing is so much fun is that enor­mous amounts of pre-ejac­u­late and semen can be milked off. Depend­ing on the select­ed ejac­u­la­tion tech­nique, the penis will inevitably leak sev­er­al times, copi­ous­ly or even squirt one to three fountains. 

It makes sense to col­lect the hot cum direct­ly with a glass, plate, spoon or bowl in order to use it for fur­ther mess­es. Black bowls and plates have proven their worth in practice. 

The col­lect­ed penis juice can be used for many things: Rub­bing on nip­ples, drink­ing cum by the hotwife, swal­low­ing cum by the cuck­old, rub­bing on the hotwife’s breasts, freez­ing as a cum ice cube, as a lubri­cant for dil­dos and much more.

You can find out which tools are suit­able for sperm har­vest­ing below.

The leak­ing pre-ejac­u­late / pre­cum / pre-juice tastes very sweet & pleas­ant and is ide­al for cuck­olds or the hotwife to prac­tise swal­low­ing sperm!

Three Aids for Sperm Harvesting

As already men­tioned, drops of desire, cum and pre-ejac­u­late (pre­cum) should always be col­lect­ed with a plate or bowl and a spoon. In prac­tice, the fol­low­ing three uten­sils have proven to be effec­tive for col­lect­ing semen:

1.) Sperm plate

Plates are sim­ply excel­lent for col­lect­ing love juices dur­ing penis edg­ing. To ensure that the cum always looks appe­tiz­ing and pro­vides a good con­trast, we def­i­nite­ly rec­om­mend the col­or black. Black sperm plates are also fre­quent­ly used in Ger­man Goo Girls and Sper­ma-Stu­dio porn.

We rec­om­mend that you order three plate sizes: 

A 32 cm piz­za plate if the man wants to squirt real­ly hard while stand­ing or kneel­ing and does­n’t feel like hit­ting the table top. You can also use a large plate like this to seed cook­ies and cakes(cum food).

With a 25 cm din­ner plate, the penis can still squirt rel­a­tive­ly freely — how­ev­er, you should choose a steep ejac­u­la­tion angle. It is also great for catch­ing a creampie or when the woman milks the man from behind in the dog­gy posi­tion. This plate size is also ide­al for milk­ing the prostate with a strap-on dildo.

A small 19 cm break­fast plate is also prac­ti­cal as you can place it on the man’s stom­ach. Leak­ing and squirt­ing ejac­u­late can be collected.

In prac­tice, these three plates have proven to be excellent:

• Lumi­narc serv­ing plate Piz­za Friends 32 cm, black
• Lumi­narc Diwali Noir din­ner plate Opal 25 cm, black
• Lumi­narc Diwali Noir break­fast plate 19 cm, black

2.) Sperm bowl 

We have tried many bowls and dish­es for col­lect­ing semen and pre-ejac­u­late when milk­ing a penis. Not every­thing is suit­able as a sperm bowl.

In our opin­ion, so-called “spoon rests” from the kitchen are per­fect for milk­ing the penis and col­lect­ing semen, pre-cum and drops of desire.

The bowl can be eas­i­ly and con­ve­nient­ly placed under the penis and the cock cream can run or squirt direct­ly into it. The man can sit, lie or kneel dur­ing the edg­ing ses­sion. Real­ly very practical!

The great thing is that the bowls don’t let the sperm cool down. You can also eas­i­ly lick them clean again. 

It’s also cool that you can safe­ly store your sperm spoon in the spoon hold­er with­out it get­ting dirty dur­ing edg­ing breaks.

We can rec­om­mend two prac­ti­cal spoon holders:

• Calyp­so Basics by Reston Lloyd spoon rest made of melanin, black
• Zing Spoon Rest made from sil­i­cone, black

Alter­na­tive­ly, you can also use Chi­nese soup spoons.

3.) Sperm spoon

Like a Swiss army knife, a sperm spoon is very ver­sa­tile for har­vest­ing sperm. It is also part of the basic equip­ment for penis dipping.

You can col­lect drops of semen from the penis glans, but also col­lect leak­ing pre-ejac­u­late (pre-cum) from the penis shaft and col­lect semen ejac­u­lat­ed onto the stom­ach. They are also per­fect for spoon­ing out a cum-filled cunt or for col­lect­ing a creampie.

In prac­tice, so-called baby food spoons made of sil­i­cone and black, long-han­dled spoons made of melamine have proven their worth.

Unlike met­al spoons, they do not allow the cum to cool quick­ly and the edges are rounded.

We rec­om­mend the following:

• Nuby ID5377 — Long sil­i­cone teat spoon, colorful 
• Cabilock 6 pieces Asian soup spoon made of melamine, black
• HONG KONG Melamine par­ty spoon, black

All mod­els have a deep bowl (spoon bowl), which can also safe­ly catch sur­pris­ing­ly large amounts of sperm.

Summary: Penis Edging Is the Hottest Thing a Man Can Experience!

We hope that this cuck­old guide has giv­en you some prac­ti­cal ideas for penis edging.

Basi­cal­ly, all ejac­u­la­tion tech­niques are sim­i­lar in that the man learns to rec­og­nize the point of no return in good time and that the woman stops stim­u­lat­ing his cock IMMEDIATELY just before his orgasm.

As the ejac­u­la­tion reflex can­not kick in due to the lack of “resid­ual” stim­u­la­tion for an orgasm, this results in a mix­ture of extreme frus­tra­tion and unex­pect­ed feel­ings of plea­sure for the man! The penis goes com­plete­ly crazy and leaks or squirts pre­cum violently.

If you man­age to ruin his orgasm 3–5 times, the man will be reward­ed with an unfor­get­table mega-orgasm at the end. The ruined orgasms are ago­niz­ing, but at the same time pret­ty much the hottest thing a man can enjoy sexually.

All six of the above-men­tioned release tech­niques can be learned in a rel­a­tive­ly short time. After just a few weeks, you’ll be a well-coor­di­nat­ed team.

Orgasm con­trol with hand, mouth and sex toys are suit­able for begin­ners. Advanced users can learn edg­ing dur­ing sex and prostate play. Final­ly, pro­fes­sion­als love to ruin the male orgasm sev­er­al times dur­ing strap-on dil­do sex.

In gen­er­al, get into the habit of col­lect­ing pre-cum (also known as pre-ejac­u­late) and semen with a spoon and a black plate or bowl dur­ing your edg­ing games to recy­cle the hot, sweet love cream. 

Although it sounds total­ly con­tro­ver­sial, Cum Con­trol will give your sex life a huge boost and will mas­sive­ly bond your part­ner­ship. These penis edg­ing cer­e­monies undoubt­ed­ly even have spir­i­tu­al qualities.

Further Sources on the Subject of Penis Edging:

• nice-magazin.de: Milk­ing the prostate: This is how the erot­ic forced desem­i­na­tion works
• Nan­disa: Har­vest­ing Cum
• CumClinic.com — Cock milk­ing and orgasm control
• Dom­i­nante-gruesse — Ruined orgasm — Cum with­out climax
• Mean­Mas­sage — orgasm con­trol, cock milk­ing ruined orgasm
• Fem­DomEm­pire — BDSM, Fem­Dom, Milk­ing penis, Learn to swal­low your own cum
• Edge­Queens — Dif­fer­ent Penis Edg­ing Methods
• Club­Tug — Dom­i­nant penis milk­ing & orgasm ruin­ing (var­i­ous hand­jobs )
• Milk­ingTable — Penis­es are milked on a milk­ing table
• Fin­ish­Him — cocks are milked and their orgasms are ruined by edging 
• Why you should milk your cuck­old’s prostate regularly
• Let It Cum!
• The Female Edgepert 2
• Deep Edg­ing (1)
• Ruined Orgasm
• The Scope of Man­u­al Penis-Loving