Cum Harvest: Ruining the Male Orgasm Multiple Times and Milking the Penis in a Controlled Manner
Many sexually open-minded women, hotwifes, and dominatrices love to playfully tease their partner, husband, cuckold or slave. Tease and denial is a very popular type of play. Some also call it penis edging, cum control, or orgasm control.
In this guide, we would like to give you various suggestions and tips on how you can have an unforgettable hot edging session as a couple.
The aim of this ‘cum harvest’ edging game is to ruin the man’s orgasm three to five times. Pre-ejaculate (precum, pre-cum, pre cum) will run or squirt out of the penis, which is called “milking the penis” or “harvesting sperm”.
The duration of the game can be 30, 60, 90, or 120 minutes.
You can use this edging game as regular potency training, to practice swallowing sperm, or to reward or punish the cuckold.
We hope you enjoy reading these instructions as well as copying them and look forward to your comments, ideas, and tips.
1.) Plan the “Cum Harvest” Edging Game and Set the Rules of the Game
Decide before you start the edging game Cum Harvest:
- Where and in what position should the edging game be played?
- How often should the orgasm be ruined?
- How long does the man have to endure the game?
- Which sex toys will be used?
- Should BDSM (e.g. penis bondage, nipple play, candle wax) also be used?
- Are anal toys, a strap-on fuck, or a prostate massage desired?
- How are love drops, precum, and sperm collected?
- Does the cuckold have to swallow his own sperm?
Write down your rules, ideas, and wishes on a piece of paper and try to stick to them.
The Edging Position
The man should lie relaxed on his back on a bed or couch. He may well feel somewhat exposed. For example, on two quilts folded in four, or a pillow under his bottom — so that he lies a little higher.
Advanced men can also kneel or sit on the edge of a chair, leaning backward with their legs spread wide apart and a pillow behind them.
“Standing up won’t work as well, as most men eventually slump down.
Bound and Isolate the Cuckold
We recommend that the man should be tied up and blindfolded in the Cum Harvest game. It is effective to tie his hands above or behind his head. In the FemDom area, tying the wrists to the thighs or lower legs with bondage ropes is also popular.
The man can also be “isolated” with quiet music (trance, esoteric music, the sound of the sea) using headphones so that he can concentrate more on his senses.
Determine the Number of Orgasm Ruins
To make the edging game a little challenging, we recommend that you perform at least two orgasm ruins.
Three ruins are ideal and even five orgasm ruins are really cool for advanced players in order to milk the penis completely dry.
From the fifth time onwards, “milking the penis” becomes a real torture, as the prostate is already empty. However, more than six ruinations are not possible.
Determine the Duration of Edging
We recommend that you perform the edging for at least 30 minutes. However, 60 to 90 minutes is ideal. However, playful cuckold couples also enjoy 120 minutes.
You should set the time using a smartphone timer. It is binding for the cuckold or slave! Premature “coming to orgasm” will be sanctioned with a punishment!
You can also use an “Edging Hero”, “Cock Hero” or “Edge Hero” website, where you can set times, jerk-off speeds, and intervals. For example https://de.edgemeplease.com
The Three-Finger Rule
It is helpful if the couple agrees on the three-finger rule:
- Thumbs up = OK! All clear, no risk of cumming.
- Thumb and index finger out = CAUTION! Stimulate more carefully! Otherwise, I’ll squirt. Recommendation: Switch to “six start-stop intervals”.
- Extend thumb, index finger, and middle finger = DANGER! Only stimulate very carefully. Highest risk of cumming! Recommendation: Only “three start-stop intervals”.
The STOP Rule
The most important rule in the “Cum Harvest” game is the STOP rule!
The man should be unmistakably clear that he is not allowed to reach orgasm. He must shout “Stop!” in good time at the onset of orgasm.
If the cuckold says or shouts “STOP”, the woman must IMMEDIATELY remove her hand from the penis and cease all stimulation. In most cases, the release of precum and uncontrolled twitching and quivering of the penis indicates that an orgasm has been ruined.
Establish Cuckold Punishments:
To make sure the man really sticks to the rules, you should set unpleasant sexual punishments together. The worst punishment is if the man does not shout “STOP” in time or orgasms without permission.
Examples of punishments:
- wearing clothespins on the nipples for 10 minutes
- a strap-on dildo fuck
- Anal fucking with a dildo
- Wearing a chastity belt / penis cage
- Slapping with a paddle or hand on the buttocks
Minor offenses could also result in minor punishments:
- refusing to swallow cum
- refusing something
2.) Prepare the “Cum Harvest” Game
It is important that the man has not had an orgasm for a few days so that the prostate is well-filled. It makes sense for cuckolds to keep an orgasm calendar.
Once you have agreed on the day and time, you should prepare the game as follows:
- The room should be at a warm temperature.
- The man should lie, sit, or kneel in a relaxed and comfortable position.
- Place a towel under his bottom! Plenty of sperm can squirt!
- Before stimulation, you can prepare:
- Massage oil
- Massage device (e.g. Hitachi Magic Wand)
- Masturbators (e.g. Tenga, Fleshlight)
- Bondage ropes for penis bondage
- several penis rings
- nipple toys if necessary (e.g. nipple chain, nipple suction cups, wooden clothespins)
- Woman’s panties / knickers
- Feathers to stroke
- Sperm plate, sperm bowl, or sperm glass to collect sperm
- Sperm spoon to catch drops of desire, precum, and sperm directly.
3.) Instructions for the Woman: How to Play the Edging Game
Are you ready, is the cuckold fixed, are the toys, spoon, and bowl in place? Then you can finally get started with the Cum Harvest game:
- Start the timer.
- Spoil the penis at the start of the game. Cum, rub, knead, kiss, and blow the penis extensively and slowly. The initial aim is to make the man feel relaxed and comfortable.
- Start to wank the penis at lightning-fast intervals of 50. Then count to ten and start again.
- When the cuckold’s breathing quickens, only jerk off in intervals of 30. Count to 5 and start again.
- Once you have agreed on the three-finger rule, he will eventually show “2”. From now on you have to be more attentive!
Only jerk off at 20-finger intervals with a 3‑second break and observe whether the urethral opening widens, the penis starts to twitch, pulsate, or if other signals come from the man! Then stop all stimulation and count to 5.
Here We Go! The First Orgasm Is Ruined!
- It won’t be long before the cuckold is on the verge of orgasm. When he indicates “3” with his fingers, it gets exciting!
- Your goal is to hit the point of no return, i.e. the point where the orgasm can no longer be stopped!
- Only jerk off in intervals of 10 with a 3‑second break.
- Feel your way closer and closer to orgasm. Reduce to intervals of 5 or 3 and extend the wanking breaks according to how you feel.
- Strong signs of impending ejaculation are when the testicles are very tightly contracted, the glans looks deep red and shiny. The veins protrude strongly and the opening of the vas deferens is wide open. A crystal-clear drop of desire forms.
Harvest Your Cum
- If you have the feeling that your man is about to orgasm, place a sperm bowl or a sperm plate under the penis.
- As soon as the man shouts “STOP” or the penis starts to twitch violently, stop all stimulation IMMEDIATELY. The incipient orgasm must be stopped as soon as possible!
- Your man may groan violently and even rebel because this orgasm ruining is really agonizingly intense. The penis can rotate uncontrollably, bounce up and down and twitch violently. Precum and sperm can squirt out very far in 1–3 breathtakingly violent spurts.
- But it’s important to keep a cool head here! Don’t be distracted by all your husband’s fuss and concentrate on catching his love nectar.
- Your cuckold is in an extremely highly aroused phase! Take advantage of this and let him lick his own juice off the spoon or sperm plate. Sperm recycling is important to teach him to swallow sperm. Don’t accept any evasion, if necessary fixate his head and tell him in a serious voice “Be good! Open your mouth!”. He will obey!
Tease and Denial (Orgasm Control): Rounds 2, 3, 4 and 5:
- Well done. Your man remains horny, and his penis is nice and hard…
- Don’t give your man time to recover. Use lots and lots of oil and start again with very fast 30 jerk-off intervals and a 3‑second break.
- When the penis is rock hard again, it’s time to add some variety and “drive your man crazy”! Stimulate the penis as you wish:
- Blow, suck, and lick the penis. The underside of the glans at the frenulum is particularly sensitive.
- Put on a cock ring or tie the cock off with a rope to cause blood to pool.
- Wank the cock with a masturbator or a pocket pussy.
- Use a penis massager.
- Don’t forget to pamper his other erogenous zones: Mouth, neck, ears, nipples, anus.
- The man is incredibly resistant to pain at his most aroused! Use weights, clamps, rulers, floggers, paddles, whips, wax, and ice cubes on the nipples.
- Combine edging with anal pleasure via finger, dildo, anal vibrator, anal plug, inflatable plug, strap-on or fucking machine! This stimulates the prostate so that even more sperm leaks out. We guarantee to ruin the man’s goosebumps during orgasm!
Fast Jerk-off Intervals and Alternating Penis Games!
Attention: Despite your penis games, your interval wanking is very, very important! You will quickly get a feeling for which interval is best. The intervals should become shorter and shorter and only be performed with very light pressure from your thumb, index finger, and middle finger.
Your penis games and your wanking intervals will inevitably lead to ejaculation. Your man will start to trick you so that he can secretly reach orgasm!!!
So be very, very attentive! Stop any stimulation IMMEDIATELY at the slightest twitch, spring, or tremor! This will bring your man as close as possible to his point of no return.
Which will surprise you: If you ruin your man’s orgasm a few more times, precum, love drops, and sperm will just run out. It doesn’t actually squirt at all. You can easily collect the hot cream with a spoon or bowl and feed your cuckold.
The Finale: The Agonizing ‘Dry’ Orgasm
After four to five ruined orgasms, the prostate is practically milked dry. Nevertheless, the cuckold begs for his redeeming orgasm. But it is anything but relaxed for him!
The dry orgasm without ejaculation is unspeakably intense, almost agonizing, and associated with a violent discharge of pleasure!
Moaning loudly and twitching violently, the cuckold wrings out only tiny droplets of sperm. Hotwife is massively aroused by this spectacle.
The orgasm can be intensified even more if the man has to wear an anal plug (preferably Nexus or Aneros). Almost without exception, the orgasm leads to cramps and an indescribably intense feeling of pleasure!
Cum Harvesting With Spoons, Plates, and Bowls!
As already mentioned above, you should agree that neither drops of desire nor precum or sperm are wasted. This is because, during tease and denial play, the man remains extremely sexually aroused — which allows the man to receive sperm without any problems. Even larger amounts of ejaculate are no problem to swallow.
We therefore recommend that you order black breakfast plates, black dinner plates, black bowls, Chinese soup spoons, and silicone spoon holders from Amazon or eBay to collect love juices.
As already mentioned, silicone spoons are ideal for baby food. Unlike classic stainless steel spoons, they do not scratch the penis, they are warm, the sperm stays warm on them and the cum looks aesthetically pleasing. Black egg spoons or black, long-handled ice cream spoons are also ideal for receiving or feeding cuckolds.
A little tip: An extensive cum harvest is also ideal for making sperm ice cubes. Simply milk the penis several times in a container (film can, Tupperware spice jar, ice cube maker) and freeze. After three to five ruins, you will have an impressive amount of cum. 🙂
Conclusion: The Edging Game “The Cum Harvest” Is Worthwhile
Couples who deal with orgasm control know that a ruined orgasm can trigger one of the hottest and most intense feelings of pleasure in men and women.
Since you can easily ruin the male orgasm three to five times, this is perfect for extensive edging play.
The woman can expect a breathtaking spectacle, a certain feeling of power, gloating, and maximum arousal.
We hope that we have been able to give you some great ideas and tips for an unforgettable and beautifully kinky FemDom evening with the edging game “The Cum Harvest”.
If you would like to share your opinions, additions, or comments with us, please write us a comment.
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