“Tease and Denial” — The Pleasure Kick in Man and Woman
“Tease and Denial” is an English language term for “making horny and denying”.
This is a sexual practice in which a person (man or woman) is “led” near climax several times over a long period of time without reaching the final satisfaction, orgasm. The technique is commonly used, especially in the BDSM field.
A Tease & Denial session is usually performed over several hours in the supine position and is not to be confused with intentionally inducing Ruined Orgasms. Ruined climaxes would be completely contraindicated here!
The continuous stimulation at the “orgasm edge” is heaven and hell at the same time! So stimulation means are suitable hands, mouth, fingers, massage oil, vibrators, massagers, prostate / G‑spot toys, anal toys, and masturbators.
Attaching clamps to nipples and using extreme dildos and vibrators are usually considered very pleasurable by both man and woman at this stage.
Unconsciously, the infliction of pain increases pleasure enormously once again. Attaching restraints, blindfolds and music headphones, or even a penis bondage are very appropriate and are usually readily accepted.
Edging Closer and Closer to the “Point of No Return”!
The goal of “Tease and Denial?” is to get closer and closer to the “point of no return”. Once you reach this point, it is no longer possible to stop the orgasm. The point is also called PONR.
This sexual game, in which the woman or man brings his partner to the brink of orgasm, is an extremely intense experience for both the passive and the active partner.
Properly executed, a bird feather or a tip of the tongue on the clitoris or the glans of the penis is enough, in the end, to finally trigger an extremely violent orgasm after several hours of pleasure torture.
The procedure is simple and extremely challenging for both partners at the same time. The active partner plays his “slave” continuously at the orgasm limit. The passive partner has to shout loudly “STOP” or the traffic light code “RED” every time, so that the active partner can stop the orgasm in time. The stimulation of the sexual organs is reduced more and more in the course of the session until the orgasm limit is hardly endurable.
The gigantic build-up of pleasure leads to enormous sexual tension and remarkable physical and mental reactions.
Shortly before orgasm, a point is always reached where the penis or vagina begins to twitch and “leak” uncontrollably. For many women, the pleasure discharges in a liberating squirt jet.
When the orgasm is finally allowed to happen, it is extremely intense, impulsive and loud. Many women and men cramp in their orgasms and eject enormous amounts of sperm, pussy juice, and squirting fluid! The active partner mentally experiences the pleasure of the passive partner in his own body. Such intense orgasms provide a very close fusion of the couple’s bond.
Orgasm Ruining Should Always Be Avoided and Punished!
Even if both partners try very hard not to come to orgasm during the tease & denial game, this borderline transgression sometimes unfortunately does happen.
It is important that the executing person does not show any mercy and aborts the stimulation hard and jerky!
A ruined orgasm is an extreme spasm of pleasure with incomprehensible emotions.
There is an abundance of precum (pre-cum) and sperm, and in the case of the woman, enormous amounts of pussy juice and squirt come out. The ruined orgasms do not provide the usual collapse of erection or satisfaction of orgasm. They intensify the feeling of pleasure once again.
But beware However, during an extended “Tease and Denial session”, you should avoid ruining the orgasm as much as possible and also punish it severely!
The “Tease and Denial” Practice Is Also Called:
- T&D
- Edging (teasing)Tease Handjob (teasing wanking)
- Orgasm ruination or ruin his orgasm
- Orgasm denial (denial of orgasm)
- Drain a mans cock
- Post Orgasm Torture
- Karezza
- handjob until he cums without hand
Tease & Denial as a Pair
Tease & Denial is perfect for couples. These games can be played for several hours and even extended to several days or weeks. In a partnership, T&D provides both sexual partners with a significant increase in attention in everyday life and a clearly noticeable increase in sexual pleasure.
As already written, the increase in pleasure of Tease and Denial goes hand in hand with a reduced pain threshold and is therefore often combined with BDSM. This in turn increases the sexual stimuli and increases the pleasure.
For example, the active partner can spill wax on the nipples and beat it off with a crop. The strong twirling of the nipples is also accepted gratefully and moaning loudly.
Especially for a man, the orgasm pressure is so enormous after a few days that he should be stopped from masturbating under the threat of a chastity belt if necessary.
Even if the impression arises that T&D is only something for men, it should be emphatically pointed out that women also react incredibly violently to this kind of stimulation!
Edging can certainly be used to teach his husband to swallow sperm.
Tease & Denial as a Single
Tease and Denial can also be practiced alone during masturbation with strong self-discipline.
Preventing an orgasm and permanent stimulation at the orgasm boundary for several hours or days enriches masturbation enormously.
With the regular stimulation at the orgasm edge also the own sperm swallowing can be trained excellently.
Positive Reactions of Edging — Games Are:
increased secretion of a crystal clear, very slippery fluid from vagina and penis
- Squirting in women
- extremely strong sensation of pleasure
- very pronounced dirty talking
- extremely hard erection
- clear protruding of the clit
- clear protruding of the penis glans from the foreskin
- Swelling of the labia and the G‑spot
- extreme widening of the vagina
- reduced pain threshold (one feels pleasure in pain)
- uncontrolled muscle movements
- increased desire for anal satisfaction
- reduced inhibition threshold before sperm and body fluids
Negative Reactions of Tease & Denial Are:
- sexual frustration when orgasms are allowed too infrequently
- blue testicles
- Emergence of inclinations and sexual fantasies that other people classify as “perverted”.
- extreme sexual thoughts during the day, which lead to concentration problems
- frequent erections in men
- undesirable wet panties in women
Conclusion: Chastity + Tease and Denial Are an Extremely Horny Symbiosis!
Tease & Denial, also called Orgasm control or Edging, is an unimaginably horny game. For hours or even days, the person being played on is made to squirm visually, psychologically and mechanically. Mercilessly, each incipient orgasm is interrupted and immediately ruined. The enormous amount of pussy juice or precum (pre-ejaculate) is collected and recycled with every drop with a sperm plate or a cum bowl.
For outside vanilla sex people, it is completely incomprehensible why one would ruin the orgasm. People who practice edging love the game.
The build-up of unimaginable lust, extreme libido, and the urge to finally climax drives the person so crazy that she almost desperately begs for closeness, touch, pleasure, mild pain, and release!
A few days of forced chastity, shackles, an eye mask and headphones with music increases the horny feeling immeasurably.
While the played person enjoys, loves, regrets, and hates the teasing, the dominant play partner can enjoy his power, have fun and savor every second of your whining.
The redeeming ecstasy at the end of the game feels the pleasure slave / pleasure slave all over the body. After the unimaginably intense orgasm, the eyes of the played on shine. An intense indescribably satisfying feeling of happiness overflows him. If the partner wants, he can torture his sweetheart with Post Orgasm Torture. 😉
More Sources:
- Tease & Denial — Ruined Orgasm (ruined orgasm)
- bdsmlr.com: myreallovelymind
- bdsmlr.com: degradationstation
- bdsmlr.com: female-orgasm-denial