Tutorial to Ruin Your Orgasm Together With Your Woman

The term “orgasm con­trol” for men refers to the penis stim­u­la­tion near of their orgasm lim­it. In this process, the asso­ci­at­ed orgasms are “ruined” sev­er­al times over and over again.

Orgasm control after 7 days of orgasm ban: Hotwife jerks cock and ruins climax
Orgasm con­trol after 7 days of orgasm ban: Hotwife jerks cock and ruins his climax

This ancient Asian sex­u­al prac­tice is nowa­days also pop­u­lar in the Euro­pean and Amer­i­can BDSM scene.

It is also called “edg­ing”, “start-stop method” or “tease and denial”.

Very many men who are mar­ried or in a com­mit­ted rela­tion­ship have a desire for their part­ner to take con­trol of their penis. Unfor­tu­nate­ly, very few women can do any­thing with it!

We would like to help you with the fol­low­ing tips to inspire your part­ner to the tech­niques of orgasm control.

In this tuto­r­i­al, we’ll also explain inter­est­ing tips and ideas on how to milk your penis with­out orgasm, while col­lect­ing your horny sperm to recycle.

Of course, we are inter­est­ed in your expe­ri­ences, ideas, and opin­ions. How did you man­age to get your part­ner excit­ed about orgasm con­trol? How does it feel to ruin the orgasm? Did you learn to swal­low your own sperm this way? Please take a moment and leave a com­ment below this post.


What Is a Ruined Orgasm?

A ruined orgasm is when a man or woman abrupt­ly stops all stim­u­la­tion to the penis, cli­toris, and vagi­na as soon as the per­son begins to have an orgasm.

Ruined cumshot: The penis bobs, twitches, bounces, and curses!
Ruined cumshot: The penis bobs, twitch­es, bounces, and curses!

By abrupt­ly stop­ping the stim­u­la­tion, all sex­u­al sat­is­fac­tion is denied, as well as the beau­ti­ful, sat­is­fy­ing feel­ing of orgasm.

“Orgasm ruin­ing” is extreme­ly excru­ci­at­ing and high­ly intense. It can even hap­pen that the man’s legs sag away while standing!

Although the orgasm denial leads to an unimag­in­ably enor­mous frus­tra­tion, it para­dox­i­cal­ly increas­es the horni­ness extreme­ly immea­sur­ably. Say: Through this ordeal, the sex­u­al plea­sure of the man becomes greater and greater!

Due to the split­ting of ejac­u­la­tion and orgasm, large amounts of desire drops, pre­cum (pre-ejac­u­late) and sperm leak from the penis. The penis can be milked in this way, vir­tu­al­ly com­plete­ly orgasm-free. A prostate mas­sage or an anal plug, or an anal dil­do rein­forces the already crass feel­ing again!

Depend­ing on edg­ing dura­tion, excite­ment lev­el, and sev­er­al days of orgasm renun­ci­a­tion, how­ev­er, the tail can also be extreme­ly strong, over a meter far in one to three gigan­tic spurts of sack cream splash!

What Is Edging?

Edg­ing refers to the grad­ual, mul­ti­ple approach­es to the edge of sex­u­al orgasm through mul­ti­ple orgasm ruin­ing.

Penis edging timer with smartphone timer-app
Penis edg­ing timer with smart­phone timer-app

This involves repeat­ed with­draw­al before final­ly reach­ing orgasm.

Such an edg­ing ses­sion may well last sev­er­al hours. The goal is to ruin the male cli­max over and over again, caus­ing the man to expe­ri­ence an unimag­in­ably vio­lent sen­su­al expe­ri­ence from a com­bi­na­tion of agony and pleasure.

The goal of edg­ing is that it inten­si­fies orgasm and, in men, enor­mous­ly increas­es ejac­u­late vol­ume and ejac­u­la­to­ry force.

Edg­ing can be per­formed dur­ing any sex­u­al act and is not lim­it­ed to masturbation.

It is an impor­tant aspect is the dom­i­nance of the woman.

Difference of a normal orgasm and edging: The pleasure increases after each ruining!
Dif­fer­ence of a nor­mal orgasm and edg­ing: The plea­sure increas­es after each ruining!

How Do I Inspire My Woman for Orgasm Control

Phase 1: All Beginning Is the Conversation

In the first phase, it is first impor­tant that momen­tum comes back into your mar­riage bed. This is YOUR task from now on!

Take care of your part­ner again. Caress and pam­per her, buy her sex toys as gifts, and try to inspire her tac­ti­cal­ly clever to watch porn.

In most cou­ple rela­tion­ships, women and men live together,

  • their sex life has become quite monot­o­nous. Over the years, men and also women are hard­ly inter­est­ed in joint, sex­u­al experiments.
  • where the part­ner is quite uptight and insecure.
  • the part­ner has advan­tages over unusu­al, sex­u­al practices.

If your wife is a wild tiger in bed, you can skip the first section.

Women will not be inter­est­ed in orgasm con­trol if their sex life is fal­low. So, stop being lazy and come up with some­thing to rekin­dle the fire of passion!

Playing with sex toys in bed is a very good icebreaker and arouses interest in varied sex practices.
Play­ing with sex toys in bed is a very good ice­break­er and arous­es inter­est in var­ied sex practices.
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Phase 2: Make Your Wife Curious!

When your wife or part­ner is com­fort­able with sex again, you can tell her that you want to try an exper­i­ment and that you need her help:

Female Domination (FemDom): Ruined Orgasm
Female Dom­i­na­tion (Fem­Dom): Ruined Orgasm

Explain to her that it real­ly annoys you that your libido always goes down to zero imme­di­ate­ly after your orgasm.

You would have read on the inter­net about edg­ing and orgasm con­trol, where the male orgasm is ruined over and over again, and that in men, testos­terone lev­els rise to 147% if he does­n’t orgasm for one week.

It will make your wife curious!

Also, tell her that you want to final­ly get the sen­si­tiv­i­ty of your penis under con­trol and not cum so fast any­more. When she blows or jerks the penis, the plea­sure should be the great­est (accord­ing to the guide­book) if you pro­ceed more and more slow­ly and gen­tly the clos­er you get to orgasm.

Tell her to ruin the orgasm one to three times with­out mer­cy and pity! Show her videos of how to drain or squirt the semen (in real­i­ty pre-cum) with­out orgasm.

Leave it at words and wait a few days. Don’t fol­low up again! 

Testosterone level during 7-days without male ejaculation
Testos­terone lev­el dur­ing 7‑days with­out male ejaculation

Phase 3: Learn Self-Control Over Your Climax

In a good rela­tion­ship, part­ners respect each oth­er and cater to each oth­er’s desires. She def­i­nite­ly won’t for­get your words, but you should avoid nag­ging her!..

So pull your­self togeth­er, and real­ly don’t lose a sin­gle syl­la­ble more on the sub­ject of ruin­ing orgasms!

In the third phase, let your wife dis­cov­er your brave con­fes­sion in your actions instead.

Set a goal to have at least one ejac­u­la­tion with­out orgasm EVERY DAY for a month, regard­less of your pro­fes­sion­al and fam­i­ly situation:

a) Ruin Your Orgasm Every Time You Fuck for a Month!

When you have sex, make sure that she orgasms with your cock, fin­gers, tongue, as well as vibra­tors and dil­dos as many times as she wants.

Should you notice that you might come while fuck­ing, you will slow down and slow down! Once you final­ly real­ize that you need to cum, pull the cock out of the pussy and pour your cum on the pubic mound with­out any fur­ther stim­u­la­tion.

You will learn to love this “cru­el orgasm ruin­ing” very quick­ly, because your penis remains stiff with­out orgasm, and your libido remains high.

After only 10–20 sec­onds, you can con­tin­ue fuck­ing normally.

Once you under­stand the tech­nique, you can fuck your wife three times longer than you could before!!!!

Your wife will prob­a­bly enjoy watch­ing every ruined ejac­u­la­tion very quick­ly. She will take pos­i­tive note of your longer, sex­u­al sta­mi­na and ask you about your new love­mak­ing technique.

Orgasm control: Cock ruined several times during sex on the belly of the woman!
Orgasm con­trol: Cock ruined sev­er­al times dur­ing sex on the bel­ly of the woman!
b) For One Month, Ruin During Masturbation Minimum 1x Daily!

In every­day fam­i­ly life, you won’t be able to avoid occa­sion­al­ly mas­tur­bat­ing with­out your wife to keep your edg­ing month com­plete­ly on schedule.

Penis “cries” dur­ing orgasm con­trol: Pre­cum comes out again and again.

If you can’t be inti­mate with your part­ner or wife, share with her that it’s real­ly very impor­tant to you to cre­ate your train­ing goal of ruin­ing your orgasm at least once a day and milk­ing your penis in a con­trolled manner.

If you are open and hon­est, she will sup­port you in cre­at­ing a win­dow of time where you can have a horny edg­ing ses­sion undisturbed.

Prac­tice orgasm con­trol alone, as described in the guide to learn­ing orgasm con­trol with­out a part­ner.

Be sure to set your­self a smart­phone timer and set a time goal and an insem­i­na­tion goal. Your orgasm train­ing should last at least 30 min­utes. You will achieve opti­mal results if you man­age not to cli­max for more than an hour.

Milk your penis on a sperm plate and also train to swal­low your leak­ing desire drop and your horny pre­cum. This way, you kill two birds with one stone.

Don’t for­get to take some pho­tos or shoot some small clips as a thank you to your wife!

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Phase 4: Let Your Wife Control Your Orgasm

Once you’ve con­vinced your part­ner how effec­tive orgasm con­trol is, it’s time to let your wife in on the top­ic of edg­ing. For exam­ple, have her read our guide and Orgasm Con­trol in Men.

Sched­ule a cozy evening where she pam­pers your penis with mas­sage oil and sex toys.

The first cumshot precum while edging after 7 days of orgasm ban can be extremely intense and is exciting for every woman!
The first cumshot pre­cum while edg­ing after 7 days of orgasm ban can be extreme­ly intense and is excit­ing for every woman!

The most impor­tant thing is that you announce every orgasm with the word “STOP” or with traf­fic light col­ors as soon as your point of no return is felt. Your part­ner will then IMMEDIATELY stop any stim­u­la­tion and ruin your orgasm over a sperm bowl!

The unbe­liev­ably horny sight of your ago­niz­ing face.… of a vio­lent­ly stiff penis that screams help­less­ly and des­per­ate­ly for an orgasm… twitch­ing and bounc­ing… and pul­sat­ing from the pre­cum / sperm… will extreme­ly excite your wife, girl­friend, or life partner!

The goal is for your wife to pre­vent your orgasm from hap­pen­ing about three to six times, while gen­tly unseat­ing your cock until there is not a drop of cum left. Only then will she allow you to reach your very ago­niz­ing and mega-horny dry orgasm! 

If you want, you should take pic­tures of it and make lit­tle porn clips.

When you have learned to rec­og­nize your lim­it and enjoy the extreme plea­sure of each ruined orgasm, it will become eas­i­er and eas­i­er for you. Because your com­mon final goal should be that in the man, the desire not to come to orgasm is stronger than the desire to have an orgasm.

Brutal feelings during orgasm ruin - game. And yet it is so indescribably aroused!
Bru­tal feel­ings dur­ing orgasm ruin game. And yet, it is so inde­scrib­ably aroused!

The Basis of Orgasm Control: Communication, Discipline, and Self-Control!

If you are inter­est­ed in pro­gress­ing fur­ther on the path of orgasm con­trol, we high­ly rec­om­mend that you com­mu­ni­cate close­ly with your part­ner dur­ing your edg­ing session.

Precum (pre-ejaculate) flows out of the penis during orgasm control by the woman
Pre­cum (pre-ejac­u­late) flows out of the penis dur­ing orgasm con­trol by the woman.

Even though you don’t get an orgasm, she will enjoy and get high­ly aroused watch­ing each ruined ejac­u­la­tion and your intense phys­i­cal reactions.

She knows that she will keep increas­ing your plea­sure despite your intense agony.

So, when your woman is spoil­ing your cock, don’t lie there word­less­ly and silent­ly, but moan out your pent-up lust and tell her how good it feels! 

If cuck­old fan­tasies come into your head, tell her about them open­ly and hon­est­ly! This will fur­ther ignite her joy of exper­i­men­ta­tion and horniness.

It is an absolute mat­ter of course that you must obey all orders of your hotwife! It is strict­ly for­bid­den for you to reach orgasm with­out per­mis­sion. You have to thank her for every ruined orgasm and tell your wife how good it was.

Milking off the Cum While Ruining Orgasm

Last but not least, we would like to point out one more impor­tant point.

Cock-emptying (milking) into a jar
Cock-emp­ty­ing (milk­ing) into a jar

As already writ­ten, very large amounts of desire drops, pre­cum (pre-juice, pre-ejac­u­late), and sperm are milked off dur­ing edg­ing and the con­stant ruining.

Every woman, with­out excep­tion, should get into the habit of not tol­er­at­ing a sin­gle, uncon­trolled loss of semen already dur­ing the first edg­ing sessions! 

Every lit­tle drop of desire, every splash of pre­cum and every load of sperm is col­lect­ed with a spoon, and a sperm bowl or a cum plate and oral­ly returned to the cuckold.

Grate­ful­ly and “with­out the­ater”, each man has to swal­low every­thing if the Cuck­ol­dress demands it! She must not leave Aus­büch­sen, turn­ing away as well as whin­ing and con­stant “beg­ging after the orgasm” unpunished!

A Cuck­old must and will be con­front­ed with his sperm so often until he has learned to swal­low it all decent­ly and with­out resistance! 

Each penis should be milked in a controlled way over a plate, a bowl or a glass!
Each penis should be milked in a con­trolled way over a plate, a bowl or a glass!

Conclusion: Men Must Learn to Control Their Orgasm!

Ruin­ing the male orgasm mul­ti­ple times is a gor­geous and dev­il­ish plea­sure. You will feel an ago­niz­ing but inde­scrib­ably intense pleasure! 

Ruined orgasm
Ruined orgasm

You notice how your horni­ness remains at a high lev­el despite the loss of semen. And you enjoy an unimag­in­ably intense, final orgasm! 

Final­ly, stop with your sense­less “just jerk off and cum fast” and start to con­trol your ejac­u­la­tion and enjoy your mas­tur­ba­tion by ruinied orgasm!

Set your­self fixed time goals and cum goals at the begin­ning, which you mon­i­tor and log with a smart­phone timer! Your cum should be milked only tar­get­ed, and con­trolled very horny on a plate, in a glass, in a jar, on pho­tos, objects, or cum­food.

Prob­a­bly your part­ner does not yet under­stand the mean­ing and pur­pose of orgasm con­trol dur­ing your first nar­ra­tions. Be patient to accom­pa­ny her on the way to see, expe­ri­ence, and love it yourself.

Handjob ruin cumming cock
Hand­job ruin cum­ming cock

Since ruin­ing is only real­ly horny when per­formed by a sec­ond per­son, we encour­age you to get your part­ner excit­ed about this sex­u­al prac­tice! It’s worth it to invest the courage and time!

For exam­ple, if you are cur­rent­ly fuck­ing her intense­ly and want to cum inside her, you should get into the habit of fuck­ing slow­er and slow­er and more con­trolled. Ruin your orgasm and let your cum flow out­side of her pussy on her Venus mound every time. Then fuck your wife real­ly hard again, and repeat the game as often as you like! She will adore you!

What’s impor­tant dur­ing a jerk-off ses­sion with your wife is that you com­mu­ni­cate with her and show her how much you enjoy her ruin­ing your orgasm over and over again.

Great Ruined Orgasms Compilation

Other Sources:

Cock milking: Many cuckolding couples like cock milking while edging and sperm games after each ruined orgasm
Cock milk­ing: Many cuck­old­ing cou­ples like cock milk­ing while edg­ing and sperm games after each ruined orgasm.

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