Tutorial to Ruin Your Orgasm Together With Your Woman
The term “orgasm control” for men refers to the penis stimulation near of their orgasm limit. In this process, the associated orgasms are “ruined” several times over and over again.
This ancient Asian sexual practice is nowadays also popular in the European and American BDSM scene.
Very many men who are married or in a committed relationship have a desire for their partner to take control of their penis. Unfortunately, very few women can do anything with it!
We would like to help you with the following tips to inspire your partner to the techniques of orgasm control.
In this tutorial, we’ll also explain interesting tips and ideas on how to milk your penis without orgasm, while collecting your horny sperm to recycle.
Of course, we are interested in your experiences, ideas, and opinions. How did you manage to get your partner excited about orgasm control? How does it feel to ruin the orgasm? Did you learn to swallow your own sperm this way? Please take a moment and leave a comment below this post.
What Is a Ruined Orgasm?
A ruined orgasm is when a man or woman abruptly stops all stimulation to the penis, clitoris, and vagina as soon as the person begins to have an orgasm.
By abruptly stopping the stimulation, all sexual satisfaction is denied, as well as the beautiful, satisfying feeling of orgasm.
“Orgasm ruining” is extremely excruciating and highly intense. It can even happen that the man’s legs sag away while standing!
Although the orgasm denial leads to an unimaginably enormous frustration, it paradoxically increases the horniness extremely immeasurably. Say: Through this ordeal, the sexual pleasure of the man becomes greater and greater!
Due to the splitting of ejaculation and orgasm, large amounts of desire drops, precum (pre-ejaculate) and sperm leak from the penis. The penis can be milked in this way, virtually completely orgasm-free. A prostate massage or an anal plug, or an anal dildo reinforces the already crass feeling again!
Depending on edging duration, excitement level, and several days of orgasm renunciation, however, the tail can also be extremely strong, over a meter far in one to three gigantic spurts of sack cream splash!
What Is Edging?
This involves repeated withdrawal before finally reaching orgasm.
Such an edging session may well last several hours. The goal is to ruin the male climax over and over again, causing the man to experience an unimaginably violent sensual experience from a combination of agony and pleasure.
The goal of edging is that it intensifies orgasm and, in men, enormously increases ejaculate volume and ejaculatory force.
Edging can be performed during any sexual act and is not limited to masturbation.
It is an important aspect is the dominance of the woman.
How Do I Inspire My Woman for Orgasm Control
Phase 1: All Beginning Is the Conversation
In the first phase, it is first important that momentum comes back into your marriage bed. This is YOUR task from now on!
Take care of your partner again. Caress and pamper her, buy her sex toys as gifts, and try to inspire her tactically clever to watch porn.
In most couple relationships, women and men live together,
- their sex life has become quite monotonous. Over the years, men and also women are hardly interested in joint, sexual experiments.
- where the partner is quite uptight and insecure.
- the partner has advantages over unusual, sexual practices.
If your wife is a wild tiger in bed, you can skip the first section.
Women will not be interested in orgasm control if their sex life is fallow. So, stop being lazy and come up with something to rekindle the fire of passion!
Phase 2: Make Your Wife Curious!
When your wife or partner is comfortable with sex again, you can tell her that you want to try an experiment and that you need her help:
Explain to her that it really annoys you that your libido always goes down to zero immediately after your orgasm.
You would have read on the internet about edging and orgasm control, where the male orgasm is ruined over and over again, and that in men, testosterone levels rise to 147% if he doesn’t orgasm for one week.
It will make your wife curious!
Also, tell her that you want to finally get the sensitivity of your penis under control and not cum so fast anymore. When she blows or jerks the penis, the pleasure should be the greatest (according to the guidebook) if you proceed more and more slowly and gently the closer you get to orgasm.
Tell her to ruin the orgasm one to three times without mercy and pity! Show her videos of how to drain or squirt the semen (in reality pre-cum) without orgasm.
Leave it at words and wait a few days. Don’t follow up again!
Phase 3: Learn Self-Control Over Your Climax
In a good relationship, partners respect each other and cater to each other’s desires. She definitely won’t forget your words, but you should avoid nagging her!..
So pull yourself together, and really don’t lose a single syllable more on the subject of ruining orgasms!
In the third phase, let your wife discover your brave confession in your actions instead.
Set a goal to have at least one ejaculation without orgasm EVERY DAY for a month, regardless of your professional and family situation:
a) Ruin Your Orgasm Every Time You Fuck for a Month!
When you have sex, make sure that she orgasms with your cock, fingers, tongue, as well as vibrators and dildos as many times as she wants.
Should you notice that you might come while fucking, you will slow down and slow down! Once you finally realize that you need to cum, pull the cock out of the pussy and pour your cum on the pubic mound without any further stimulation.
You will learn to love this “cruel orgasm ruining” very quickly, because your penis remains stiff without orgasm, and your libido remains high.
After only 10–20 seconds, you can continue fucking normally.
Once you understand the technique, you can fuck your wife three times longer than you could before!!!!
Your wife will probably enjoy watching every ruined ejaculation very quickly. She will take positive note of your longer, sexual stamina and ask you about your new lovemaking technique.
b) For One Month, Ruin During Masturbation Minimum 1x Daily!
In everyday family life, you won’t be able to avoid occasionally masturbating without your wife to keep your edging month completely on schedule.
If you can’t be intimate with your partner or wife, share with her that it’s really very important to you to create your training goal of ruining your orgasm at least once a day and milking your penis in a controlled manner.
If you are open and honest, she will support you in creating a window of time where you can have a horny edging session undisturbed.
Practice orgasm control alone, as described in the guide to learning orgasm control without a partner.
Be sure to set yourself a smartphone timer and set a time goal and an insemination goal. Your orgasm training should last at least 30 minutes. You will achieve optimal results if you manage not to climax for more than an hour.
Milk your penis on a sperm plate and also train to swallow your leaking desire drop and your horny precum. This way, you kill two birds with one stone.
Don’t forget to take some photos or shoot some small clips as a thank you to your wife!
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Phase 4: Let Your Wife Control Your Orgasm
Once you’ve convinced your partner how effective orgasm control is, it’s time to let your wife in on the topic of edging. For example, have her read our guide and Orgasm Control in Men.
Schedule a cozy evening where she pampers your penis with massage oil and sex toys.
The most important thing is that you announce every orgasm with the word “STOP” or with traffic light colors as soon as your point of no return is felt. Your partner will then IMMEDIATELY stop any stimulation and ruin your orgasm over a sperm bowl!
The unbelievably horny sight of your agonizing face.… of a violently stiff penis that screams helplessly and desperately for an orgasm… twitching and bouncing… and pulsating from the precum / sperm… will extremely excite your wife, girlfriend, or life partner!
The goal is for your wife to prevent your orgasm from happening about three to six times, while gently unseating your cock until there is not a drop of cum left. Only then will she allow you to reach your very agonizing and mega-horny dry orgasm!
If you want, you should take pictures of it and make little porn clips.
When you have learned to recognize your limit and enjoy the extreme pleasure of each ruined orgasm, it will become easier and easier for you. Because your common final goal should be that in the man, the desire not to come to orgasm is stronger than the desire to have an orgasm.
The Basis of Orgasm Control: Communication, Discipline, and Self-Control!
If you are interested in progressing further on the path of orgasm control, we highly recommend that you communicate closely with your partner during your edging session.
Even though you don’t get an orgasm, she will enjoy and get highly aroused watching each ruined ejaculation and your intense physical reactions.
She knows that she will keep increasing your pleasure despite your intense agony.
So, when your woman is spoiling your cock, don’t lie there wordlessly and silently, but moan out your pent-up lust and tell her how good it feels!
If cuckold fantasies come into your head, tell her about them openly and honestly! This will further ignite her joy of experimentation and horniness.
It is an absolute matter of course that you must obey all orders of your hotwife! It is strictly forbidden for you to reach orgasm without permission. You have to thank her for every ruined orgasm and tell your wife how good it was.
Milking off the Cum While Ruining Orgasm
Last but not least, we would like to point out one more important point.
As already written, very large amounts of desire drops, precum (pre-juice, pre-ejaculate), and sperm are milked off during edging and the constant ruining.
Every woman, without exception, should get into the habit of not tolerating a single, uncontrolled loss of semen already during the first edging sessions!
Gratefully and “without theater”, each man has to swallow everything if the Cuckoldress demands it! She must not leave Ausbüchsen, turning away as well as whining and constant “begging after the orgasm” unpunished!
A Cuckold must and will be confronted with his sperm so often until he has learned to swallow it all decently and without resistance!
Conclusion: Men Must Learn to Control Their Orgasm!
Ruining the male orgasm multiple times is a gorgeous and devilish pleasure. You will feel an agonizing but indescribably intense pleasure!
You notice how your horniness remains at a high level despite the loss of semen. And you enjoy an unimaginably intense, final orgasm!
Finally, stop with your senseless “just jerk off and cum fast” and start to control your ejaculation and enjoy your masturbation by ruinied orgasm!
Set yourself fixed time goals and cum goals at the beginning, which you monitor and log with a smartphone timer! Your cum should be milked only targeted, and controlled very horny on a plate, in a glass, in a jar, on photos, objects, or cumfood.
Probably your partner does not yet understand the meaning and purpose of orgasm control during your first narrations. Be patient to accompany her on the way to see, experience, and love it yourself.
Since ruining is only really horny when performed by a second person, we encourage you to get your partner excited about this sexual practice! It’s worth it to invest the courage and time!
For example, if you are currently fucking her intensely and want to cum inside her, you should get into the habit of fucking slower and slower and more controlled. Ruin your orgasm and let your cum flow outside of her pussy on her Venus mound every time. Then fuck your wife really hard again, and repeat the game as often as you like! She will adore you!
What’s important during a jerk-off session with your wife is that you communicate with her and show her how much you enjoy her ruining your orgasm over and over again.
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