Tutorial to Ruin Your Orgasm Alone
Orgasm control is a topic that interests many men. It is also called edging, tease and denial, cock milking, penis milking, or orgasm ruining.
Even though it is not that difficult to learn edging, there are only a few good instructions to be found in German-speaking countries on how to practice it explicitly.
In this guide, we want to teach you the basics and give you numerous tips and ideas from practice on how you can quickly learn orgasm control and enjoy it optimally.
Even though it is much, much hornier when another person takes over the edging of your penis, we recommend that you first practice it without a partner at the beginning of your training.
Please take your time and share your personal opinion and experience with us at the end of this tutorial. How did you learn orgasm control? Do you have any tips for other cuckolds and wifesharers on how to practice and enjoy “ruining orgasms”?
In 5 Learning Steps to Perfect Ejaculation
For 80% of men, ejaculation is a very short pleasure. It is masturbated for 5 ‑10 minutes, cum, dispose of the sperm in the trash can and: Done!
The key to orgasm control, however, is that you understand and internalize that it’s much more awesome to ruin your orgasm several times in a longer session instead of “wagging one off your palm”.
You Must First Learn
- to recognize the feeling at the onset of orgasm with accompanying ejaculation.
- that ruining the orgasm several times will give you much more pleasure.
- that giving up orgasm for several days increases your libido (horniness) enormously, even during the day.
- how to catch your love juices every time in the future.
- how to take up desire drops, precum (pre-cum, pre-juice, pre-ejaculate) and your sperm in your mouth.
You’ll quickly realize that when you masturbate, the “way” is your goal: you feel and see your penis raging, twitching and angry when you don’t let it orgasm over and over again during hours of edging! You watch him crying — leaking love juice while you mercilessly ruin his orgasm.
This Is How You Prepare for Your Edging Marathon:
Avoid any sources of disturbance and make absolutely sure that neither your partner, nor family members burst in during your three-hour masturbation session.
Put a black towel under your butt because you will sweat, and your dick will inevitably leak and cum uncontrollably all the time.
You will also need: a Fleshlight, a massager or a massage gun.
For your orgasm you will need at the end of your session: black dinner plate or black place mat.
Very cool is to film the ruined orgasms. If you want to, have a camera or an old, discarded cell phone ready to film or photograph the moments. A tripod doesn’t cost 10 euros to put the penis in a perfect scene.
Absolute taboo are paper towels! Ban all tissue packs, Kleenex boxes and kitchen rolls from the room. You’ll train to swallow your cum starting today!
Orgasm Control Tutorial: Orgasm Training Guide
- Set your smartphone timer to 3 hours. Only after this time, you are allowed to trigger your orgasm! Until then, you will ruin EVERY, but also EVERY attempt of your penis to cum.
Be sure that your penis will be very sneaky and will want to seduce you to orgasm several times. Deny him this without exception. Remember, it’s not about his pleasure, it’s about juicing him as gently and as often as possible! ALL ejaculations MUST be ruined.
- Stimulate the penis slowly and gently. Make sure you get very visually aroused for 3 hours. Watch horny porn, read sex stories, collect sex photos, watch wifesharing / cuckolding captions or engage in porn social media.
- Avoid too much stimulation and jerking off too fast. Stimulate your penis just enough to keep it permanently stiff. Careful, quick jerk intervals of 30x, 20x, 10x and 5x are perfectly fine. Reduce stimulation when the pleasure sensation of an orgasm begins.
- When jerking off, you will notice that the pelvic floor always wants to pull towards the inner abdomen. Recognize the feeling and avoid it. Instead, relax your pelvic floor as if you were peeing. Gently press out the feeling. Breathe out in a controlled manner.
- If porn is too horny, and you would like to cum, watch porn that doesn’t make you quite as horny. It might make you stimulate too much.
- Stop ALL stimulation IMMEDIATELY when the penis starts making reflexive movements, pulsing, or bouncing up and down! The hornier you are, the more difficult it will be to determine the exact moment to ruin orgasm!
- Each time you ruin your ejaculation, some pre-cum (pre-ejaculate, pre-juice) will come out of your penis. Your semen must not splash in any case! If the semen spurts, it means that you stimulated it too much. Stay controlled and concentrated!
- Be sure to avoid touching or stimulating the penis in any way if you have ruined an orgasm. Also, be very careful when cleaning up desire-drops and precum. Really don’t touch it again until it is completely at rest again. In this way, you avoid that you accidentally cum!
- Note that it is absolutely forbidden to waste sperm while edging! If you notice while jerking off that some desire drops or precum rises in the penis, immediately put your sperm plate or sperm bowl under your cock. Let it leak and squirt out in the bowl in a controlled manner. Place your penis in the sperm bowl even during jerk-off breaks, as it will continuously leak. Collecting sperm is also called cum collecting.
- After every successful orgasm rinse your fuck dick with your index finger or your black cum spoon and recycle the horny cum in your mouth.
Jerk off Instructions: Cock Hero Challenge, Try to Not Cum Challenge
Very horny for orgasm control are also videos with jerk-off instructions.
You are visually given jerk off intervals and countdowns, which are backed with matching porn scenes and often also with music or a metronome beat.
The challenge is to pass the challenge without cuming. These masturbation challenges are usually very hard and demand maximum self-control.
You should adapt these videos a bit for yourself and extend the time window to 2 hours or longer.
Tip: Film and Photograph Your Controlled Ejaculations
We recommend you to capture your ruined orgasms on videos or photos. It’s absolutely impressive how furiously the penis reacts every time you don’t cum during orgasm, but just milk your semen in a controlled way.
When filming, make sure that you only film your penis, never your face, other body parts, identifying features or objects from your surroundings.
It makes very happy (and horny) to experience the encouragement, constructive criticism and support of the community.
You are also welcome to email us your videos and stories via our contact form. Send us a message if you have started a sexblog. We will be happy to link you.
Tip: Collect Your Milked and Squirted Love Juices
In various English cuckold forums, you read again and again the tip to collect sperm (cum collecting). Since cum decays very quickly, your only option is to collect cum in the freezer or freezer.
There are three viable ways to freeze your harvested precum and semen:
- Collect cum ice cubes (cum cube) in mini freezer containers (Tupperware Midgets Dip Container, 55 ml) or in a film canister.
- Freeze sperm snow (cum snow) in colored Ziplock aluminum foil bags.
- Prepare sperm lollipops (cum sicle) using an ice lollipop mold.
You can use your collected cum together with your hotwife to make love and play gangbangs and melt it in her pussy / on her skin. But you can also use it in smoothies, sauces and to cook food, or just thaw it alone in your mouth or on your skin and train cum swallowing.
Conclusion: Practice and Train Orgasm Control Regularly
Have you got a taste for it and want to ruin your orgasm more often from now on? Fantastic! Make orgasm control a task for yourself in the next few months.
During your long masturbation sessions, you will inevitably become very concerned with the way your ejaculation feels and how it happens.
You will understand and accept that it is extremely horny and pleasurable when you control and voluntarily reduce your orgasms.
Your main goal should be to ruin your orgasms at least once in the future before you are allowed to climax.
The second goal should be to always recycle your desire drops and sweet pre-cum before orgasm, so that one day you can swallow your own sperm.
Edging for hours without ejaculation is great for cuckolds as potency training. You’ll be more and more persistent during sex, and you’ll be able to ejaculate much more vigorously and sperm more abundantly after just a few months.
More Resources on Orgasm Control:
- Reddit — Precum
- Nandisa | peaks-n-pulses — Blog for precum, ejaculation, semen & reproductive system
- solocumshot.com: A shot of sperm caught with shot glass
- Practice swallowing your own sperm
- FemdomTraining: Cum Cubes & Cum Cube Ideas
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