What Is a Ruined Orgasm?
Ruined orgasm is a prolonged stimulation of the penis on the verge of orgasm.
In this case, the cock is repeatedly brought to the “point of no return” several times without reaching the redeeming cum orgasm.
“Ruined orgasms” are completely unsatisfying for the man. Although the aborted orgasms are a real torture, men still report heavenly feelings and extreme pleasure.
In this guide, we will introduce you to the favorite technique “ruining orgasm” in more detail and give you practical tips on which techniques you can use to excite the penis and destroy its orgasm.
How to Ruin the Orgasm?
The stimulation method is called “orgasm ruin” in English language. The synonyms “Milking”, “Orgasm control” or “Tease & Denial” are also used. Sometimes it is also referred to as Carezza or Karezza.
The man himself, his wife, partner or girlfriend can cause unimaginably violent feelings of pleasure by “ruining the orgasm”.
It is true that a man with appropriate self-discipline can also break off his orgasms himself — but he will (want to) create a maximum of only two ruinations. It is better if the partner consistently takes over the orgasm control!
Primarily one stimulates the penis with the whole hand as well as thumb, index and middle finger. However, you can also use a masturbator, a penis vibrator, a massager or your partner’s mouth. However, you should not use the vagina for stimulation because self-control suffers significantly!
In the initial phase, close cooperation between the two partners is necessary. The traffic light principle has proven itself. The man uses the colors green, yellow and red to indicate how close he is to orgasm. In addition, the man shouts loudly “STOP!!!” when the “point of no return” (PNR) sets in. The woman immediately stops stimulating the penis and takes both hands off the penis.
With advanced experience, the milker can recognize the “point of no return” herself. She stops abruptly each time before the point at which the penis begins to twitch or leak. She can usually also often tell the impending orgasm by the hardness of the penis, the sheen of the penile glans, or the size of the urethral opening.
After each short break (once control of the desperate cock is regained), the procedure is repeated over and over again.
An Unimaginable, Horny Pleasure Pain While Orgasm Ruining
Due to the fact that the stimulation for the redeeming cum orgasm is missing, the squirting cock experiences the real hell on earth! It will scream with pleasure, throb, jerk violently, bounce up-and-down hard, and may even twist sideways stirring! The glans is fiery red, the veins protrude strongly! In uncircumcised men, the foreskin stretches tightly around the glans, exposing it without protection. The man moans loudly and writhes in pleasure and lust pain.
It runs out during the ruination mostly clear, sweet nectar (precum, pre-sperm) or horny, snow-white, fresh sperm. During the first ruination can (depending on chastity and state of arousal) even a violent sperm fountain up to a meter(!!!) squirt out of the violently charged fuck tail without orgasm!
For the woman every ruined orgasm is a visual treat and highly exciting! She will gladly sit back and enjoy the unimaginable, breathtaking sight of man and penis with a big grin.
A few seconds after ruining, the milker continues to stimulate the penis again. The man calms down again, but the penis remains rock hard. After each discharge, the cock is lovingly cleaned with a spoon, fingers or mouth.
For the man, the ruination is indescribably intense-awesome and yet completely unsatisfying-depressing at the same time. The bulging eggs finally want to fully discharge — but can not! The man remains on the verge of orgasm and feels the urge to want to “come” again. The man’s desire remains very, very high!
It has been proven to lead to a blatant libido increase if the penis is kept on the edge of orgasm at least three times this way. Such a session lasts about an hour. Set yourself a smartphone timer, for example.
“Edging” Means Pure Happiness for the Man… And for the Woman!
The man will be extremely aroused! His dopamine levels(happy hormones) will peak at the time of ruination.
He is absolutely uninhibited and almost painless. The woman can enjoy a fabulous lovemaking thanks to his violent arousal. This stage is perfect for cuckold education.
She can do with her man factually what she wants and should not miss to masturbate over his face and to be licked greedily.
She can hurt the man’s nipples, punish him for his horniness with wax and blows, insult him, spit in his mouth or force him to sniff worn underwear of hers.
Dominant women and hotwifes should take advantage of his lust to tease his prostate with fingers, prostate stimulators, and dildo or fuck his ass very hard with a strap-on. (Put a plate under his cock!)
The term milking is related to the sometimes large discharge of precum (pre-sperm). By the way, the cum from ruined orgasms is very sweet and pleasant to lick up. Many women teach their husbands to swallow their own sperm.
The Dry Orgasm Afterwards
After 1–3 hours, the cock can then be stimulated to an unbearably violent, painful dry orgasm.
It should be up to the woman to decide if and when the tail may finally come to the redeeming orgasm after the ruination. The man should have already earned the orgasm. 😉
If the man may “come”, the orgasm has it hellishly “in itself”!!! It is again considerably more intense than the ruination before! The man will scream, moan, sob and writhe, but he is hornier than ever before. He will want to live this experience again and again!
Sometimes the penis is so confused that it remains hard despite orgasm. If the milker is particularly sadistic, she can try to create another dry orgasm!
- Impose a 7 or 14 day cum ban before the ruining session. The prostate and balls are then filled to the brim with horny cum. Zinc tablets also increase the amount of sperm.
- So that the cum tastes fully horny, the man should eat 5 days before daily a quarter pineapple and also drink pineapple juice.
- Do not waste love juice! Always keep a glass, plate, spoon or other container handy. This allows the man to always practice swallowing his own cum. If he refuses, the woman should threaten to stop milking.
- Instead of “just” bringing the cock to the Point Of No Return (PNR), the stimulation threshold can be carefully exceeded. This is where the “One-Two-Three-Four-STOP” counting method is very helpful when jerking off. This edging method brings the man even closer to orgasm.
- It may sound sadistic, but five ruinations spread over 2 to 3 hours is optimal. Make it a game with kissing, licking and joint/counter masturbation. Watch some varied porn while you’re at it.
- You can extend the ruination games with an orgasm ban to several days!
- Ruining should not be done exclusively in the supine position. Much more horny squirts the tail on the floor / bed kneeling or sitting on a chair. It should not be forgotten to put a plate under the tail.
Conclusion: “Orgasm Ruining” Is a Win/Win Situation!
Orgasm ruining involves stimulating the penis to the point of orgasm. Any stimulation must be abruptly stopped immediately as soon as the penis twitches even minimally or secretes the smallest amount of sperm.
When milking, edging, or ruining orgasm, the partner optimally takes control of the penis. She decides if and when the redeeming orgasm will occur. Since this completely contradicts the “typical sexual behavior of men”, only a few people know this sexual game.
The technique allows them to keep their men extremely horny for hours or days. As a woman, it is breathtaking and highly arousing to watch the man uncontrollably moaning loudly and when the pre-sperm (precum) runs out of the cock.
By repeatedly breaking off the orgasm, men experience a never before experienced pleasure in incredibly violent spheres. The man will moan and beg for orgasm. He will writhe with each ruination. Not infrequently will beg for anal stimulation to milk a few more sperm drops out of him after all, which he will greedily swallow himself.
Get into the habit of always catching the horny milked fuck juice! For this, read the article: Collecting sperm with plates or bowls.
- desired.de: Edging method: With control to the mega orgasm
- nice-magazin.de: Milking the prostate: This is how erotic forced emasculation works
- hypnolove.de: Forced emasculation / milking
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