Blessing and Curse at the Same Time: When Women Cum During Orgasm
The gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg conducted scientific studies of the female sex organs with regard to orgasm. In the process, the Gräfenberg zone (colloquially: G‑spot) got its name. He also investigated the phenomenon of why women can ejaculate.
The taboo subject of “female ejaculation” has increasingly come into the public eye in recent years. Most women are uncomfortable and embarrassed about their squirting ability. But in many tantric love techniques, the “discharge of love energy” is considered completely normal and purposeful. There are even cultures that worship the mysterious love elixir in rituals.
In the cuckolding and wifesharing scene, vaginal squirting at sex parties is also a highlight. When having sex with different penis sizes and shapes, this is not uncommon during gangbangs. According to experience, it even heats up the mood when the woman experiences a violent, wet orgasm.
In this guide, we would like to explain to you what squirting actually is, how it happens and how a wet orgasm feels. In addition, we will give you instructions on how to learn squirting and clarify the question of whether a cuckold also has to lick squirt fluid clean. Feel free to send us your questions and comments below the post.
Does Squirting Really Exist?
Despite sexual education and scientific research, female ejaculation still has something mysterious about it and is discussed very controversially.
Some “experts” deny its existence and claim that squirting was invented by the porn scene. They say that it is really just urine and is basically faked. There are even countries where women are forbidden to ejaculate! Ejaculating is reserved exclusively for men!
But also not a few women deny the ability to ejaculate. They are extremely embarrassed when it comes to gushing, thinking that they are urinating. They then interrupt the stimulation and completely choke off the sexual mood.
However, it has been scientifically confirmed several times that female ejaculation can be triggered in very many women and has nothing to do with the classic emptying of the urinary bladder.
In technical literature, squirting is referred to as “orgasmic, transurethral discharge”. Female ejaculate contains various concentrations of urea, creatinine, uric acid, and prostate-specific antigen (PSA). The crystal-clear to milky-cloudy fluid differs in color and quantity from classic urine from the urinary bladder. PSA is normally found in the male prostate.
How Does Female Ejaculation Occur?
Vaginal squirting occurs when the clitoris, G‑zone, and possibly the cervix are stimulated extremely rapidly in high-frequency repetition.
A characteristic feature of female ejaculation is that the area of the G‑zone becomes massively supplied with blood as arousal progresses and swells considerably. The violent irritation fills a spongy glandular tissue (called Skene’s glands) located around the urethra
The involuntary release of this fluid is thought to occur during or just before orgasm (Web of Science and Ovid (MEDLINE), 2018) from the Skene glands, which open into the urethra.
The tissue can become extremely charged with up to 200 milliliters of fluid. This is where the urge to pee comes from despite an empty bladder and a strong feeling of pressure.
If the stimulation is intense enough, the woman can relax sufficiently and she presses the pelvic floor lightly at the right moment — it happens that the fluid leaks out of the pussy, gushes out or even spurts out like a fountain. The phenomenon is usually accompanied by a very intense orgasm.
What Triggers Squirting?
Many people want to know how squirting can be triggered in a woman in order to experience it for themselves.
Female ejaculation often occurs when stimulation is provided by an optimally shaped penis, by suitable objects or by fingers at a violent speed.
a) During Sex, Female Ejaculation May Occur If:
- the penis is larger than average (Big Black Cock)
- the penis is bent crookedly upwards
- Men have a large penis glans
- is fucked in extremely fast and very hard stroke-intervals
- is fucked very persistently (also in group sex with several men)
- anal sex is practiced in very fast strokes
b) Squirting Can Be Induced With the Following Objects:
- specially shaped / hooked G‑spot dildos *
- specially shaped / hooked G‑spot vibrators *
- with a ball fixed to the handle *
- strong massagers (e.g. Hitachi Magic Wand)
- normal dildos or dildo-like objects *
- thick dildos / extreme monster dildos
- Dildos with very thick penis glans *
- Pump-up dildos (30 to 90 minutes of strong, vaginal stretching)
- very powerful clitoral vibrators
- Pulse wave clitoral stimulators (Satisfyer or Womanizer)
* in extremely fast thrusting or shaking intervals
c) Female Ejaculation Can Be Induced by Hands:
- extremely violent fingering of the G‑Spot (with index, middle, and possibly ring finger)
- rapid rubbing of the clitoris + vaginal stimulation
- Fisting by the man with four or five fingers or the whole fist
- Self-fisting by the woman with four or five fingers or the whole fist
How Does Squirting Feel for the Woman?
Women describe squirting as extremely intense and at the same time indescribably wonderful. The orgasm is enormously intensified.
A kind of “pressure” builds up as the stimulation progresses, which then suddenly releases during orgasm. A squirting orgasm is sometimes such a tremendous emotional experience that the woman even has to laugh or cry hysterically during it.
Afterward, the feeling of pleasure gave way to that of deep relaxation. Women feel completely satisfied after a squirting orgasm.
By ruining orgasm several times (edging), the Skene’s gland fills up abundantly. Some women ruin their climax two or three times, then reach a violent orgasm with a powerful ejaculation.
The Skene gland tissue is able to refill very quickly. If two or three squirting orgasms follow in succession, care must be taken to ensure that the woman drinks enough to avoid dehydration.
What Do Men Get Out of Squirting?
As a man, it is really incredibly awesome to watch when a woman gets a squirting orgasm!
The woman groans and moans in delight. Most of the time she has her eyes closed in pleasure. All of a sudden, the vagina and the butt hole start to visibly twitch rhythmically. Often you can even see goosebumps.
The woman cries out, convulses violently, and a crystal-clear liquid spurts out of her pussy. Absolutely amazing hot!
The amount is completely unpredictable every time. A few drops can run out of the pussy, form a small trickle, come out in a gush, or even come out in a steel shape in a high arc. The 50 to 200 ml of vaginal glandular liquid is visually a large amount of fluid.
Every cuckold finds female squirting extremely horny. For bulls and lovers, pussy gushing represents a compliment, so to speak. They can fuck the hotwife so well that they make her squirt.
Can Any Woman Learn How to Squirt?
Yes, basically most women are biologically capable of ejaculating. However, many of them do not allow the sensation and stop the stimulation.
A woman must really “want” to squirt. The biggest hurdle in the beginning is to overcome the violent peeing feeling and to endure the overstimulating sensation.
If a woman wants to learn to squirt, she must not put herself under pressure. Nothing happens with coercion. She must be relaxed and give herself completely to her pleasure.
A good training is regular masturbation. For example, a woman can stimulate the clitoris with a vibrator while massaging the G‑spot in her pussy with her index and middle fingers. When pressure builds up that feels like she needs to urinate, it’s almost time! The pelvic floor must be relaxed as if urinating and a light pressing motion must be performed.
If it worked the first time, she should practice with the above-mentioned objects.
Cuckolds Should Learn to Swallow Squirt
A cuckold should always be careful not to waste squirt or even run into bedding and mattress.
Sperm recycling and licking creampie clean are indisputable matters, of course. If the Cuckoldress gets too wet while fantasizing and masturbating, it is also his job to clean up the pussy. This includes swallowing, catching, and licking all squirt fluid clean.
Experienced couples have a squirt bowl within reach in the bedroom. The man skillfully catches the female ejaculate with the bowl and mouth and can use it to massage into the hotwife’s skin, for example.
Some cuckold couples feel the female ejaculation so horny that they squirt and cum into each other’s mouths.
Conclusion: Vaginal Squirting Is Extremely Horny for Everyone Involved!
It is definitely worth it for every woman to learn to squirt! There is hardly a sexual feeling for a woman that feels more awesome and crass than a mega orgasm accompanied by squirting!
The feeling of pleasure builds up more and more through massively fast stimulation of the G‑area. This works very well with fingers, and G‑spot sex toys, but also with thick dildos and a large penis. Some women also succeed in reaching wet orgasms with strong massagers, through anal sex, or with pulse wave vibrators.
The squirt-orgasm is so indescribably intense that it can often lead to emotional outbursts, such as crying and extreme laughter. It is very exhausting, but also indescribably satisfying.
But men also love to watch the spectacle. In cuckolding and wifesharing, female ejaculation triggers pure excitement among the cuckold/wifesharer, bulls, and fellow fuckers.
If a woman has learned to love gushing, the couple will gradually integrate the ability more and more in their sex life. Female ejaculation is really fun for most couples.
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