What Do the Terms Cuckold, Cuckquean, and Bull Mean?
In eroticism, there are numerous terms that are often incomprehensible to beginners. To make matters worse, many of the words (or should we say technical terms?) come from the English language.
In this article, we would like to briefly introduce you to some of the terms, in no particular order.
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Traffic Light Code
In the BDSM scene, but also in group sex, the use of so-called code words (safewords) is common, where the person being played on can unmistakably communicate that an action triggers serious discomfort. The traffic light code is a safeword based on the traffic light principle.
Before the session begins, three codes are identified. For example, “Green” means that everything is okay. “Yellow” means “Attention! I don’t feel well! Don’t go any further!” “Red” unequivocally and without discussion ensures immediate termination of the session.
BDSM
Like many of the terms, the term BDSM comes from English. It is the abbreviation of the words Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, Sadism & Masochism.
In the BDSM scene, there are many types of play, including cuckolding. A distinction is made between submissive and dominant people. Some feel pleasure when they can subjugate others, others like to be dominated.
Bull
With the term “Bull” is meant a dominant sexual partner.
To him, an emotional love bond or even an everyday relationship is completely unimportant. For him, only the sexual relationship with the hotwife counts, as well as his drive satisfaction.
Bulls are usually athletic, sexually very persistent, and has a larger than average penis. Bulls can have sex multiple times and squirt a lot of semen due to increased testosterone levels.
A Bull is always trying to claim ownership over the Cuckold. A power imbalance develops in the love triangle.
BBC
The term BBC is an abbreviation for “Big Black Cock”. In cuckolding relationships, there is a significantly increased proportion of dark-skinned Bulls
There could be two reasons for this: First, a BBC man exerts tremendous dominance. Many women dream of muscular, well-endowed men. On the other hand, a BBC does not correspond to the classic relationship scheme, as a woman usually wishes her everyday life. This fact relaxes the cuckold that the BBC will not take possession of the woman one day.
Cuckolding
Cuckolding refers to the relationship between a cuckold and his female partner. The word is derived from the English term cuckoo. The cuckoo is known to be a bird that lays its eggs in the nests of other birds and lets its young be raised by strangers.
This is exactly what often happens in cuckolding. The cuckold’s partner primarily has unprotected sex with strangers and gets inseminated in the process. If she becomes pregnant, the cuckold often recognizes the child as his own and raises it as lovingly as if he were the father.
Cuckquean
The term cuckquean refers to a female cuckold. It is a submissive woman who shares her husband or boyfriend with other women. In this form of cuckolding, the man is dominant.
He brings other women to his home for sex. The cuckquean has to watch or even join them and serve her master and his sex partners. Quean is related to the word queen, but means slut or tramp. Cuckqueans have a strong bisexual inclination and are usually as imaginative as cuckolds.
Cuckoldress
A cuckoldress is the wife or life partner of the cuckold. It is therefore a synonym for the term “hotwife”.
Cumcubes
Many cuckold couples enjoy cum games. However, one load is too little for them, so in an ice cube maker (cum bucket), zip-off buckets, film cans, syringes, popsicle molds, or the like. Sperm is collected in the freezer. Cum ice cubes are used for XXL creampies, cum exercises, for cooking and baking, as toothpaste, to fill in butt and pussy, for gangbang role-play for two and much more.
Cumplay
Cumplay refers to bizarre sperm games. Cuckold couples usually get used to various practices gradually. Advanced couples love this kind of games and find them strongly arousing in advance in fantasy and then in practice. Very popular is a facial insemination (facial) with accompanying clean licking of the face. It is repeatedly kissed very intimately with the mouth.
If both partners agree, it is not swallowed yet, but still something played with the sperm and spit back and forth (snowballing). A matter of course is the licking out of the creampie from the pussy (felching, creampie cleanup). Mostly snowballing takes place then as well.
Other sperm games are: Insemination of food (cum eating, cum on food) and of clothes (cum on clothes). Cuckold couples like to play with worn, inseminated, fully cummed and pussy juice soaked women’s panties (pants) in connection with the public.
Cunnilingus
This refers to a variation of oral sex. In cunnilingus, the man licks the clitoris and the outer and inner labia of the woman with his tongue. These parts are very receptive to stimulation.
Only through cunnilingus can a woman be brought to orgasm. The cuckold must perform this service as a humiliation and a sign of his submission. After each pussy insemination, cunnilingus takes place for cuckold couples to lick clean.
Creampie
An inseminated vagina is also called a “creampie” in English. For classic couples, a creampie is a nuisance after sex. It belongs wiped away and disposed of with toilet paper. For wifesharing and cuckold couples, however, a creampie has a central meaning. The sex is not finished after the insemination.
For it is also part of the man’s basic task to lick his partner’s cunt clean after he himself, a stranger or several men have cum into her. For unknown reasons “licking cum pussy clean” extremely inspires the fantasies of men and women alike. However, the “creampie cleanup” must be trained and practiced by the man for months, because his motivation drops rapidly after the orgasm.
Submissive
A man who subordinates himself to others while feeling pleasure is called submissive. The cuckold is submissive. There are many gradations in submission. These include, for example, humiliation in front of others, being tied up or beaten. However, the actions are not perceived as punishment by the submissive person and happen with their consent.
Dildos
Sex toys in penis form, without vibration have an enormous value in cuck relationships. They are given priority in INCH. For many hotwifes, standard dildos quickly become insufficient, and they choose 8″ — 12″ thick dildos for vagina stretching and training. Many women feel an enormous pleasure gain with very thick dildos and orgasm violently with squirting.
Dominant
A dominant is a person who gets pleasure from subduing and torturing others. In cuckolding, the cuckold’s partner plays the dominant role. She chooses the men she wants to have sex with and determines the cuckold’s sex life. She decides if and when he may have sex with her. Without her permission the cuckold is not even allowed to masturbate.
Triple Sex, Trio, Threesome or MMF
One woman has sexual intercourse with two men. With more than two men it is men’s surplus (men’s excess) and is called group sex or gangbang.
Felching
Felching refers to the licking out and clean of the vagina or anus after ejaculation. This often involves the cuckquean or cuckold lying under the inseminated pussy. Tools such as straws, spoons, bowls or plastic tubes may also be used. Usually, after felching there is sperm play such as snowballing. This type of play is also called “creampie cleanup”.
FemDom
The artificial word is made up of the two words “female dominance”. It means something like female dominance. In FemDom, the woman takes the dominant position, and the man must submit to her. An example of FemDom is a dominatrix with her sex slave. Freedom is often expressed through a certain style of clothing. This includes clothes made of vinyl, leather or latex, boots, and props like whips or collar and leash for the submissive partner.
Gangbang
Originally, the term gangbang comes from a rather unpleasant source: it means that one or more women are overpowered and raped by a gang (English: bang). So a “bang” by a “gang” is a rape by a group. Probably no woman would want to be a victim of gang rape in reality.
However, this fantasy has an enormous sexual appeal. The playful and consensual sex of a woman with more than three men is called a “gang bang”. Almost all women who are interested in sex with strangers also eventually show interest in group sex with five, ten, or even twenty men. Women who dare to do this report incredible feelings of pleasure.
Chastity
This procedure is often practiced in cuckolding. The cuckold is not allowed to have sex for a long time. He is also forbidden to masturbate. To enforce chastity, his partner forces him to wear a penis cage. This is a tightly meshed quiver of steel mesh that is put over the penis and locked. The partner has the key.
Urination is possible, but neither sex nor masturbation. The penis cage is used to enforce chastity and humiliate the cuckold. It is also often used as a form of punishment.
Hotwife
A hotwife is a wife or steady life partner of a cuckold. She is sexually very imaginative and active. Occasionally, she has sex with other men, which excites the cuckold sexually a lot. Depending on the sexual expression and cuckold level, he may watch during sex.
However, there are also Hotwifes who date their Bull’s alone, and tell their husband about the date after they get home, while they have sex. Almost all Hotwifes insist that the Cucki lick their inseminated pussy (creampie) clean.
Snowballing
Snowballing is a form of cum play where semen is exchanged back and forth while kissing. This is a synonym for a “snowball fight”. Mostly, this is also played at a distance of 20 — 30 cm and the cum is exchanged again and again in long threads for minutes (Cumswapping). Sperm games of this kind are only performed by Cuckold and Hotwife. The Bull is mostly not for oral sperm contact and commands it to the two above.
Sperm
Everyone will know what sperm is. Nevertheless, the term must not be missing in this glossary.
The ejaculate of the man plays a central role in all love games. While it tends to end up in tissues and toilet paper in normal relationships, it is almost always about the oral return to the cuck. This learning process can take months to years, but then becomes a regular part of sexual acts.
Before the actual cum orgasm, semen is also called precum, pre-juice or desire drops — This type of cum tastes very mild to sweet. Sperm taste can be sweetened by pineapple juice and fresh pineapple. The amount can be noticeably increased by taking zinc tablets.
Spitplay
In a split play, saliva is spitted around. This involves spitting in each other’s mouths (similar to snowballing), very wet kissing (sloppy kisses), and licking each other. Splitplay can also be performed with pussy or cock by spitting on them again and again and licking them clean.
Rough Sex
Rough sex means very hard sex. Mostly anal sex, deep throating, spanking, hair pulling, slapping, choking, and bondage are used in such games.
Vanilla, Vanilla Fisting, Vanilla Sex
The English term “vanilla” translates as “vanilla”. This means that many “normal” — straight couples have quite unimaginative and boring sex. He term is derived from the figurative sense of the many different types of ice cream in the world, where many people are apparently satisfied with “only vanilla”. When vanilla women also have vanilla sex, there is an unrefreshing sex lull in bed for the man.
Tease and Denial
The expression “Tease and Denial” is a sexual role play. Here, the cuckold is primarily stimulated by hand intercourse — but repeatedly broken off before orgasm. The constant repetition of this process creates horniness at first, but later a strong sensory overload.
This is also referred to as “orgasm denial”.
The pent-up orgasm culminates in a violent firework of feelings. Often with a decreasing amount of pre-cum is secreted, which is usually returned to the cuck through the mouth (recycled).