Guide for Men: Strategic Tips for a Successful Cuckold Coming-Out Towards Your Wife
Sex with more than two people is a fantasy that is more common among many men and women than many think.
For example, one of the classic male dreams is “sex with 2 women”. To make this dream come true, you must have a very above-average sexual charisma and access to correspondingly open-minded circles. Sorry guys… This is highly unrealistic in most cases. 😉
The opposite constellation, “a woman has sex with two men or more” makes just as many guys horny. For men who dream of such a thing, there is good news: Also, very many ladies fantasize about being fucked by two men, by a stranger, or even by a group of men.
In this blog article, we deal with “cuckold coming-out” for men. We will give you practically proven tips and ask you to comment on how you managed to get your wife excited about cuckolding. Read also: Hotwife coming out — how to tell my husband.
But… Attention, Minefield!
Do not imagine it so easy to make your wife have sex with strange men. The shame threshold with deep roots into childhood is incredibly high!
You can’t, out of an alcoholic mood, suggest to your wife to bring your best buddy “just once” to the next sex! Forget about such plans!
The effect of this announcement could be as disastrous to your relationship as stepping on a mine. There are worlds between what women dream about and what they do. This is due to the double standards of society:
- Men are admired by their boyfriends if they have many (and attractive) girlfriends.
- Women, on the other hand, are expected even today to play a rather passive, shy and reserved role in sexual matters. A threesome or even a gangbang? No decent woman does that!
This opinion is still widespread today and is practically engraved into the brains of young women at the latest from the time they enter puberty. Women who do it anyway are called sluts, tramps, whores, or hookers, used by men and despised (and secretly envied) by other women.
It is entirely up to you to introduce your partner to the subject carefully and tactically. But also remember that you have to live with the consequences if you have opened Pandora’s box 😉
Cuckold Coming-Out: How Can You Convince Your Wife to Cuckold?
To convince your wife, girlfriend or life partner to have sex with strangers, you have to proceed slowly and carefully. The following procedure is recommended again and again in English-speaking and German men’s forums:
Step 1: Make Sure Your Partnership Is Sexually Uninhibited
If you are not already doing so, get into the habit of talking more openly about sexual topics with your partner. Surprise her with lingerie and erotic gifts. Tip: Read sex toy reviews beforehand. Ensure many orgasms and fun during sex.
Especially in long-term relationships, it is very important to break up monotonous behavior patterns. Otherwise, you have no chance!
Massage evenings with fragrant massage oil and candlelight followed by sex are perfect to rekindle the passion that has fallen asleep a bit.
Step 2: Talk Is Silver, Silence Is Gold!
If you want to get back into the swing of things in bed, the second step is to find out what your partner is secretly into sexually. You have to dig one level deeper than the last years! Try to elicit her sexual fantasies. This valuable knowledge is very valuable for further strategic planning!
It is best to talk about general sex topics while walking, because if it becomes uncomfortable, you can distract skillfully. Avoid direct eye contact during this conversation. In the restaurant or at the kitchen table, such topics are rather unsuitable.
Address your desired topics innocuously at first and gradually go into more depth “walk by walk”.
Don’t come around the corner with clumsy questions about “group sex”, because that will spoil any further basis for conversation. Taboo are the topics “porn”, “sex with ex-partners”, “facial insemination”, “sperm in the mouth”, “bisexuality” and also don’t ask about their “no-go’s”. Avoid stupid male sayings and lewd remarks.
Do not talk too much about yourself, but let your partner talk or rather direct the conversation back to innocuous topics. Women remember everything you say.
Step 3: Introduce Them to the Topic of “Threesome Sex” for the First Time.
Plan a hot sex evening! It’s best to choose a time when she is relaxed and feeling good. You open a bottle of wine, put chocolate and snacks ready, and you watch a pre-selected porn together. NO PornTube yet — that might scare her off!
Choose a porn for women that you are sure she will like. While doing so, caress her and massage her feet.
Next, choose a porn where the actress has sex with 2 men (hint: she shouldn’t look too attractive, preferably an amateur actress).
Watch her reaction carefully. If she finds it horny, bump her “accidentally” with your hard cock and seduce her for sex.
After her climax, you can unobtrusively ask her if the movie was pleasant. Leave it at that, be secretly happy, and don’t probe further. Repeat such a positive evening!
Step 4: Speak to Your Wife About Swingers Clubs
During another walk, you could ask her if you want to go to a swingers club sometime. Promise her firmly that you will just watch. To reassure her that no acquaintances will see her, you can order her a Venetian eye mask, for example.
In any case, proceed gently and do not push her to thoughts that cause discomfort! Very, very important is to let her understand that YOU are NOT interested in fucking other women!!!!
If she really gets the urge to visit a swingers club, she will make it clear to you. Don’t keep nagging her with your questions! Triggering once is enough!
Which Men Are Suitable as a Second Sex Partner?
Did the first swingers club visit go well? Is her interest in swingers sex and strange skin aroused? Congratulations!
If you want to start suggesting specific men to your partner, however, you still have to be highly sensitive! You can still completely mess it up in this situation!!!
Under no circumstances should you suggest men from your social environment! Neither your best buddy, nor a work colleague or even the neighbor. Not a school friend, not an ex! If you share your wife with a good acquaintance or even friend, it will always lead to tension and jealousy. You will not feel good!
The best partners are strangers, but they have the same attitude. You can find the best partners directly in swingers clubs or in forums for swingers, wifesharing, or cuckolds.
Make sure that the other is about equal to you in physique and age. It is ideal if he lives far away from you, so that you do not meet in everyday life.
At the first real meeting with Internet acquaintances you should observe the usual precautions: always meet first in a public place (restaurant, café, park) and get to know each other a little.
Never meet in your own apartment. A hotel, apartment or swingers club are safer, more comfortable, and discreet.
Keep your hands off (at first) very dominant men, BBC Bulls (black men with XXL penis) and migrants. You must be in control of the situation at all times during sex. You are responsible for the safety and well-being of your woman in such a highly sensitive and vulnerable situation.
In the beginning, it should be only ONE man. Despite all the wild gangbang fantasies.… Start slowly and cautiously with the topic and then increase later if you like it. Tell the guy in advance that he should not bring up the topics of “sperm” and “facial insemination” for the time being. The horniness on abundant sperm grows with the vast majority of hotwifes namely completely automatically. Shift down a gear in this regard, and do not smash any porcelain.
And one more thing: Don’t tell anyone that you want to take photos and videos of the fuck events one day. Women react very allergic to that. Take your time in this regard. One day your wife will suggest it on her own 😉 Otherwise, you will spoil this wish in this fragile phase “once and for all”!
Conclusion — The Confession of the Cuckold: Strategy and Prudence Lead to the Goal
If you want to share your wife with another man, you first have to find out how she feels about it. She will (unfortunately) automatically deny this at the beginning — This is in the nature of things! Stay relaxed! However, if she is angry or vehemently refuses, it is best not to pursue the issue any further, as it can lead to the breakup of the relationship.
If she should not be completely averse, lead you slowly and gently to the topic.
It is important not to overwhelm your partner. Rather use the Salami slicing tactics and lead her gently to the topic. Provoke, pull back a bit, wait for the reaction and then continue a little bit. Do not overwhelm or annoy them! Remain reserved.
Watch together with her appealing, wisely preselected porn. Give her an erotic book about wifesharing from Amazon (skim it beforehand / read it yourself!). Go with her to a swingers club, of course “just to watch”.
Your Cuckold Coming-Out Is the Prerequisite for the Fulfillment of Your Fantasies
Avoid the topics of facial insemination, anal sex, cum swallowing, BDSM, sex without a condom, and black men (BBC) in your initial conversations. These topics hold massive potential for “prejudice” and will come up completely automatically later anyway, when you’re deeper into the subject matter. 😉
You can also get her interested in fancy sex games by buying her sexy lingerie (no cheap stuff please!) and telling her how attractive she looks in it. Make sure you have a good and beautiful sex life. Buy various sex toys!
Patience and empathy will bring you to the goal of your desires. But no pain, no gain! Your primary goal should be to prepare your wife or partner for a beautiful and unforgettable “first time”! The rest will happen all by itself.
Please share your experiences and tips for a successful cuckold coming out below. Have you managed to turn your fantasies into reality, or are you engaging in Fantasy Cuckolding.
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