Edging and Orgasm Control of the Cuckold
In the cuckold relationship, the woman is the dominant partner. She determines the sex life of the husband, boyfriend, or life partner and decides when and how often he may experience a climax. She also determines where the sperm is injected and enforces the clean licking.
The Hotwife wants to be fucked by her Bull, Blackbull, her lovers and by her Cuck as good as possible. However, she curiously also feels very strong sexual pleasure in humiliating her cuckold through orgasm deprivation, prostate stimulation, strap-on fucking, BDSM, nipple torture and cum swallowing.
Among the most common methods of orgasm control is edging. Like all other methods, edging serves the purpose of getting the strongest orgasm possible.
What exactly is edging and why “ruining orgasm” is good for the cuckold, you will learn in this guide. We are interested in your experiences! Please write us your opinions below in the comment field.
How Does Orgasm Control Work?
One of the simplest methods is also one of the most effective: it is forced abstinence.
The cuck is not allowed to have an orgasm during sex or while “jerking his penis” for a certain period of time (often 1 — 2 weeks). Abstinence has a great impact on his hormonal balance. The level of the male hormone testosterone increases and makes the cuck horny. In the vernacular, it is said that “pressure builds up”.
When the hotwife finally allows her cuckold to cum, he experiences his climax very intensely and squirts much more semen than usual.
However, the prohibition of sex is only one side of the coin. While the cuck is not allowed to cum and thus get relief, his hotwife tortures him with constantly repeated “penis edging”.
What Is Edging
The term comes from the English word “edge”, which means something like rim or edge. Edging means bringing someone to the edge of an orgasm and then suddenly stopping the stimulation, ruining the orgasm.
The whole thing is repeated several times in a row. Edging is a part of the orgasm control that the hotwife exerts over her cuckold.
How Does Edging Work?
Due to the orgasm and sex deprivation, the cuckold is already very horny anyway. However, his cuckoldress sparks the horniness even more by watching gangbang, creampie cleanup, and cuckold porn with him. In the process, the cuck has to jerk his cock again and again, but must not come in any case.
Sometimes the hotwife also jerks him off, but without allowing him to cum. Many hotwifes love to give their cuck a prostate massage. This makes him horny and at the same time massively stimulates the production of sperm.
When a man is about to climax, drops of pleasure come out of the vas deferens at the tip of the glans. This clear, slippery liquid, which is secreted as a natural lubricant, so to speak, is called desire drops. Desire drops taste very sweet and pleasant.
If the hotwife wants to “milk” her cuckold, she stimulates the penis to the point of no return. This is also called PONR and is when the orgasm is unstoppable. The man starts moaning and wants to cum. But the hotwife immediately takes her hand off the penis and ruins the orgasm very agonizingly.
Despite the immense frustration, the cuckold moans very loudly! White pre-ejaculate (English precum) spurts, pulsates or runs out of the penis. The precum also tastes considerably more sweet than the semen during a real orgasm.
Longing Drops and Pre-ejaculate (Precum) Sperm Collection
Both the crystal clear longing drops and the white or watery-looking pre-ejaculate are excellent for learning to swallow sperm.
The Cuckoldress places a black sperm bowl or plate on the man’s stomach or under his penis and milks it over and over. After 5 to 8 ruined orgasms, the prostate is milked dry. A black plastic spoon is suitable to always strip the penis glans clean and catch all leaking sperm drops.
With each loss of semen, the woman forces her cuck to swallow its own juice. She can also collect the sperm on the plate until the end of her edging game. The man must always lick his sperm plate sparkling clean.
If the woman wants to make it easier for her man to swallow, she can put a cookie or chocolate on the plate. The inseminated sperm cookie not only looks horny but also tastes the cuckold. Alternatively, you can freeze sperm in the freezer for later use to make sperm ice cubes, sperm lollipops or sperm snow.
The sperm swallow training serves for the later sex meetings with the Bulls. There it belongs to the tasks of the Cuckis that the Creampie is licked clean after the insemination of the pussy. At the Bull’s request, he sometimes has to blow his penis and also lick it clean. Therefore, cuckolds should practice cum swallowing as often as they can!
What Happens if the Cuck Fails Orgasm Control and Cum?
Unauthorized ejaculation is an explicit prohibition! Violation makes any hotwife very angry. She punishes him harshly with beatings, nipple torture and bondage
Many hotwifes also punish a disobedient cuck with a strap-on dildo. She straps on the dildo and fucks him in the ass with it
These punishments are not only unpleasant, but with it the Cuckoldress also demonstrates her power. If the cuckold moans and groans with pleasure and the cuck swallows his own sperm, this makes her feel better after a while.
If it happens more often that the cuckold can’t control himself and masturbates to the point of cuming, it can happen that he has to wear a penis cage / chastity belt.
The cage prevents the cuck from touching his cock and giving himself relief. The lock is secured with a lock to which only the hotwife has the key.
What Good Is Orgasm Control in a Normal Relationship?
Orgasm control is even more effective than you think. From repeated orgasm ruining and edging cuckold and cuckoldress benefit. For example, his temporary sex deprivation increases your and her pleasure enormously. Then, when he is finally allowed to have sex again, he feels it much more strongly.
Edging also brings benefits during sex. With it, the man trains his sexual stamina. Many couples have the problem that the man comes too early
The woman needs a long start-up time to get hot. Before her orgasm, the woman remains strongly aroused for a long time on a plateau phase.
However, when a man is aroused, he can come and cum after just a few thrusts. After that, most men need a recovery break and cannot continue immediately. As a result, he ruins sex for her.
However, with the help of edging, he can delay his orgasm until she comes. With skill, practice and a little luck, they can even climax together.
How Do You Practice Edging?
Edging is not that difficult to practice. It can be done alone or in pairs. In the beginning, you should try it alone.
a) Practice Edging Alone: Masturbate to the Point of No Return
1. You watch a porn movie and jerk off to it as you can. However, pick a porn where there is plenty of cum squirting. Watching creampies, bukkake, and facials during gangbangs also stimulates your sperm production a lot. (Sperm competition)
2. When you realize that you are going to cum any moment, IMMEDIATELY take your hand off the penis. Let the pre-ejaculate run into a sperm bowl or onto a sperm plate and lick it up. A black plastic spoon is also handy for cleaning the glans.
3. Wait until your arousal subsides a bit. When you’ve cooled down enough, it’s time for a new porn, where the woman is massively inseminated. You repeat this as many times as you can manage.
At first, it may be only once, then twice or three times. Some can use edging to postpone their orgasm five times.
4. As a reward, you finally get to orgasm. Be prepared for a brutally intense, but very, very horny orgasm. It is normal if almost no sperm squirts out. A dry orgasm is incredibly horny!
b) Train Edging by Wanking Penis with Partner: Interval Jerking
With the partner it also works, if she is initiated. It is an incredibly horny game for the woman to ruin your orgasms!
1. Agree in advance on a code! You commit yourself with fingers at any time to indicate your state of arousal. Put your right hand next to you and show the thumbs up — Then she knows: Everything is OK. Spread your thumb and index finger when you are very excited and she needs to jerk off more carefully. Thumb + index finger + middle finger spread means: “Jerk off carefully! I’m about to orgasm!” When the point-of-no-return kicks in, you loudly shout “STOP!!!”
2. She spoils your cock, similar to masturbation. A penis massage with oil is very good. When you realize that you are going to squirt at any moment, you call the “stop” as agreed and she takes her hand off your cock IMMEDIATELY.
c) Edging during Sex: Interval Fucking
Extremely much self-control is demanded from you if you want to edge the penis during sex. The pussy is very, very intense and has, due to the muscle.
Sometimes it’s enough that you just stop thrusting into her pussy. If that doesn’t help, pull your dick out. Don’t just lie still, but lick or finger her clit.
This will make her horny and help you cool down a bit. If you are skillful and stimulate her clit skillfully, you can bring her to orgasm with it alone. For you, this means a clear path! You can hole up and fuck her as hard as you want.
The woman’s orgasm lasts much longer than that of the man. It is quite possible that she even gets a second orgasm through your violent thrusts. The happiness of love is perfect!
Orgasm Control and Edging — Not Only for Cuckolds
The cuckoldress uses orgasm control and edging to show her power and dominance. But with the measures she also wants to achieve that her cuck gets stronger orgasms, so that she feels more pleasure during sex.
This principle can also be used by normal couples where the man tends to come too early. By edging, he can delay his orgasm until she experiences her climax and then even come together with her. There is no better feeling during sex than climaxing together with your lover.
The biggest advantage of a ruined orgasm is that the man is allowed to cum a little bit, but without getting a “slump” of pleasure that most men experience after a full orgasm.
In a “slump” the man loses all his energy and interest in sex and the woman After a ruined orgasm many men do not experience a slump, or it is very brief.
A ruined orgasm makes the man very dissatisfied, but he will quickly understand that this way “for more pay” is a better option.
Tips to Ruin the Orgasm:
- Announce ruining the orgasm beforehand or surprise him.
- Tell him to sit on a chair. Tie his hands behind his back or behind his head and blindfold him.
- Tell him to calmly try to reach orgasm while you keep ruining it.
- Do this a few times until he is really on the verge of orgasm. It’s really great fun as a woman to deny him orgasm at the last second.
- Then use your hands, mouth, tongue, panties, feathers, massage oil, etc. to tease him.
- One of the most interesting videos I saw was a woman licking her husband very, very slowly from bottom to top until he squirted.
- Let him ruin the orgasm “as a game” by himself. This is a good test of his loyalty.
- Write down three sexual things in a letter that your husband can win as a game-winner (1st to 3rd place) and one unpleasant sexual punishment (wearing clothespins for 10 minutes 6 times a day, anal strap-on fuck, wearing a chastity belt, or spankings with paddles)
- Hand him the envelope in the morning.
- Have her husband masturbate on a chair in the evening.
- Whom he stops before he cum, there is a point for the first abortion.
- for every other ruined orgasm with a small cum there is another point.
- If he jerks off without permission, he must fulfill the penalty
- Combine ruining with anal pleasure. This stimulates the prostate that his sperm leaks more
- Some women use this technique regularly to milk their man so that he can be without an orgasm for a long time.
- His pre-cum tastes very sweet. Force her man to lick it all up. A plate or a bowl helps not to waste anything.
- A masturbator / Fleshlight is a good toy to “go crazy” with.
- Don’t forget to pamper his other erogenous zones. Mouth, neck, ears, nipples (weights, clamps, wax), anus.
- A really hot psychic tip: set in a calendar when your man can have an orgasm and when not.
- Forbid your man to have an orgasm while masturbating.
Conclusion: Orgasm Control During Cuckold Is a Must!
For cuckold couples, it is important that the man is no longer allowed to cum on his own. orgasm control makes the cuckold very compliant and permanently horny! He is more resistant to pain, he asks for prostate play, and his desire massively increases for the hotwife to be alien-fucked.
We don’t think it’s right to ban the man’s orgasms altogether, but they should be reduced to one orgasm per week
Nevertheless, to keep the cuckold “happy”, his penis should be played with and milked by ruining orgasms as often as possible. This can be practiced three to eight times in a row.
That sperm does not belong in the handkerchief (anymore) is self-evident for Cuckolds.
Drops of desire, pre-ejaculate (precum) and semen are always collected with a plate or bowl and recycled.
Alternatively, sperm can be frozen and made into sperm ice cubes, sperm lollipops or sperm snow for later use.
Other Resources on Orgasm Control:
- a) peaks-n-pulses: The queen of cum control — Part 1
- b) peaks-n-pulses: The queen of cum control — Part 2
- c) peaks-n-pulses: The queen of cum control — Part 3
- femdomthinktank.bogspot.com: The Art of The Ruined Orgasm
- ruinedorgasm.com: Taylor’s Hands-on Guide To Ruined Orgasms
- uberkinky.com: Beginner’s Guide To Orgasm Denial
