Candaulism & Wifesharing: Fun to “Share” the Wife
In Google’s English-language search, “wifesharing” is among the most frequently searched pornographic terms. This shows how widespread such sexual fantasies are.
Recently, however, more and more couples are turning this fantasy into reality. This is possible not only because of liberal views on sexuality, but mainly thanks to the Internet, where like-minded people can exchange ideas and arrange for real meetings.
This guide is less about cuckolding and more about wifesharing. We would like to explain to you what is meant by the term candaulism, what is the attraction, and what dangers are lurking for you.
What Is Wifesharing?
The word is related to car sharing. Carsharing means that a car is used by several strangers. Similarly, wifesharing means that the husband allows strangers to have sex with his wife or partner.
This sounds chauvinistic, as if the wife is the property of her husband — but on the contrary, it allows the woman to live out her sexual fantasies while relying on the security of a solid partnership. So it is rather a form of feminism.
Wifesharing is only possible if all parties involved agree to it, respect each other and abide by the previously agreed rules.
Unlike the cuckold, the wifesharer is not submissive. He actively participates in sex and chooses the men together with his wife, the hotwife. In simple wifesharing, the wife has sex with 2 men.
On porn sites, this is abbreviated as MMF. Sometimes it can be more than two men. Then you talk about gangbang or with several women and men from group sex.
What Makes Wifesharing So Appealing?
First of all, the appeal of the “wicked” makes Wifesharing so interesting. To this day, there is a double standard in the public eye. While men who have many affairs are at least admired by their buddies (great pike), women who do the same are considered sluts or bimbos and are despised in public.
Although very many women secretly dream of having sex with at least two men, they do not dare to express this fantasy.
If women bravely get involved in wifesharing, they are clearly the winner of this sexual practice. The ladies are mostly fucked very violently, intensively, and repeatedly to orgasm. In the process, they are the center of attention, and the sexual greed of the men confirms their attractiveness and femininity.
For the wifesharer, it is appealing because he has a strong sexual desire, but at the same time he has great self-confidence. He knows that his wife loves him and that wifesharing is all about sex for her. It fills him with a kind of pride of ownership when he experiences how horny other men find his wife.
The Woman in Hormone Rush
Moreover in wifesharing, he can try different practices such as double penetration or spit roasting (blowjob and fucking from behind at the same time). Wifesharing also gives him an opportunity to present his wife in hot outfits. Just being naked during sex would be about the same as drinking fine wine right out of the bottle. Lingerie, high heels, suspenders and other things emphasize the female body and highlight its charms. This pleases her and him.
You must not forget, of course, the extremely strong visual stimulus that comes from sex with several people. For the participants, it’s as if they’re not just watching a porno, but starring in it.
On top of that, several men are egging each other on during sex. Everyone wants to prove that he is a real guy and fucks much harder and more intense than in normal sex for two.
Why Is Wifesharing Becoming So Popular?
The current wifesharing development is due to two things:
Firstly, people today are brought up to be much more tolerant and open-minded about everything that has to do with sex. The end of the sixties saw the beginning of a sexual revolution that continues to this day and has changed many people’s attitudes (although there is still a lot of prudishness and hypocrisy).
On the other hand, the Internet is a major contributor to this development. Not only can you watch countless porn on any topic, including wifesharing, but more than that, you can find very easy opportunities to get in touch with like-minded people.
In Germany alone, there are more than 2,000 contact exchanges where you can search for people who share your preferences. In addition, there are countless forums where members share their experiences and give good advice. It is no longer a problem at all to find people who are also interested in wifesharing.
Who Is Suitable for Wifesharing?
Both partners must be interested in it. If only he or only she wants it, the attempt will lead to disaster because it will strain the relationship. In Wifesharing both partners should have something from it.
Therefore, the relationship should be solid, and both must trust each other. The wifesharer must not be jealous, but must be able to clearly separate sex and love.
Even a minimal spark of jealousy can derail the whole project. Clear rules provide security and emotional relaxation.
The Right Choice of Men
If a couple wants to know what it is like to have sex with strange men, they can first go to a swingers club without any obligation.
Which man or men are eligible for a real fuck meeting, the couple should decide together. Probably both will have to agree on a compromise.
The men for the meeting must be attractive enough for the wife to feel like fucking them, but on the other hand, they must not be physically superior to the husband, so that he does not get inferiority complexes and become jealous.
The age, as well as the physique and the level of fitness, must be approximately the same as that of the husband. If, on the other hand, an older man brings a much younger one into the house, he is practically inviting competition. Problems are bound to arise in such cases.
Investing in a callboy is definitely a very good idea in the beginning.
Beware of Feelings
Wifesharing is not about feelings, but only about sex. The couple invites other men to have sex together to enrich their sex life. Therefore, the men should rather not be from the immediate social circle. For example, swapping partners with your best friend is not a good idea.
It is better if the couple looks for contacts on the Internet who live further away in another city. Before the first real meeting, they can get to know each other better via video chat and then meet in a hotel halfway between the two places of residence.
This ensures anonymity and discretion. It is also advisable not to meet too often with the same man. Intense sexual experiences can create an emotional bond.
What Are the Dangers of Wifesharing?
In a love triangle, the risk for tension is always greater than in a couple relationship. The hotwife could fall in love with another man or could even become a sex addict, so that normal sex for two no longer satisfies her.
It is also not easy for the husband to watch her being fucked to orgasm by another man and obviously enjoying sex with him. This can cause jealousy.
In addition, there are also physical dangers. If the sex partners change frequently, the danger of a sexually transmitted disease also increases. It doesn’t always have to be HIV, gonorrhea and syphilis are also a risk.
Even chlamydia, the most widespread sexually transmitted infection, can have unpleasant consequences and in the worst case lead to infertility.
Sex with strangers should never be done without a condom. Only when you have established a firm bond with your housemate or fellow fuckers should you give in to the eternal temptation to fuck without a condom and copiously inseminate your wife.
Conclusion: Sexual Wife Swap Enriches Relationship Life
If a woman gets involved in wifesharing, her husband should be proud and grateful. Few men are lucky enough to have such an open and experimental partner.
Together with her husband, boyfriend or life partner, the hotwife experiences incredibly horny sex evenings with great orgasms. Initial fear and doubt are normal. Very quickly, however, the woman loses the excitement and shyness, while she is hornily fucked and fremdbesamt by a bull or even a horde of men. Unlike the cuckold, the wifesharer fucks his wife with.
Sex with strange men can be downright addictive due to the tremendous release of happiness and sex hormones as well as adrenaline. Always “talk to each other” is a principle that you both should adhere to if you want to enjoy Wifesharing. Discuss everything with each other beforehand and establish clear rules together. In it, you should agree, for example, how far she may go during sex with other men, which practices are allowed and which are not.
Also clarify where and how often such sex meetings should take place. It is better not to overdo it. A threesome or gangbang is extremely horny for a woman, but it is also very exhausting. Do not organize a wifesharing party at home, but rather in neutral locations.
Every wifesharer should keep an eye on his wife’s well-being and give her emotional strength not only with drinks but also with kisses, caresses, tenderness and “holding hands”.
“Happy wife, happy life”, is a motto that fits especially when sharing. Take care of your wife and you will have a lot of fun together as a couple with this lifestyle.
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