Ten Times Penis Edging with Orgasm Control
On a FemDom blog on bdsmler.com we found a horny idea how to drive the penis together by edging really horny.
It is a challenge for cuckolds, but also for kinky wifesharers. The man is extremely sexually stimulated ten times, but is not allowed to reach orgasm.
You have the choice to extend the game to a day, play for a week, or complete the challenge within three hours.
Your goals should be that:
- you understand that ruining orgasms leads to significantly better sex.
- the man trains self-control and discipline over his orgasm.
- You practice cum kisses and cum games together.
- the man trains to swallow his own sperm.
- the woman comes to orgasm several times.
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The Rules of the Game for Your Edging Challenge
No game works without rules. These are:
§1: The man accepts that ten orgasms must be ruined in order to pass the challenge. He will not be allowed his real orgasm until all ten challenges have been completed!
§2: You write down your planned schedule on a piece of paper or in a Word document.
§3: You both decide on the duration of the game:
- You can play the game throughout the day. For example, you can start in the morning in bed and the 10th task, including orgasm, takes place in the late evening.
- You can also set a period from Monday to Friday where 2 tasks have to be done every day.
- Edging professionals can also play through the sex game in one piece within two to three hours.
§4: Your tasks can be done in the order of your choice. But try to end the game with the tenth task (maximum stimulation)
§5: Set a very tempting reward for the man if he passes the challenge. If he loses it because he orgasmed too early or he can’t continue, you should set a very serious, severe penalty!
§6: Agree on a traffic light system with colors. When the man pronounces the hue, the woman knows how much she can stimulate the penis
- green = everything is good
- yellow = stimulate the penis more slowly
- orange = stimulate only very slowly
- red = danger of squirting! Stimulate the penis only very carefully!
§7: Define a safe-word that the man must pronounce so that the woman stops ANY stimulation IMMEDIATELY to prevent the orgasm in the very last second. For example, a loud “STOP!”
§8: Handkerchiefs and Kleenex are not allowed in this game. The woman actively and without pity supports the man to take up his own precum (pre-ejaculate) and sperm again with his mouth. A Cuckold wants and must practice his own sperm swallowing!
§9: If the man has ejaculated on the hand, pussy, breasts, belly or any other part of the body of the woman, he must always lick his mess thoroughly clean.
§10: With the help of a sperm-drop and a spoon, every drop of pleasure, precum and sperm (no matter how small or how large) is collected. Without theater, the cuckold or wifesharer must clean the plate and spoon.
Penis Edging Preparations
Before you start playing, you should have read our guides and be confident in orgasm control:
- Edging: The Art of the Ruined Orgasm
- Guide for Hotwifes: Orgasm Control in Men
- Spending hours at the point of no return masturbating and ruining orgasm
- Guide to learning orgasm control with your partner
- Guide to learning orgasm control without your partner
- Orgasm Ruining: A violent pleasure experience for men
- Orgasm control with the cuckold
The man should already train his back with gymnastics and stretching a few days before his edging competition so that he can inject himself into his mouth.
You will need a preferably black plastic spoon or teaspoon for sperm collection, a preferably black plate for controlled milking and collecting (cum collecting) of the sperm
Any cloths are banned from the room, as the man should train sperm swallowing.
You will also need a strong vibrator or a massager to make the penis cum.
The preparation also includes that you pick out the favorite movie of the cuckold, or wifesharer on a TV or notebook and get it ready to start. It should be very cum-heavy and extreme if possible.
- For task 5: open the favorite porn of the man
- For task 8: look for a “Try To Not Cum Challenge” on the computer in advance, or check out the FapSimulator.
You Will also need the following toys
- Good silicone-based massage oil (e.g. Megasol Eros or Pjur Original)
- Eye mask
- Crop, paddle or flogger
- Clothespins or adjustable nipple clamps
- Nipple sucker
- Blackboard candle or grave light
- Fleshlight masturbator (Perfect is the combination Fleshlight GO and Fleshlube)
Game Instructions For a Two to Three Hour “Orgasm Ruining Challenge”
On your mark, get set… and let’s go.…
Task 1 — Fuck Woman and Ruin Orgasm on Pussy
You both make sure the penis gets stiff and fuck normally as you know and like. When the man fucks very hard, he must pay close attention to his physical signals!
If the orgasm is approaching, he must fuck slower and slower and slower until only a few movements are enough for the cock to ejaculate. If the stimulation becomes too blatant, the penis should only be rubbed up and down the outside of the labia until he finally climaxes.
The penis must be pulled out of the pussy immediately! Wildly jerking, bobbing and bouncing up and down will ruin the orgasm. Let the first three horny shots of precum-sperm mixture splash on the belly, in the pubic hair or the bare shaved pubic mound of the pussy
When the orgasm danger is over, the woman licks the cock clean. The man licks his horny mess from pussy and belly and spits the cum in a long thread slowly into the woman’s mouth. A passionate, horny cum kiss belongs at the end!
Time approach: about 15 minutes
Task 2 — A Passionate Master Blowjob
The man sits on the edge of the bed and the woman kneels in front of her man. She blows and sucks the cock with her mouth to the best of her ability. In a way, she tries to top the horny fuck of her permanently horny pussy with her passionate blowjob.
She uses as much spit as possible and makes fucking movements with her mouth like a wet pussy. In the process, the tongue is additionally used.
If the man calls “stop”, the woman immediately stops the blowjob. She grabs the sperm plate, holds it under her chin and holds her tongue or mouth under the tip of the penis to catch the milking love juice
However, the rock-hard penis will only be able to ejaculate with a weak squirt. However, there can still be a strong facial insemination due to the enormous insemination pressure of the beautiful face of the beloved woman.
The pre juice (called pre-cum) tastes very sweet and pleasant! Kiss each other passionately afterwards.
Time approach: about 15 minutes
Task 3: A Joint Hard Handjob
Now it gets hard! The man lies down with his back on the bed. The woman puts the sperm plate on the man’s stomach and holds the spoon ready
She jerks the cock as fast as she can. The man is also allowed to assist when her arm gets lame.
The woman pays attention to the man’s reactions and at some point switches from continuous jerking to interval jerking. According to your traffic light system, the jerking intervals are reduced from 30 to 20, then to 10 and then to 6.
Jerking off should be varied. For example, rub the cock between two hands as in “start a fire”; rub the glans with the palm of your hand; jerk off sometimes with the left and sometimes with the right; sometimes with the whole hand and sometimes with two fingers. The important thing is: oil, oil and again oil!
Basically, it is better to jerk off once too little than once too much in a jerk-off salvo!
The woman should not take pity. After 10 minutes, the man whimpering for orgasm should be punished and calmed down with nipple clamps, clothespins, nipple suckers or a strong nipple massage using fingers or candle wax on the nipples
If he fidgets too much, restraints and light strokes with a crop work wonders! All this he will accept with great gratitude.
As soon as the cock wants to orgasm, the man calls “STOP” and the woman immediately lets go of the penis. The cock will look insane: It will bob frantically and leak “crying”
The man will painfully rebel and agonizingly, moaning loudly ruin the orgasm over the plate
The woman will return the sperm to the man and have him lick the spoon and plate clean.
Time limit: approx. 15 minutes
Task 4: Position 69 — He Lies under the Pussy
Get both of you into position 69. The man lies under the pussy. The woman can now make the man white heat under her. While he has the task of licking her to orgasm, horny fingering and light fisting, she jerks and blows his penis at maximum speed
To tease him, she can sit on his face in between and masturbate to orgasm with sex toys. If the woman can squirt, a few squirting squirts in his face and mouth won’t hurt him! Fingers and sex toys he must lick before it continues! It’s just the job of every cuck.
Finally, he won’t be able to stand the smell of pussy and cunt juice anymore and will want to come to orgasm! We recommend you to always put the sperm plate under the cock to be on the safe side.
The cuck announces the climax loudly with a “STOP”, so that the woman ruins the climax of her husband for the fourth time
Only a little bit of sweet sperm will leave the fiery red, fat veined penis in great agony of pleasure. Most guys have full-body goose bumps! After licking the magnificent penis clean, the woman will kiss her man and share the collected cum by means of a cum kiss.
Time estimate: approx. 15 minutes
Task 5: The Cuckold’s Favorite Porno
Although the man will already be very much at the limit physically, but since there has been no sexual satisfaction yet, he is extremely aroused!
He should now be given a longer break by being allowed to watch his favorite porn(s) while lying on his back on the bed
But what he doesn’t know is that because of the extremely high pleasure plateau, these intense sex scenes will turn him on much more than he would like!
The woman sits down next to her man and jerks the cock in fast 30s, 20s, 10s and 6s jerk-off salvos. She should comment very horny actions with her words. E.g. “Wow Peter, look at this huge cock! Awesome!” That will kick him tremendously!
The fifth orgasm is absolutely no longer a gift. Moaning loudly, the cuck will writhe in pleasure pain
The penis looks full crass: The glans peeks half out in foreskin wearers, the veins protrude widely, the urethral opening is wide open and the scrotum is turgidly contracted.
A plate under the penis is mandatory! There might be a little bit more precum squirting again due to the visual stimulation of the porns. Down running pre-cum is led back to the man again with kisses and the plastic spoon of course into the mouth. Resistance is no longer to be expected!
Time estimate: approx. 30 minutes
Task 6: Position 69 — She Lies under the Tail
Return to position 69, but this time the man is on top. While the man has to lick his wife to orgasm, she jerks and blows the drooping cock
Even though the penis is already going limp by now, you have to find a way to make the cock cum into the woman’s mouth with a ruined orgasm! Here, however, gravity will help you. The hanging penis can also be jerked semi-stiff super and quickly becomes hard as a board again.
The woman must jerkily stop ANY stimulation when he starts to “come”! If the orgasm was ruined, you have done the job. The little drops of sperm taste excellently sweet and can be easily shared while kissing.
Task 7 — Milking Cock by Prostate Stimulation
Advanced cuckolding and wifesharing couples have also explored prostate massage, noticing the mega-rare orgasms a man can experience in the process.
Repeated orgasm ruining in connection with a prostate stimulation by a finger, dildo or prostate stimulator is the grossest thing a man can experience sexually!
From there, we increase the degree of difficulty in this Edging Challenge! The man kneels or lies on his back. His prostate is stimulated while jerking his cock. The man’s task is to keep the penis stiff
How long you need for this does not matter — the main thing is that the orgasm is destroyed a 7th time and the man writhes loudly moaning like an eel. The leaking and splashing cum must be recycled by the cuckold!
Time approach: about 30 minutes
Task 8: Ruin with a “Try To Not Cum Challenge” / “Cock Hero Challenge”
A “Cuck Hero Challenge”, or “Try To Not Cum Challenge” is porn in which scenes from porn have been cut together. There are often also strongly stimulating photos inserted between. Parallel to this, a music plays in the background. You are given beat of either acoustic or visual indicator.
a) Either you choose a ready edging video:
- xHamster: Cock hero challenge
- xhamster: Try not to cum challenge
- xVideos: Cock hero challenge
- xVideos: Try not to cum challenge
b) or you play an edging game in FapInstructor;
The FapInstructor plays video sequences and photos for you. You see a visual beat indicator and an acoustic beat sound.
- FapInstructor.com: Edging game — Cum Swallows and Bikinis
- FapInstructor.com: CEI Ruined Orgasm Game
Task 9 — Autofellatio: Inject Yourself in the Mouth
You’ve been teasing the penis for over two hours now and ruined a whopping eight orgasms! This is total madness and the man deserves the utmost respect!
But the tail has no rest yet! It’s time to take on the biggest challenge for a man: He must squirt himself in The mouth! But since the man is extremely horny, he will also do this task very gladly and most voluntarily.
The man must position himself with his butt up, with his back against the backrest of a couch, so that his legs hang in the air and the penis over his mouth.
Wank both together the cock over the man’s face. He should continually try to get to his glans and blow it together with the woman. The man can be fueled by swallowing pussy juice and squirt. Finally, the orgasm is unstoppable!
Due to the tension of the pelvic floor muscles, maybe another two drops of sperm can drip into the mouth. This is not much, but this task has an immense learning effect. The man will want to cum in his mouth more often from now on! 😉
Task 10 — The Brutal 10 Minutes Jerk-off Finale
It’s almost done! The goal is in sight. For the finale, the man has to be tied up. There is basically no cum left in the man. Nevertheless, he was ready to want to run this marathon! So pinching now is not!
The man lies on his back as in task 3. He is tied up and has to put on an eye mask. Right at the beginning, he gets clothespins on his nipples. He feels such strong pleasure that he is almost painless.
The woman now drives up all the guns she has: Soak the cock with massage oil, blow him, maltreat him with massager. Prostate games are allowed as well as a strap-on fuck. Husband has to endure everything his wife asks of him.
The 10th edging round is about humiliating the man to the maximum and stimulating him to the maximum. The woman should show NO mercy! She must not stop unless he use a safeword
The goal is to bring the man to orgasm one last time. After at least ten minutes of “torture”, the woman must not stop until the orgasm is ruined
Very powerful is the education method that he must ruin on a used sex toy of his wife that he has to lick clean in the end!
If he has ruined his climax a tenth time, he may receive his reward. As a second reward, he should finally be the longed orgasm before the end of your edging game.
Well Finally: The Longed Orgasm Is Allowed to the Reward!!!
If the man has really passed all ten edging tasks, he can proudly call himself the Edging King!
As a reward, he is finally allowed to orgasm. Thereby, he has the choice how the stimulation should take place. But the funny thing is: The sexual organs of the man are so overstimulated that the orgasm becomes a torture.
The upcoming dry orgasm is probably the most intense feeling a man can experience.
We are curious to know what you experienced during this edging marathon. Did you manage the ten tasks in one go, or did you prefer to divide them up over several hours or even days? Please write us a comment. We’re also happy to receive suggestions for improvement, opinions and criticism.
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