How to Make Your Private Gangbang a Success
More and more couples enjoy the tingling experiences of an unconventional sex life. Wifesharers, swingers, and cuckolds live out their erotic fantasies. They do not limit sex to their life or marriage partner but also involve other men (sometimes women).
Most of them take their first steps in this direction in a swingers club. These establishments are specially equipped for sex parties. They offer discretion, good service, and special equipment, for example, extra-large reinforced beds and BDSM furniture. As convenient as it may be, there is hardly any privacy there. Sex takes place mostly anonymously and uncontrolled.
Therefore, more and more couples have the desire to organize a private sex party with selected guests. Learn practical tips here on how to make it a pleasurable experience.
The Advantages of a Private Group Sex Party
The most important advantage of a privately organized gangbang is that the hotwife can “choose” the men. But there are other reasons why you could organize a party by yourself:
- The woman can determine how many men are invited to the party.
- The woman can determine exactly which men may come.
- Already known gentlemen with whom sex works well can be invited.
- The sex party takes place in a familiar, relaxed atmosphere.
- Cucki and Hotwife can be as familiar with each other as they are used to at home.
- After the party, there is no need to shower. The cuckold can enjoy fucking his repeatedly inseminated hotwife and tenderly end the event with her.
- Cuckold and cuckoldress can act much more relaxed with each other.
The Disadvantages of a Private Sex Party
The biggest disadvantage is that you, as the organizer, have to take care of everything yourself and bear the responsibility:
- Neighbors might complain about disturbing the peace and, in extreme cases, call the police.
- Normal furniture is not suitable for a gangbang. An average bed reaches its load limit with three people.
- Huge problem: Many of the invited men do not come to the date. Often with flimsy excuses or no cancellation at all!
- Embarrassed small talk might occur.
- It is not uncommon for men to refuse to provide the health certificate required for AO sex.
- After the party, the hotwife and cuckold have to clean everything up.
- Guys like to resist having the medical certificate done. Really have NO GRACE and make no exception! The minimum would be sex with a condom.
What Is the Best Place for a Private Gangbang?
The most suitable are accommodations that you can rent by the hour. Such offers can be found online under the search terms Love Apartment or Love Hotel. These are often well-equipped for sex parties. The beds are reinforced, often there is even a whirlpool and sex furniture. Cleaning is included in the price. Hour hotels also offer rooms for more than 2 people. Also, a good tip is to rent a bigger hostel room.
Alternatively, a vacation apartment in a big city is also suitable — but a vacation home or chalet in the countryside is better. To avoid complaints from neighbors, the house should be soundproofed, because sex parties are usually quite noisy.
How Many Participants Are Ideal for a Sex Party?
First of all, it’s always a good idea to invite two additional guys, because experience has shown that one or the other man cancels at short notice or doesn’t show up at all. Some men also don’t get an erection because of excitement.
For a private gangbang, the hotwife should initially invite three bulls (+2 reserve). Optimal for experienced Hotwifes are later five men (+2 reserve). To be really fully satisfied, the Cuckoldress can dare to have even ten lovers one day. The pussy is incredibly resilient during a direct insemination, it rather happens at the condition during the many orgasms. 😉
Important: If you have more than 10 men, you should invite a second woman in case there are too many cocks. Because you should be aware of one thing: “Limping” is not when you have invited the guys. They will all go only when they have come at least once to the shot!
You should schedule the sex party several weeks in advance. Many lovers come from far away and can not take time off at short notice. Bridge days are well suited.
Without Ifs and Buts: The Test for HIV and Stds
All participants — the bulls, the hotwife, and the cuckold, must bring current test results that prove they are healthy and have no STDs. Those who cannot or will not show such a test may have sex only with a condom.
In the interest of health, no exception may be made to this! There are so-called quick tests, but they do not provide 100% protection. However, we recommend that you have the full test done by your family doctor, urologist or gynecologist.
Rules for the Sex Party
The aim of the gangbang is to satisfy the hotwife. For this, the couple invites “guests” for the sex party. Therefore, the guests must behave as such. The Hotwife is not a free-wild, and the cuckold is not an idiot. All Bulls and Lovers must submit to the couple’s house rules.
Hotwife and the Cuckold set the rules and procedure together in advance. It is important to set rules and boundaries from the beginning:
- Hotwife chooses the guests herself
- The hotwife determines whether she wants to have unprotected sex or not.
- She also determines whether the lover may cum in her.
- It is determined in advance if anal sex is allowed.
- What about double penetration, deep throat and choking?
- Are the bulls allowed to cum on the body or in the hotwife’s face and mouth?
- What SM practices are allowed (bondage, clamps, sex toys, spanking, etc.)?
- Is the Cuck only allowed to watch or to be active himself?
- Does he have to lick the pussy of his hotwife clean?
- What clothes should the hotwife wear during sex?
- Set a safeword for the emergency!
- May men who use condoms empty them on the hotwife’s brushes?
Clear Rules Avoid Misunderstandings
The guests must be told in no uncertain terms how they are to behave. The rules should be sent to them in writing before the party starts.
- clear times “from, to
- Hygiene rules, body shaving / intimate shaving
- if desired: dress code
- The sex party is solely for the satisfaction of the Hotwife
- Hotwife and Cuckold are the hosts and have the domiciliary rights. Their instructions must be followed.
- Although the cuckold is submissive, he is in charge and protects the hotwife.
- Videos and photos may only be made by the Cuckold.
- At the latest when the last Bull has emptied his balls, the party is over. All guests must leave immediately! The couple wants to have time for themselves after the gangbang!
Wifesharing Party Organize & Plan — General Tips
The hotwife should prepare well for your sex party several weeks before the event and stretch her holes regularly so that she can withstand larger penis sizes and hard fucking
For the rear entrance, this works best with butt plugs, plugs made of glass or silicone, which are inserted into the anus. The vagina should be trained with thick, soft dildos or pump-up dildos. Love balls and KONG dog toys can be worn for hours to prepare the pussy for all sizes of cock. Don’t worry — wearing out your pussy through regular training will not. On the contrary. The vaginal muscles are well-conditioned.
About 2 — 3 hours before the party, the hotwife should clean her anus with an anal shower. Do not eat too much before the party! Light appetizers that are prepared bite-size are suitable as food.
Do not offer alcohol or drugs! Intoxicants cloud the senses and only lead to problems.
Videos and photos may only be taken with the express permission of all present. If necessary, provide masks.
If the gangbang takes place in a vacation home, it is better not to use the beds for the wild activity, but to spread a few blankets and pillows on the floor or use the dining table. This saves trouble with the landlord.
Conclusion: The Private Sex Party — A Symphony of Pleasure
If everything is well planned, such a gangbang will be an experience that will be remembered for a long time. For it to be a success, clear rules must be set and followed by all participants. If necessary, hotwife and cuckold must not be afraid to make use of their domiciliary rights and expel troublemakers.
However, experience has shown that this is rarely the case. Most guests abide by the agreed rules and do their best to satisfy the sex-hungry hotwife. Especially on a smaller scale, guys duel each other to see who can fuck the hardest and fastest or who can trigger the most orgasms in her. Quite a few bulls can even cum two or three times.
The Cuckold / Wifesharer also comes visually and acoustically to his fun. Depending on his rules, he is locked up with a penis cage, and allowed to jerk off or even fuck along. He is often also responsible for sperm cleaning, filming, and taking photos.
When the guests have left, Hotwife and Cucki can retire and relax together and process the incredibly horny event.
Read Also:
- Level 1 for Beginners: How to Organize Sex Meetings with a Lover / Bull?
- Level 2 for Advanced: Men’s Surplus Party: The Gangbang in the Swingers Club
- Level 3 for Advanced: How to Organize a Private Sex Party?
- Level 4 for Professionals: The BBC Gangbang: Dream of every hotwife