Tips for First, Successful Wife-Sharing Dates
Wifesharing and cuckold relationships do not develop “overnight”. They develop — comparable to the growth of a plant and depend on many factors.
It is not only part of it that the husband is submissive, but above all that his hotwife is sexually very open, curious, and to a high degree sexually willing to experiment. The goal is for her to meet with strange men for debauched, hard sex while he watches. A high level of kinkiness, honesty, and absolute primal trust are equally important requirements.
If, after the courageous cuckold coming out, the first wife sharing or cuckolding fantasies have also awakened in the woman, and both partners are not averse to sex with strangers, at some point the questions arise: “How do I find a bull?”, “Where do you meet for sex?”, “What do you wear?”, “How do I behave?” and “Are there dangers?”
For first dates and sex encounters to go smoothly, they need to be thoroughly prepared. You and your wife should proceed methodically. What you should pay attention to, you can read in this cuckold guide.
Set Common Boundaries for Sex Meetings
Before the sex meeting even starts, you jointly determine the limits to which you want to go.
- A very clear, unbreakable standard rule is: no sneaking around, no secret chats, no secret cell phone number exchanges. The Bull often tries to make direct contact with the Hotwife after a few weeks! This must be prevented / warded off especially by the Hotwife. Cuckold and Hotwife always read and phone together, so that no secrecy can arise.
- Rule No. 2: The communication may not run over the normal cell phones! Buy a cheap Android cell phone, with a micro contract / prepaid card / Congstar as well as a good camera and enough memory for your clips and photos. Only on it chat and call together via WhatsApp, Telegram, Threema etc.
- Third standard rule: No sex without a health certificate or condom! In most cases, the lovers (bulls) always demand sex without a condom. They want to fuck the hotwife “bare” hard and inseminate all her holes, body and face abundantly with sperm. If you don’t want sex without condoms, you should definitely insist on it. Some Bulls go partly very cunningly to bypass the condom!
- Fourth standard rule: Do not post photos and videos with face to the lover(s). In the worst case, you will find yourself on the Internet. Modern facial recognition technologies can turn your adventure into a nightmare.
- Clarify before the sex meeting among you whether you want body insemination, mouth insemination and facial insemination.
- In the intoxication of lust, it is often quite rough on such dates. If it gets too much, a simple “no” is not enough. You need to set a stop word / safeword. If the hotwife calls it, it’s too much for her and you have to step in and stop the action.
- You must realize that a cuckold is also expected to lick clean his mistress’s cum-filled pussy thoroughly after each insemination. Some bull also expects to do the same with his cock. If you don’t want that, you have to say so right from the start. There are always alternatives.
- Even though a kind of “familiarity” may set in, you must not give the Bull too much insight into your private life. He will try to discover weaknesses in your relationship / your everyday life in order to win the Hotwife over. The Bull has absolutely no business in your private apartment!
Where Can You Find Suitable Bulls and Lovers for Sex Meetings?
The first big step is that you need to find lovers and get in touch with them. There are a lot of contact exchanges and erotic forums where you can register for free and make contacts. Be careful never to show your faces or even reveal your names and addresses.
Choose an email address specifically for cuckolding. The best is gmail.com, that makes the least problems because of spam / sex terms. For the telephone contact, as already written above, a cheap cell phone is advantageous.
Look for potential candidates together for your sex meetings and write a little first. If your relationship is to last, you must do everything together from the beginning. Trust is the basis of any relationship. Good platforms to find Bulls, BBCs and Lover are:
The Preparations for the Sex Meeting
The hotwife needs to work out before: Stretching with Toys, hardening of the nipples, orgasm ruining, and multiple orgasms. The couple should learn squirting / fisting, and they should practice cum swallowing.
For the cuckold, unauthorized masturbation and ejaculation is strictly forbidden for one to two weeks (until the date)! Instead, he punishes himself for his lust with butt plugs and nipple clamps. Leaking drops of desire he always licks up. The penis is jerked and played with together. There is a strict orgasm ban for him. If he is lucky, the hotwife ruins his orgasm over a sperm plate.
The Hotwife, on the other hand, masturbates as often as she can and wants to orgasm. She wears various love balls, a Kong, vaginal plugs, and possibly a butt plug while shopping and walking to put herself in a state of permanent horniness.
Instead of watching trash TV in the evening, you should rather watch porn together several times a week to learn and stimulate your fantasies.
Buy sex toys to prepare for the date, practice and playfully “toughen up”. You should equip yourself with a plastic box as a toy chest. It should contain huge dildos, vibrators, pump-up dildos, cock rings, nipple toys, nipple suckers, and pussy suckers. Also, a G‑spot dildo for squirting practice, a masturbator (e.g. Fleshlight) for the cuckold, and lube.
Your evening workouts and challenges are great for photos / clips to get the bull horny.
Love balls, butt plugs, pump-up dildos and KONG dog toys in several sizes are also a good tip to get pussy and butt hole stretched. Lube is definitely not to be missed. Make sure to use water-soluble gels that won’t attack the toy.
For you as a cuckold, a penis cage is recommended. This is a kind of chastity belt for men that prevents you from jerking off. In consultation with your hotwife you may occasionally treat yourself to relaxation with a masturbator. Probably now often have to ruin your orgasm and always swallow your own sperm.
Send photos and clips of your games to the lovers to get them horny before the sex meeting. A picture of her shoving an XXL dildo into her pussy is guaranteed to be well received. Bulls want to see from experience a lot of pussy juice, uninhibited horniness and kinky objects like fruits and vegetables in the pussy. The hotwife should gradually get into the habit of walking around without panties and masturbating several times a day.
As part of the preparation, you as a cuckold should learn and practice, practice, and practice again swallowing your own cum! Masturbate only with the permission of your hotwife and complete a swallow training for men. Over time, you will get used to the taste and find sperm horny and very happy to lick the creampie out.
At the same time, you can discuss what the hotwife should wear at the sex meeting. Simply naked is boring. Sophisticated lingerie emphasizes the female curves and makes her body even more attractive.
For example, many men are fond of suspenders, fishnet stockings, and high heels. Others like over-knee boots, a leather corsage, a nurse costume, or a schoolgirl uniform.
Buy quality products rather than cheap junk. Good stuff you can use again and again, while cheap stuff often breaks the first time.
Women and Bulls love jewelry! You should also order the wife, girlfriend or life partner horny hotwife accessories. Surprise the Bull with a BBC anklet with letters or symbols (BBC Anklet), necklaces with unique symbols, bracelets, or BBC/Hotwife tattoo stickers be.
Think of a thin kimono coat to throw over and waterproof makeup. If necessary, in consultation, you should buy XXL condoms. Also, think about masks, in case you or the bull do not want to be recognized in photos.
Medical: Safety Always Comes First at Sex Meetings!
Cuckolding is having sex with strangers. In contrast to swinging, sex without a condom is usually explicitly desired during wifesharing and cuckolding. The abundant foreign insemination with the horny sperm of the lover is a central part of this lifestyle.
All involved (both cuckold, hotwife and even more so the bull and the lovers!) should therefore get tested for HIV, hepatitis and common STDs like gonorrhea, syphilis or chlamydia, herpes, genital warts.
An HIV test and a test for STDs are performed by general practitioners, and gynecologists / urologists for about $30. You will receive a written medical certificate that you present to each other.
Alternatively, you can buy self-tests that work as follows
- You order them online, take a swab or a blood sample from your finger at home and send the sample to a test laboratory. The laboratory sends the results back to you. The results should only be a few days old.
- There are also self-tests and quick tests for home use. Again, you prick your finger or take a swab. Usually, a swab is mixed in a reaction liquid and dropped onto a test cassette or a reaction strip is dipped. The result can be read within a few minutes.
ALL parties must bring the writing, or tests, and show them to each other. No test = no sex! Without exception!
Where Do You Meet for Stranger Fucking?
If you get involved in stranger fucking, you should keep your anonymity. Under no circumstances should you meet at home or even in the apartment of a friend.
Best not even in your city. It is best to drive to the next larger city — this offers enough discretion.
There you will certainly find hourly hotels or apartments that can be rented by the hour. In the classifieds of the local newspaper (weekend edition) or on Google, you will certainly find what you are looking for.
Alternatively, a swinger club is also very suitable. These places are specially designed for sex parties. They have especially large and sturdy beds, sex furniture, and lots of sex toys. The rooms are soundproofed, and the staff is discreet.
A hotel is only suitable to a limited extent. At most, it is recommended if there are only three of you. Nevertheless, in a hotel, there is always a risk that other guests will complain about the noise. In high summer, think about the room equipment of an air conditioner.
On the Day of the Fuck Date: What Happens When the Bull Comes?
On the day of your date, the cuckold will actively help his wife pack her suitcase and buy drinks, refreshments and snacks. Better leave a little earlier so that you can still make preparations at the location.
The hotwife should stretch her pussy (e.g. during the car ride) during the day again several times with Aufpumpdildo, a plug or dildos the pussy slightly. Opposite clitoris jerking is perfectly fine, because it helps her noticeably to relieve sexual tension. In all likelihood, the cuck will have to lick the soaking wet pussy thoroughly clean several times. But an orgasm is strictly forbidden to both partners!
Absolutely you should put thick sauna towels / mattress protectors under the sheets in the room. Large amounts of squirt, pussy juice, and sperm can and will run down.
Place your favorite sex toys, squirt and cum bowls, cum spoons, and plenty of lube handy on a small table. Also, decorate the snacks and refreshments attractively for the bull / lover.
By the way, you don’t need paper tissues — you can leave them at home! It’s the cuck’s job to lick your horny love fluids thoroughly up and clean.
The body styling of the wife / girlfriend is done according to the wishes of the Bull. When shaving and dressing the cuckold also assists.
The Hotwife showers and makes up, puts on her sexy lingerie and waits on the bed. The cuckold plays the butler. He opens the door, greets the guests, and offers them refreshments.
Her immediately briskly go to the bedroom! Experience shows that it’s better to get down to business quickly instead of chatting for an eternally long time. You should avoid embarrassing small talk!
The hotwife sits close to the bull, or in the middle between the lovers. The Cucki goes out from time to time intentionally a little longer to get drinks and nibbles.
The Cuckold holds back very much when fucking. He sits on the chair, jerks his cock while watching and takes photos and shoots small clips.
If it comes to squirting, massive leakage of pussy juice or the first stranger insemination, he immediately kneels next to the bed without being asked and pays very careful attention with his tongue, mouth, fingers, spoon and bowls that not a single drop of sperm, creampie and other love feet runs onto the sheets.
What to Do if It Goes Wrong During the Stranger Fuck?
UNCONDITIONALLY, you should plan a Plan B in case the Bull blows the date and doesn’t show up . It’s not uncommon for men to be excited and can’t wait for the date, but then cancel at the last second or not show up at all. You should be prepared for this case and come up with a plan B.
Take a laptop with you with porn and sex toys. You can then have fun with each other. Your hotwife will benefit from the fact that you have been abstinent for a long time and have built up pressure. Alternatively, you can also find the address of a swingers club nearby and drive there.
For couples, the entrance is often free or at least cheap. There your hotwife is guaranteed to find men who want to have sex with her.
Conclusion: Cuckolding & Wifesharing Fantasies Can Be Well Realized at Sex Meetings
If you and your hotwife want to live in a functioning cuckold relationship, there are a few things you need to keep in mind.
Among the most important rules is to do everything together and, for example, do not allow the lover to secretly contact your hotwife. Establish your boundaries beforehand.
It is equally important to maintain privacy. Meet with the lovers somewhere outside, never at home. Do not reveal your real names or addresses. Dating is all about sex.
If you have unprotected sex during sex meetings, make sure that all participants can show current health certificates. After a few meetings, the preparations will become routine. You will enjoy cuckolding to the fullest!
At first, it’s often just one man. But quickly the hotwife gets a desire for more. The events evolve towards threesomes (MMF), to group sex, to orgies, to gangbangs with black bulls (BBC).
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- Level 3 for Advanced: How to Organize a Private Sex Party?
- Level 4 for Professionals: The BBC Gangbang: Dream of every hotwife
- Best Swinger Sites of 2021: Ultimate Guide to Finding Local Swingers Near You
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