The Way From Self-Knowledge to Self-Acceptance With a Smaller Penis Size
Probably every man occasionally thinks about whether his penis is big enough and whether it can be lengthened. Especially in cuckolding, but also in wifesharing, the issue of penis size has central importance. Middle-aged hotwifes have very intense fantasies with dark-skinned BBC men.
In this guide, we would like to start by addressing the questions of what a “small penis” is in the first place and why men are so differently sized.
We will explain which men have the biggest dick in international comparison and what the psychological reasons behind the inferiority complexes of cuckolds are. Finally, we enlighten you on what you can do yourself if you are a little less endowed.
Please take your time and leave a comment below the article. Are you satisfied with your dick? How big should a penis be? What advice would you give to poorly endowed men?
How Big Is an Average Penis?
First, a few interesting facts about a man’s best friend (but sometimes worst enemy), his penis.
When erect, a penis measures an average of 13.12 inches worldwide. When flaccid, it measures about 9.16 cm. When aroused, a so-called blood penis thus grows by more than 40 percent.
It is scientifically proven that geographic descent is of great importance for penis length. It is not a cliché that men from Africa and South America are best endowed. However, better-endowed men from these regions often meat penis. Inhabitants of East Asia usually have to settle for a small penis.
In Europe, about 10 percent of all men have to be satisfied with a penis length of less than 11 cm, while about 13 percent can be happy about a penis with a length of 15 cm or more. Consequently, three-quarters of all men have a normal-sized penis between 11 — 15 cm.
Myth Penis Size: Do Most Cuckolds Really Have a Small Penis?
No, a short penis is not an exclusive characteristic of a Cuckold. Men of all penis sizes are represented in this group.
However, it is noticeable that men with small penises are disproportionately represented in the cuckold group. More than a quarter (by other estimates, more than a third) of all men with small penises live in a cuckold relationship.
Susan Gower, a well-known relationship counselor, and sex therapist, wrote an article on the subject titled: The Science of Cuckolding. In it, she explains the motivations that lead to cuckolding and the lifestyle that cuckolds and their wives lead.
She stated in an interview that she had supported many couples at the beginning of their cuckold relationship and also made efforts to maintain the relationship.
According to Susan Gower, among her patients, those with smaller penises were more positive about cuckolding than those with normal sized penises. Some men with small penises even suggested starting a cuckold relationship on their own.
What Factors Influence Cuckolds With Small Penises?
Why do cuckolds want their wives to have sex with men with larger penises? What fascinates them about such experiences?
The reason is simple: cuckolds believe that penis size matters a great deal to the pleasant experience. This belief has often been brought on by a series of negative experiences and adventures dating back to the onset of puberty.
These involve feelings of fear, anger, shame, and despair. Typically, cuckolds repeatedly report specific experiences that shaped their attitudes:
1.) Permanent Size Comparison
Men (and even more so boys in puberty) never miss an opportunity to compare the size of their penis with that of other men. Whether showering after sports, changing after bathing, or simply peeing.… again and again they risk a look at the penises of other men or guys.
They quickly notice that there are significant differences in size, even when flaccid. The mass distribution of pornography on the Internet further encourages the constant comparison of sizes. Naturally, the male performers in porn films are above average.
The constant size comparison leads to the realization that he can’t compete in terms of penis size. He feels inferior and inferior. Thoughts may already be surfacing about how his girlfriend or wife would feel if she had sex with a well-endowed man. The idea reinforces his feelings of inferiority.
2.) Repeated Derogatory Remarks
Between teenage boys and also among young men, it is widespread to compare the size of their dicks with each other while changing or showering. In doing so, it is not uncommon to receive nasty comments and snide remarks that can be very hurtful.
If these remarks come from men or guys, they are usually ignored by small-endowed men. On the other hand, it is a different story when derogatory comments come from women.
A single negative comment may still be put away, but if several women make derogatory or disparaging remarks, this leaves a formative impression on the prospective cuckold.
3.) Previous, Negative Cuckold Experiences
Something like this automatically occurs if the man was cheated on by his wife or girlfriend with another man in the past. If he finds out or even catches them in flagrante delicto, it can have profound psychological consequences.
Cuckolded men are to some extent made cuckolds — albeit without their knowledge or consent. In many stories, plays, and movies, the cuckolded husband (cuckold) is heaped with ridicule.
Some men cope poorly with the ridicule and humiliation. They develop erectile dysfunction, let themselves go or start drinking. In extreme cases, it can lead to suicide.
Desperate Attempts to Increase the Size of the Penis
The size of his penis becomes an issue of increasing concern for the budding cuckold.
He conducts intensive research on penis size on the Internet and deals extensively with size comparisons and studies on these and related topics. In the end, however, he inevitably comes to the conclusion that his penis is smaller than average.
Out of desperation, he tries all sorts of penis enlargement remedies. The Internet is full of offers of pills that are supposed to make the penis grow several centimeters practically overnight.
The only growth that such remedies are sure to cause is the growth of the provider’s account. Other methods, such as penis expanders, work but must be worn almost constantly (even during the day) and are very uncomfortable. They cause an increase in the length of the penis by 1 — 2 cm after several months.
Surgical lengthening of the penis is the only recognized effective method of penis enlargement. However, since it is a cosmetic surgery, the patient has to bear the costs of several thousand euros himself.
Self-Acceptance Is This Better Way
Those who have a small penis by nature cannot change it and must learn to live with the fact of their penis size.
Therefore, many potential cuckolds sooner or later come to the conclusion that their penis is smaller than average. Realizing this and accepting themselves as they are is a level of realization that some men unfortunately never reach.
There is a better way than spending a lot of money on dubious penis enlargement remedies. It will quickly and permanently change the cuckold’s view of sex and their relationship.
Self-acceptance will allow them to turn the negative feelings they had about their small dicks into positive and very arousing erotic emotions. For men at this stage, it happens quite often that they accidentally stumble into the world of cuckolding.
a) How it Usually Starts
In the beginning, the cuckold is not yet aware of his inclination. He is confused and aroused at the same time. He browses websites and gets horny watching porn, where a very attractive woman has uninhibited sex with well-built men while her husband watches.
Sooner or later, they also come across special websites for cuckolds and blogs where sufferers tell about their experiences.
In the process, it may happen to them for the first time that they imagine what it would be like if their wife was fucked by another man and had orgasm after orgasm.
These imaginings trigger a strong erection. They can’t stand the tension anymore and start masturbating like crazy. They not infrequently find redemption in an orgasm of never before experienced strength and intensity.
b) The Next Step
In the next stage, the prospective cuckold is overwhelmed by a flood of conflicting emotions. Positive and negative feelings alternate in rapid succession.
On the one hand, the idea of their wife having sex with other men excites them immensely; on the other hand, they feel disappointed in themselves and develop feelings of guilt.
After all, it’s not normal that it makes a man horny when his wife cheats, is it?
However, the feeling of guilt usually doesn’t last long. It quickly disappears and gives way to lust. It seems to be insatiable.
The thought that his wife is doing it with other well-hung guys makes him so horny that he has to jerk off again and again.
Slowly but surely, the realization matures that these are the horniest thoughts that have ever entered their heads.
In the second stage, budding cuckolds usually start to sound out the wife’s opinion as well. Of course, regarding the penis size, she will say that the husband’s dick is the best and is completely sufficient! 😉
c) The Breakthrough: The Realization That One Is a Cuckold
The man’s thoughts constantly circle around the topic of “penis size” and give him no peace
Sooner or later, usually sooner, he will realize that he is also a cuckold. From a purely technical point of view, this is not true.
A cuckold can’t call himself that until his wife has had sex with another man with his knowledge and consent, but his mentality is already that of a cuckold.
The self-acceptance of having a small penis acts as an act of liberation. Gone are the days of shame and guilt about having a penis that is too small, gone are the days of embarrassment!
His negative feelings are instead replaced by feelings of pleasure centered on his wife. He has to constantly think about what it would be like if she had sex with other men.
Cuckolds who were asked about their feelings indicated that the desire to watch their wife have sex with others would feel very positive.
Conclusion: The Most Common Penis Size Is 13 Centimeters
Cuckold men, in particular, voluntarily flagellate themselves completely without reason regarding their penis size. In most cases, a normal 13-centimeter penis can sexually satisfy a woman without any problems at all.
Only a very small percentage of European men can even compete with the BBC Bulls from Africa or South America.
However, a monster cock over 20 cm long is exactly the attraction for many hotwifes and cuckolds. Because the fact is: a larger cock length and especially the thickness stimulate a pussy significantly more intensely. With a big cock, multiple vaginal and even squirting orgasms are possible.
If a cuck has accepted that his wife needs a huge cock every now and then, he should accept this, relax and enjoy the horny sight of how violently she goes off during the horny foreign fuck and foreign insemination.
If you are dissatisfied with your penis length, you have no choice but to resign yourself to it. Minimally, you can enlarge and train your cock with plenty of self-discipline by means of penis expanders or a vacuum pump.
So… Cheer up! A Cuck allows and enables his wife through the lifestyle, even without a huge cock, what the vast majority of women will never experience: A varied and horny love life with intense orgasms.
- Penis Size and Country – Online Dataset
- Penis Size Does Matter: The Bigger, The Better For (Vaginal) Orgasms, Study Finds
- TheCuckoldConsultant: Does Size Matter?
- Wikipedia: Human penis size
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