Wifesharer or Cuckold — The Subtle Difference in Wife Swapping
It’s curious: although “fidelity in partnership” is firmly anchored in religious and social rules of all forms of society in the world, the thought of “foreign skin” has had an enormous appeal to the majority of people since ancient times.
Many people have sexual fantasies in which a woman has sex with several men at the same time. By the way, not only men dream of group sex. Many women also secretly wish to be “taken really hard and used without inhibitions or taboos” at least once in their lives.
In this context, the terms “wifesharer” and “cuckold” often come up. Both have a lot in common — but there are also big differences. In this article, we would like to enlighten you what are the differences of the terms cuckolding and wifesharing.
What Does Wifesharing Mean?
The term “wifesharing” appeared in the wake of the sexual revolution towards the end of the sixties. The word “wife” means wife or life partner. “Sharing” means “to share.”
Thus, wifesharing is a sexual fantasy in which a man shares his wife, girlfriend, or steady life partner with other men.
The male teammate in a threesome can be, for example, the best buddy, a housemate or a vacation acquaintance.
Sometimes, however, several men take part in the Wifesharing, so that the whole thing develops into a gangbang.
The main difference from the “cuckold” is that the wifesharer is not submissive. He actively participates in sex. He fucks his wife together or alternately with the other man or several men.
The idea of inviting another man or several men for sex excites men and women alike.
It is completely irrelevant what nationality, social status, and age group they belong to: Active and passive group sex is a rooted in our psychology, basic sexual fantasy.
Unfortunately, many people do not dare to talk about it. Most of the time it boils down to watching porn on the topic alone and masturbating to it.
What Does Cuckolding Mean? What Is the Cuckold for a Man?
The term “cuckold” is one of the most searched terms among men and women on PornHub, XHamster, and Youporn.
Unlike the “wifesharer”, the cuckold is more submissive in nature. He does not desire active sex with other women. He feels great pleasure in watching his wife being mounted and inseminated by other men. He usually does not actively participate in their sex.
Many cuckolds want to masturbate during the woman’s sex and be humiliated by Bull or her cuckoldress as well as treated like a slave. Another main task of a cuckold is often to document the fuck with videos and photos.
A cuckold is only allowed to have sex with his partner if she allows him to. Mostly then — when the bull has gone home.
As a sign of humiliation and act of submission, he may lick his partner’s pussy clean after sex and swallow the foreign sperm. The “creampie cleanup”(pussy licking clean) is central to cuckold relationships.
Where Can Wifesharers and Cuckolds Find Suitable Men?
What the wifesharer and the cuckold have in common is the strong desire to satisfy the wife/life partner through strange men and their abundant foreign insemination.
The Internet is a very good way to find suitable sexual partners. There are hundreds of contact exchanges and erotic sites for preferences of all kinds. Very popular in Germany are augenweide.com, joyclub.de, poppen.de and erotik.markt.de.
There, wifesharers and cuckolds can create a couple profile with their wife and report on their desires and ideas. If a photo of the partner in hot lingerie or provocative poses is set as the profile picture, the mailbox is guaranteed to overflow with requests from sex-hungry men.
As convenient as this option is, it has a big disadvantage: the couple meets with strangers. Therefore, it is recommended never to hold the date at home and first get to know each other without any obligation in a public place (cafe, restaurant, bar). Even later, you should first meet in porn cinemas and hotel rooms.
A good alternative for cuckolding is a swingers club. There, security and discretion are provided. There is food and drinks, and you do not have to clean up afterwards. In addition, such clubs have particularly large and stable beds and playgrounds, often also many instruments from the BDSM scene, such as punishment trestle, St. Andrew’s cross, pillory, or cages.
In a swingers club, couples are in the company of like-minded people and can live out their inclinations.
Conclusion: Make Your Wifesharing and Cuckolding — Dreams Come True
Many men dream of sharing their wife or girlfriend with other men during sex and either watching or participating themselves. Many women, in turn, also have sex with one or more men in their fantasies.
The wifesharer is actively involved in sex, while the cuckold is usually just allowed to watch. Thus, both sexual practices “Wifesharing” and “Cuckolding” are not cheating, because the sex happens with the consent and in the presence of both partners.
If both partners feel pleasure with such thoughts, there is nothing against making it a reality, for example, in a swingers club. The most important thing is always that all actions must be done by mutual consent. Clearly defined boundaries provide security, trust and relaxation. Allowed is what pleases both.
