Rivalry and Competition Get the Libido Going
From the point of view of evolutionary biology, nature strives for a mixture of different male genetic material in most living beings in order to ensure the survival of the offspring in the long term and to avoid genetic defects.
The female usually signals her readiness to mate and is repeatedly mated with by several males during this time. Multiple inseminations in succession are not uncommon in the animal world. To ensure that the strongest rival “wins”, the males of each animal species have developed individual strategies to ensure fertilization of the female egg before, during, and after insemination. This is referred to as sperm competition.
But are humans really so different from the animal world? Scientists Leigh Simmons and Sarah Kilgallon conducted a study to determine whether sperm competition is also measurable in humans. The study led to interesting findings that are also exciting for the cuckold and wifesharing world.
In this article, we look at the topic of sperm competition in humans. Is genetically pre-programmed sperm competition the cause of our kinky sex fantasies with strangers? We explain to you what sperm competition is all about and how it affects cuckolding and wifesharing.
Biological Explanation: What Is Sperm Competition?
In the animal kingdom, monogamy is rather the exception. Exclusive, lifelong sex with a single partner is found in very few creatures. These are mainly animal species that suffer from extreme weather conditions, or whose rearing of the brood is very costly.
Accordingly, almost all females mate with different males.
In the biological sense, one speaks of sperm competition when at least two males compete with their sperm cells (sperms) for the fertilization of an egg.
If several males mate with a female in quick succession, a male who has delivered significantly more sperm than his competitors has a greater chance of one of his sperm fertilizing the egg
Competition between the sperm of different males is explicitly willed by nature and genetically programmed into living things with instincts and drives. Rival behavior in reproduction is thus a crucial mechanism of evolution and sexual selection.
Do Humans Still Need Sperm Competition Today?
Compared to our prehistoric ancestors, women today no longer rely on rivalry and sperm competition with multiple males.
For about 2000 years, they usually joined together to form a permanent cohabitation with one man. For about 200 years, the man has even actively supported his wife in raising and caring for their children.
However, this monogamous protection of women and offspring has a catch: The genetic imprint of sperm competition is still deeply rooted in us, despite the social rules.
Numerous scientists agree that after a certain period of togetherness, most men and women, for evolutionary reasons, unconsciously start looking again for strange, potential sex partners.
Instead of leaving or cheating on one’s life partner, swinger sex, cuckolding, or wife sharing are excellent alternatives to not having to suppress one’s biological urges, but being able to stay together with one’s life partner.
Rivals Spur Men to Produce More Sperm!
In the study by Leigh Simmons and Sarah Kilgallon, it was found that the sight of strange men fucking a woman exorbitantly increases the number of sperm cells. Accordingly, there is actually also a kind of sperm competition in humans.
During group sex of several men with a woman, there is demonstrably a biological sperm competition and release of sex hormones of all participating men.
Depending on the initial situation, the competition provides a different sexual effect. Lovers, bulls, and studs who desire to fuck strange women at gangbangs, men’s surplus parties, and sex parties are just as affected by sperm competition as the cuckold.
We would like to discuss the different effects on sexual drive behavior between men below….
1.) Effect of Sperm Competition on the Stranger Fucking Men
Just the anticipation of a sex party days before triggers sperm competition instinctively and completely automatically in bulls, studs, lovers, and fuckers.
Drops of desire form, there is a high urge to masturbate, testicles swell noticeably, they can only think about sex, unwanted semi-stiffening of the penis during the day, frequent full stiffening of the penis at night, and so on.
Since men know that they will soon find themselves in a sexually competitive situation, this causes their testosterone levels to rise, which is reflected in their libido (horniness).
Every man who signs up for the sex party knows that he will have to “really give his best” to the hotwife and the other men present, which starts the evolutionary sperm competition in his body.
At the sex party, this effect is amplified: each man wants to show the hotwife, and the other men present that HE is the best fucker with the most powerful cum spurts and that he has the best sexual stamina.
The performance of some men is actually remarkable during gangbangs! Some men even have their refractory period shortened, so they can have sex twice or even three times that evening.
So from the standpoint of male reproduction, sperm competition is an ideal situation. Nature, of course, does not know that a sex party is about a “friendly fire” and is not a serious competitive behavior. 🙂
2.) Effect of Sperm Competition on the Life Partner / Husband / Boyfriend
In the case of the hotwife’s husband, life partner, or boyfriend, a similar picture emerges. Sperm competition triggers exciting reactions in him as well. However, the competitive pressure is many times higher because the wifesharer or cuckold knows that he alone must prevail against all strange men.
If the man sees his partner having sex with (supposed) rivals, he feels threatened by his masculinity in terms of evolutionary biology! The competitive situation makes his organs involuntarily produce considerably more sperm and sex hormones.
The feeling of fear to lose the partner, as well as jealousy and rejection, play a big role subconsciously. This can be intense, motivating, and even arousing.
The instinct of sperm competition often results in the cuckold showing more passion and stamina during sex.
He’s ejaculating more vigorously, having more sperm in his ejaculate, and having a shorter refractory period between erections — so that he is ready for sex again more quickly.
In polyamorous relationships, the sexual competitive feeling is often already triggered when men see their female partner being wooed by a strange man.
During the foreign insemination, most cuckolds and wifesharers even feel a kind of happiness when their beloved wife is sexually satisfied by strange men, fucked to orgasm, splattered with sperm, and her pussy is flooded with foreign sperm. Many of them get so extremely stimulated that they even want to lick the stranger’s cum clean from their beloved wife. The most hotwifes also make the view extremely horny.
3.) Effects of Sperm Competition and Rivalry on the Woman
Most women have mild or more intense multi-partner fantasies during certain cycles. Particularly during the phase when ovulation occurs, women are especially prone to double mating.
In addition to the evolutionary-biological mating instinct, however, there is also an instinct for love and sexual desire with a fixed partner inherent in women. This has kept couples together for millions of years to ensure the provision of offspring. It is meaningful for women to have a steady man by their side.
Combining the “foreign mating instinct” with the desire not to sacrifice the life partner — opens up interesting sexual playing fields if both partners get involved.
Sexually open women are the clear winners of male rivalry and sperm competition. Sperm competition guarantees there the maximum attention from her sexual partners and the life partner.
Conclusion: Humans Also Have Genetic Sperm Competition
Sperm competition is a genetically programmed sex drive in men. Although there is currently no longer a reason for humans to engage in sperm competition, the primal instinct is still present despite our societal conditioning.
Scientific studies show that looking at strange men during sex instinctively triggers an increase in sperm, sex hormones, and semen. Sperm competition involuntarily sets in motion a biological process to produce more sperm to ensure one’s own reproduction.
Related to cuckolding and wifesharing, this explains where the husband’s, life partner’s, or boyfriend’s desire to watch his partner have sex with strange men comes from. The infidelity of the partner paradoxically not only increases his libido, but moreover leads to more persistent, frequent, and intense sex in the partnership.
The winner of sexual rivalry is the woman who sexually enjoys attention, passion, and sperm variety of all involved lovers, bulls, and studs as well as her husband to the fullest.
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