Why Are So Many Men Into Candaulism
It’s hard to believe, but a very big male fantasy is to watch — when another man or even a group of men fuck their own (wife) hard. This sex with strangers is called Candaulism in technical language.
The term Candaulism dates back to 600 AD and states that a man virtually “borrows” his wife and watches other men have sexual fun with her. Candaulists, then, are happy to be cuckolded.
One of the key questions is what do men get out of engaging in this game of fire? Why is sexual play so prevalent around the world? And why do documentations of wife swapping and cuckolding go way back to ancient times?
We want to deal with these questions in this article. We very much invite you to post your questions, thoughts, theories and remarks as comments.
The Difference Between Wifesharing, Cuckolding, and Swingers
In order to understand what drives men to “share” their partners during sex with strangers, we need to divide men into three groups of people: wifesharers, cuckolders, and swingers.
All three groups of men have one main goal: the foreign insemination or foreign fucking of their own wife, life partner or girlfriend. And yet their backgrounds, sexual desires, and life circumstances are different:
1. Swinger: Both Partners Have Sex With Strange Women and Men
Swinger couples are characterized by spontaneous sexual activity with many different sexual partners. In swingers clubs, bars or private apartments they usually celebrate frivolous sex parties in an exuberant atmosphere with music and buffet. Often there are theme parties. The principle of “see and be seen” is very pronounced here.
Most swinger couples let themselves be surprised, which results in corresponding swinger evenings. Husband and wife are usually equal and are allowed to have sex with any party participants.
They have sex with strangers together, but go home together “hand in hand” at night. Swinger relationships, despite the eternal temptation, can still be described as very stable. There are couples who celebrated their silver wedding anniversary in a swingers club. 😉
Without Rules No Swinger Sex Works
Many swinger couples have imposed individual rules on themselves. For example, kissing, staying alone with a potential sex partner or exchanging phone numbers may be forbidden. The only taboo is “sneaking around”.
In so-called men’s surplus parties, the wife / life partner / girlfriend is allowed to get fucked by a horde of men. Mostly, the man is present, masturbate extensively and / or actively participates.
Bisexual contacts between women are common among swingers. Bisexual men more rarely.
In most cases, swinger sex takes place with a condom. Therefore, sperm inseminations here often take place on breasts, in the face or in the mouth of the woman. Mostly you see sperm kissing and cleaning only among women. Men watch excitedly.
2. Wifesharing: Only the Wife Has Sex With Her Husband + Strange Men
Wifesharing couples are considerably more focused on each other and lead very firm and especially intimate couple relationships. Compared to noisy and restless swingers’ parties, they appreciate the private quiet in hotel rooms or at home. The attraction here is to “share” the wife, life partner or girlfriend with other men.
Sex with another man is called a “threesome”. Since the woman is in control of the situation, she can give herself to the second man in a completely relaxed and disinhibited way. Sex in threesomes is thus often very emotional and pleasant at the same time.
It is not uncommon for a woman to be satisfied (at least for a while) with a housemate. Experienced wifesharing women are very happy to fulfill their fantasies with several men.
In contrast to swinger men’s surplus parties, the couple chooses the teammates for group sex, or gangbang on appropriate Internet portals together. This aspect calms and excites the woman very much.
The Satisfaction of the Hotwife’s Desire Is the Main Focus for All Participants
Since the women of Wifesharern are mostly very imaginative and permissive, you experience especially at gangbangs, thanks to violent psychological and physical stimuli, incredibly passionate and unforgettable love evenings.
The corresponding husbands / life partners it gives great pleasure and joy to watch their wives having unrestrained sex with other men.
Through consensual rules, the men do not feel jealousy in the process and also enjoy participating themselves.
Wifesharers enthusiastically document the impressions with a video camera or smartphone to recall the breathtaking experiences during a joint video evening.
Wifesharing women develop very many fantasies, inclinations and fetishes in the course of weeks, months and years. Things that were not even remotely conceivable in their younger years, they enjoy to the fullest one day.
If wifesharing couples have found harmonious lovers for pleasant sex evenings, they like to meet repeatedly. Due to the trust that builds up, and medical tests are performed, they usually enjoy sex without condoms. Wifesharing couples like to play depraved sperm games, snowballing and sperm kissing are tolerated by the man.
Many wifesharing women also admit their husbands to sex with a strange woman every now and then. The condition is usually that she actively witnesses the spectacle. Depending on the sexual inclination, bisexual activities between men and women (sex in fours) are also not uncommon in familiar surroundings.
3. Cuckold: Wife Has Sex With Strange Men. Husband Just Watches
Cuckolds are related to wifesharers, but still different in many ways.
For a Cuckold, the love for his wife is even more in the foreground. Eroticism takes place on a considerably more emotional and imaginative level for them. Sexuality is much more spread over everyday life and not too focused on the actual sex.
The cuckold loves his wife so much that he indulges her in sex with a lover who is better built, more persistent and stronger. It excites him greatly to watch her have passionate sex.
Cuckolds Are Very Imaginative
A cuckold doesn’t even begin to think about getting involved with other women. Cuckold relationships are considered very happy partnerships, despite the controversial sex, if both partners deal with the issue in harmony.
The central element is that the cuckold relinquishes his self-determination over ejaculation and masturbation to his hotwife. Self-authorized ejaculations are forbidden in the spirit of chastity.
Through the accumulation of pleasure, a cuckold becomes, so to speak, obedient, grateful and very respectful and attentive towards his life partner. The hotwife likes to stimulate / penetrate her cuck anally and milk the prostate. In addition, she likes to punish him for missteps and makes him swallow his own precum or cum without exception. Snowballing and cum kissing are part of the standard repertoire.
Three Cuckold Levels: C1, C2 and C3 — The Difference Lies in the Cuck’s Submissiveness
Cuckolds are divided into three categories. With the C1 classification, they are, in a sense, “extended wifesharers”. They like to be slightly submissive in lovemaking, enjoying watching Bull and Hotwife have sex while masturbating very vigorously. With a camera, he captures the horniest moments for watching and fantasizing together. Often he is also responsible for the pleasurable clean-up the creampie. He may like to fuck his hotwife.
In a Cuckold C2 — level, the wife (called Cuckoldress or Hotwife) may even develop a deeper affection for the other man. A C2 and C3 Cucky loves to “serve”. He always has to swallow the foreign sperm and is humiliated by Bull and Hotwife. Hotwife and Bull enjoy themselves even without the cuckold.
The risk and danger that his wife or girlfriend might feel more for the Bull increase the attraction. Often the Cuckold is forbidden to fuck his wife.
Most C2 and C3 — Cuckold relationships are pure triangular relationships with always the same Bull. Therefore, in most cases, sex takes place without a condom.
To satisfy the Hotwife completely, Bull and Hotwife occasionally plan gangbangs. The cuckold is allowed to attend this spectacle, but has to surrender to the dominant games of the two. For example, he has to lick the foreign sperm clean or suck foreign penises. However, a C2 / C3 Cuckold likes to do the latter.
Conclusion: Sex With Strangers — But the Woman Is the Center of Attention.
If you have read the previous lines carefully, you have learned that sex with strangers, group sex and gangbangs are not even remotely about oppressing or sexually exploiting women!
On the contrary, the winners in wife-swapping are the ladies themselves. In many women, a suppressed sexual drive lies dormant, which is ignored and concealed by many women. If the woman has overcome her shame barrier, she lives out the livestyle very confidently and with great pleasure.
Men in harmonious partnerships and marriages love to make their wife happy. They love to fuck their wife and my sex in the seventh heaven.
But sometimes a man just wants to enjoy and watch his wife in her ecstasies, her laughter, and her passionate moaning.
Cuckoldress and Cuckold Are Strongly Connected Emotionally
With increasing libido, a lot of men feel a great desire to let their wife, girlfriend, or life partner be fucked really hard by strange men. It excites them when these men are different: different skin color, bigger dicks, more muscles, dominant appearance, etc.
As crazy as it sounds, the wife does experience strong satisfaction during hard sex and experiences horny orgasms — but at the same time, she feels a very intimate connection with her husband.
The partnership bond is extremely strengthened by this proof of trust on both sides. After the guys are gone, the overjoyed wife thanks her husband for the nice wifesharing evening. Then intimate caresses are exchanged, and mostly very horny fucks between the partners follow even days later.
Why this is so, is psychologically not clarified. The phenomenon is widespread throughout the world and in all walks of life. And that to all epochs of our human history.
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