Wife Sharing as a Midway Between Swinger and Cuckold
When having sex together with several people, it becomes especially clear how multifaceted people’s sexuality can be. At sex parties or gangbangs, you see a lot of inclinations, interests and fetishes of the teammates. Accordingly, there are also various gradations and sexual orientations in the category “group sex”.
If a couple participates in group sex, they usually do so at a swinger party or a wifesharing party. At a wifesharing party, in turn, the male part can be a wifesharer or a cuckold.
But what is the difference between a “wifesharing party” compared to a “swinger party”? What distinguishes a wifesharer from a cuckold? What does a man get out of sharing his wife anyway? In this guide, we would like to answer these and other questions for you.
Is Monogamy Really the Key to Relationship Happiness?
It is illusory to believe that there are millions of single ladies who have nothing but “men’s tails” on their minds. Most women want a solid and harmonious partnership with a steady partner. It is the same with men. Contrary to “male” claims, most gentlemen also want a solid life relationship with a female partner.
However, the desire is genetically programmed into us humans to enjoy occasional sex with strangers.
The topic is morally and socially very explosive. It is felt that 70% of Europeans are highly conservative and do not allow each other any sexual contact outside the relationship.
In the course of the relationship years, a certain sexual frustration and monotony usually occur on both sides. The desire for foreign skin is difficult to suppress. At work, during sports, among friends and business partners… Wherever men and women meet, temptations arise. Sex platforms on the Internet, Tinder, and Lovoo make sexual contacts very easy.
Finally, about 40% of Europeans cheat at least once in their lives! The number of unreported cases is unknown. If an affair or an infidelity comes out, mostly unpleasant separation situations with dramatic effects on the family life are the consequences.
The main reason for couples to separate is demonstrably a boring sex life. Therefore, the question arises whether living out sexual fantasies together can be an alternative.
The Man as the Key Figure of the Couple’s Sexual Orientation
If a couple decides to have joint sexual adventures with strangers, the sexual orientation of the man is key, whether it is a swinger couple, a wifesharer couple or a cuckold couple.
All three types of men do feel pleasure when their wife lets other men fuck her to the hilt. However, the rights, duties, needs, and ultimately the act of having sex with multiple people is based on what role the husband/life partner has taken in this constellation.
- The husband of a swinger couple wants his wife to do well during sex with other gentlemen. However, he himself has strong sexual interest in the female partners of the other swinger couples or in the solo women present, with whom he then wants to have sex.
- Condoms are usually mandatory during partner swapping. However, sometimes the actors inseminate the face, mouth or breasts of the woman. Sperm in the pussy is only desired in tight swinger groups.
- Striking are numerous bisexual activities among women, which a swinger man enjoys very much.
- A gangbang here is called a men’s surplus party.
- The man of a wifesharing couple is mainly concerned with the most numerous, male sexual partners of the wife. He shares his wife with other men but wants to actively participate in sex.
- Besides many orgasms of the wife, he wants abundant insemination of her vagina, body(body insemination) and face(face insemination).
- He would like to immortalize the incredible moments of happiness of the woman on photo and video.
- Very gladly he squirts into the inseminated pussy of his partner and enriches the creampie while pushing the mud himself.
- Sometimes he licks up foreign sperm and enjoys intimate cum kisses as the only one in the round.
- The man of a cuckold couple is similar. He also wishes his wife maximum pleasure, many violent orgasms and much, much sperm.
- A Cucki behaves himself during sex mostly submissive passive and gets his pleasure from watching the incredibly horny spectacle. He likes to masturbate while doing so, but may not cum with an orgasm. Sometimes he may (with permission) ruin his orgasm.
- Some men enjoy the “humiliation” of not playing an active role sexually and they even have to service the actors.
- Usually a cuckold licks the cum off his face, breasts and belly. He delivers hot cum kisses with his hotwife. The permanent clean licking of the pussy(licking out the creampie) is his basic task.
- With bisexual orientation, the Cucki also blows the penis of the / the Bulls and Lover.
- When all the men have cum in and on his wife and the wife is satisfied with the cucki, he may (if the hotwife allows) be the last to cum in her.
- The expression of the Cuckold inclination is divided into three Cuckold levels. Roughly speaking, the C1-Cuckold watches and jerks off, whereas the C2-Cuckold has strong submissive tendencies and desires female dominance (FemDom). The C3 cuckold concedes sex to his wife or life partner in his absence and often he is not allowed to fuck her himself (Never inside).
Why Does a Man Share His Wife During Sex?
For probably most men in the world, it is absolutely incomprehensible why a man “shares” his wife / partner with other men during sex. The jealousy would make them furious!
But here lies the crucial sticking point: the couple has decided to stay firmly together and occasionally get sexual satisfaction from strange sex partners.
This decision-making for group sex can take several months to even many years to mature. Mostly couples dare this adventure from the age of 40, when the children are “grown up” or already out of the house.
Absolutely important are clearly defined rules on both sides, an absolutely open approach to sexual fantasies, and the tolerant decision of a “common denominator” at eye level.
Wifesharers, cuckolds, and swingers do not like when their woman builds an emotional bond with another man.
Secret contact with lovers is strictly forbidden. The “joint fling” with strange men is basically exclusively about sex.
What Is a Wifesharer?
We have already summarized the difference between a swinger, cuckold and wifesharer above. His drive and pleasure satisfaction is not (as with classic straight men or swinger men) through sex with different women, but through numerous men sexually satisfying his wife, life partner or girlfriend.
For every wifesharer, it is a great feeling during group sex or gangbang to watch his own wife having hard sex with other men. He does not feel jealousy and also likes to actively participate in the noisy goings-on.
He cheers for each of her orgasms, kisses her, caresses her and, after the guests have left, does aftercare.
Why some husbands like to do this has not been scientifically researched. But the fact is that regardless of the culture and historical epoch, there is a huge amount of men who wish to do just that.
Wifesharers exist in all social classes and age groups. By no means do they have to be submissive or have a small penis. There are even dominant gentlemen who occasionally like to slip into the role of a wifesharer and make their wives available to a horde of ravenous men.
The Wifesharer’s Wife
The wife of the wifesharer is called Hotwife. She is very open and experimental when it comes to sex. She has many sexual fantasies, likes to masturbate, and likes to live out her lust freely (together with her life partner).
Sex in threesomes, but also in a bigger “men’s round” are her favorite fantasies. She proudly wears her wedding ring at a wifesharing party or gangbang.
A large part of the sexual fantasies the hotwife develops while browsing sex sites. She is looking for exceptional men with an athletic physique and large penis as well as high sexual stamina and great ejaculatory ability. Mixed-race fantasies with dark-skinned men are not uncommon.
Statistically, most women develop into hotwives between the ages of 35 to 50, after their children’s upbringing is roughly complete. At this stage of life, their sexual life is refreshed and fully developed. In the course of her maturing process, the woman gradually loses her shyness about sperm and her sexual inhibitions completely. Very willingly, she almost automatically one day complies with the desire of her husband to fuck without a condom and to be copiously inseminated by several men.
The sexual development of a hotwife never stops. Through the permanent new stimuli of her senses, she takes significant influence on the sexuality of the couple relationship. Thus, the woman can educate her man to swallow sperm, practice pegging (anal strap-on sex) with him or inspire him for orgasm control, chastity, sperm games, fisting, squirting or anal games. A creeping, unconscious “education” of their wifesharer into a cuckold is not uncommon.
Planning and Realization of Wifesharing Parties
The day will come when the couple will want to plan and carry out a wifesharing party in reality. On swinger portals like:
… you can quickly find like-minded people. We recommend that you first look for so-called swinger mentors who will go with you to a swinger club. There you can let the feeling work on you first. Through swinger sponsors you will get in contact with other couples much faster and you can exchange their experiences.
If you prefer it more private and a party atmosphere is not for you, you can book a vacation apartment or a hotel room in the future, where you invite a man. The man should be a bit more dominant — because he knows what he wants and doesn’t talk his head off. It makes sense if you see each other on neutral ground beforehand. The man should, like you both, present a full medical test if he is allowed to fuck without a condom. No test = no sex!
If it is the first time sexually, you will be very excited and maybe even want to let the meeting burst. This fear of the unknown is completely normal. In any case, go through with the meeting, because it is usually very nice.
After a positive key experience, it is then possible to increase the number of men. Be guided by what you like and what you are not so comfortable with. After two or three meetings you will become more and more routine and relaxed — until finally you can live out and realize your fantasies without restraint.
Conclusion: Wifesharing Enriches the Relationship of Man and Woman
If you have understood the principle of wifesharing and the distinction between swinger and cuckold, you will realize that this lifestyle can significantly inspire the love and relationship life.
The hotwife’s husband, or life partner, explicitly encourages and desires consensual sex with strange men and reaps an incredibly multi-faceted sexuality that goes far beyond stranger fucking at sex parties.
A very close, emotional bond — coupled with varied and imaginative sex give the relationship a certain spice that many vanilla straight couples will never achieve.
The many kinky shenanigans also ensure the permanent development and sexual maturity of the Wifesharer. He will also do sexual things with pleasure in this form of relationship that normal men will meet with massive rejection. A win-win situation for both partners. 😉
- Guest at a Wifesharing Party
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