The Gangbang: Fantasy vs. Reality

Why Do Men and Women Fantasize About Group Sex So Often?

The terms “wife­shar­ing” and “cuck­old­ing” are con­sid­ered syn­onyms for hotwife sex with numer­ous men, lovers, and dom­i­nant bulls. Gang­bang porn is one of the most searched videos on xHam­ster, YouPorn, Porn­Hub and co.

How­ev­er, gang­bang fan­tasies are not a pure­ly male phe­nom­e­non. Besides sex­u­al­ly open-mind­ed women and hotwifes, more and more young women are becom­ing inter­est­ed in this depraved genre due to the smart­phone age.

In this cuck­old guide, we’ll get to the bot­tom of why gang­bang­ing excites so many women and men. We’ll explain to you how these fan­tasies play out in real­i­ty and give you tips on what you should con­sid­er before putting them into practice.

Why Are Sexual Fantasies Important?

After the com­ing out of the hotwife or the out­ing of the cuck­old, there is usu­al­ly a longer matu­ri­ty phase after a calmer shock phase, before the “sex with strangers” is real­ly put into prac­tice. This mat­u­ra­tion process can last sev­er­al months or even sev­er­al years.

At first, both part­ners open the flood­gates of their depraved fan­tasies only cau­tious­ly. But “lit­tle by lit­tle” the inhi­bi­tions sink. The incli­na­tions and inti­mate desires blos­som more and more and dri­ve fur­ther urges for new sex­u­al inclinations.

Through the ongo­ing and con­stant­ly repeat­ing mutu­al fuelling of fan­tasies, the cou­ple com­plete­ly uncon­scious­ly cre­ates a cuck­old fan­ta­sy world from which there is no turn­ing back one day.

Fre­quent­ly watch­ing porn togeth­er, surf­ing on sex sites, read­ing erot­ic sto­ries and guide­books, using sex toys and telling each oth­er about sex­u­al fan­tasies make the cou­ple more and more exper­i­men­tal and permissive.

At some point, the desire to live out fan­tasies becomes so strong that the woman actu­al­ly wants to put them into action one day. With­out kinky fan­tasies, wife­shar­ing or cuck­old­ing are there­fore not pos­si­ble at all.

If you look at the mat­u­ra­tion process of cuck­old cou­ples fig­u­ra­tive­ly as a “trav­el route through dis­tant and unknown coun­tries”, gang­bangs, sex with a well-endowed black man, or even BBC gang­bangs are actu­al­ly at the very back of the route. They are, in a sense, the des­ti­na­tion of the journey….

But curi­ous­ly enough, of all things, these sex­u­al activ­i­ties are among the most pop­u­lar sex­u­al fan­tasies. But are these fan­tasies real­ly so horny in practice?

A Gangbang Is Anything but a Walk in the Park!

Wife­shar­ers, cuck­olds, and hotwifes have one thing in com­mon, unlike vanil­la sex peo­ple: They want to “share” their wife, girl­friend, or life part­ner with sev­er­al men and find the thought of hav­ing group sex with her togeth­er extreme­ly sex­u­al­ly arousing.

In fan­ta­sy, gang­bangs seem to be bound­less­ly horny. But the real­i­ty is dif­fer­ent because the imple­men­ta­tion of wife­shar­ing fan­tasies is not easy! 

Sex with strange men requires a lot of orga­ni­za­tion and expe­ri­ence from the cou­ple, but also open­ness, tol­er­ance, and empathy.

A hotwife has to be aware already dur­ing the plan­ning that all invit­ed guys have cer­tain expec­ta­tions of her and have var­i­ous per­vert­ed ten­den­cies. Before reg­is­ter­ing or orga­niz­ing a sex par­ty, be real­ly sure that the woman can stand such things:

• Besides rough sex (very hard sex)
• Dou­ble pen­e­tra­tion (cocks in pussy and ass or two cocks in pussy)
• Fist­ing
• Nip­ple games, like nip­ple pulling, nip­ple twist­ing, nip­ple torture
• Can­dle wax
• Bondage (tied up)
• mas­sive facial insem­i­na­tion (bukkake)
• vio­lent fin­ger­ing of the G‑area (G‑spot) to force squirting
• vio­lent rub­bing of the cli­toris to induce forced orgasm
• Sado­ma­so / BDSM games
• very fast or very hard anal sex
• cum in mouth
• Penis exten­ders / penis attach­ments to make the penis thicker
• bizarre, very thick or crazy sex toys, huge dil­dos
• col­lect­ing sperm with bowls or plates
• very kinky sperm games, e.g. snow­balling
• very strong vibra­tors, cli­toral stim­u­la­tors, and mas­sagers to induce forced orgasm
• Deepthroat (throat fuck)

There Is a Kind of Group Dynamic During Gangbang

Most of the above-men­tioned things are sim­ply assumed by a gang­bang mare.

Mak­ing a “scene” is com­plete­ly point­less because pure testos­terone pumps in the veins of vis­i­tors. Instead, it helps to “brave­ly grit your teeth”, watch stunned the per­verse goings-on, and endure the unbe­liev­ably and ultra-vio­lent orgasms.

The lady will notice that just the kinky shenani­gans with her body have a strong addic­tive character. 😉

Every guy fucks dif­fer­ent­ly — the hotwife has to get involved and pas­sive­ly enjoy every fuck. Some guys ram the penis slow­ly and hard into the pussy and some are nim­ble as a sewing machine. But they all have one thing in com­mon: they want to get it “so right” for the woman! With all their pow­er, tech­nique and experience…

Also, only a few par­tic­i­pants have a mod­el fig­ure. Beer bel­lies and bald heads are more the rule than the excep­tion. Like­wise, she needs to know that many men can’t build an erec­tion because they are too excit­ed or over­whelmed with the sit­u­a­tion of abun­dant competition.

Preparation for the Gangbang Means: Practice, Practice, Practice!

Every hotwife should there­fore seri­ous­ly prac­tice inten­sive­ly with var­i­ous sex toys before the event even do sports to build up sex­u­al con­di­tion and sta­mi­na. Watch­ing porn is also impor­tant to get a pic­ture of any sex par­ty situation.

Although the large amount of semen pre­vents sore fuck­ing, the nip­ples, cli­toris, and vagi­na are heav­i­ly used over a long peri­od of time. It is not pos­si­ble to stop the sex par­ty because of tired­ness or lack of strength. 

From there, the use of thick dil­dos, pump-up dil­dos, anal plugs, a KONG, cli­toris, and labia suck­ers for pussy stretch­ing and cli­toral train­ing is indispensable.

A mas­sager like the Mag­ic Wand is per­fect for dai­ly orgasm train­ing, edg­ing, tease and denial and orgasm ruin­ing practice.

Nip­ple train­ing with nip­ple suck­ers, nip­ple clamps, and clothes­pins is also recommended.

It Is Fucked Very Hard and Long to the Limit of the Woman’s Performance

Many women under­es­ti­mate that in a gang­bang most men fuck very hard. No, I cor­rect: they fuck extreme­ly hard!

The sex is not to be com­pared with the hus­band or life part­ner. Espe­cial­ly in the pres­ence of dom­i­nant alpha males or BBC Bulls, all par­tic­i­pants real­ly duel each other.

Already after the first hard penis thrusts, the pussy takes the “reign” over the wom­an’s mind. Should there be things that the cuck­old does not want, it is imper­a­tive that the bound­aries are clear­ly defined beforehand!

Usu­al­ly, the group sex lasts about two to three hours. Some­times even a lit­tle longer. Fact is: It is only end when real­ly the last penis has cum, and all men are com­plete­ly sat­is­fied! Most­ly the woman is allowed a short break to drink some­thing or for the toilet.

If there is no sec­ond woman who can milk the high­ly aroused pack of men, longer inter­rup­tions lead to tumul­tuous rant­i­ng, which can endan­ger the over­all mood. We rec­om­mend you to plan the gang­bangs with a sec­ond woman who can inter­cept “peaks” or you do not invite too many gentlemen.

In the pure plea­sure inter­mez­zo unloaded at the woman inter­mit­tent­ly under loud moan­ing, hys­ter­i­cal laugh­ter, sat­is­fied smile, wide grin again and again incred­i­bly vio­lent orgasms. Many women are so over­whelmed with their feel­ings dur­ing group sex at sex par­ties that they even have to cry. The cuck­old must know that by key­words “red”, “yel­low”, “green” know that nev­er­the­less every­thing is fine.

Anoth­er aspect that must be planned and con­sid­ered is the place where the orgy will take place. In the begin­ning, we rec­om­mend you to vis­it men’s excess par­ties in swingers clubs. Under no cir­cum­stances should you reveal your home address. Sex in the nature, on a high­way rest stop and in light-heart­ed vaca­tion apart­ments are rather suit­able for advanced users.

Very Much Sperm in and on the Whole Body of the Hotwife

You should be aware in advance that not only fuck­ing is a cen­tral part of a gang­bang, but that real­ly a huge amount of sperm will be splat­tered on the hotwife.

The sum of all the men ejac­u­lat­ing about 8 cum squirts each is very con­sid­er­able. With only ten guys, come togeth­er 60 to 80 ml of sperm. That’s two full-shot glass­es. The ejac­u­la­tions of sev­er­al men are incred­i­bly pro­duc­tive and slippery.

That does­n’t just mean a mas­sive creampie because many bulls and lovers want to show off their ejaculation.

Very pop­u­lar squirt­ing tar­gets are breasts and bel­ly (body insem­i­na­tion), the mount of Venus, labia, armpits and of course fore­head, cheeks, and mouth (facial insem­i­na­tion).

Our tip: So that the hotwife has no prob­lem with a lot of sperm and sperm taste, she should prac­tice sperm swal­low­ing togeth­er with her cuck for sev­er­al months in advance.

But don’t wor­ry. After a cer­tain dura­tion, expe­ri­ence shows that most wifes relax com­plete­ly dur­ing their gang­bang. They take the many tails and the sperm splash­es qua­si com­plete­ly unin­hib­it­ed and almost greed­i­ly into all body openings.

While the pussy is fucked again and again foamy, the woman rubs the sperm very excit­ed on her body.

Cuckold Must Clean Lick, Catch and Collect Sperm and Squirt

For every cuck­old, the sight of his wife in a great gang­bang is the high­est hap­pi­ness on earth. The stranger fuck­ing and the stranger insem­i­na­tion by numer­ous guys is a cen­tral part of the cuck­old relationship.

He loves to be the last one to fuck the slip­pery hot, extreme­ly lusty, foamy fucked pussy. Final­ly, the cuck can’t help it and has to squirt him­self into his horny for­eign sperm-scent­ed, abun­dant­ly insem­i­nat­ed wife.

But… Cuck­olds are gen­er­al­ly for­bid­den to waste sperm! It is his duty to lick his hotwife thor­ough­ly clean at all times.

Every cuck should train very seri­ous­ly in advance with his hotwife to swal­low his own sperm. Sperm ice cubes are super suit­able to replay gangbangs. 

If it becomes known at sex par­ties that the cuck is present, he is left no choice but to swal­low the stranger’s sperm.

Prac­ti­cal tip: To avoid stu­pid say­ings, the cuck can also col­lect the cum by means of a black plas­tic ice spoon and a gob­let or cup for the time after the gangbang.

How­ev­er, the fact is that a cuck can’t avoid lick­ing his wife’s face clean after each facial insem­i­na­tion and then kiss­ing his wife horny with horny cum kiss­es and snow­balling.

Squirting the Hotwife

A phe­nom­e­non that women are often over­whelmed with dur­ing group sex is a female ejac­u­la­tion. It often occurs with a large penis or by fast, hard fuck­ing of pussy or butt. Due to the per­ma­nent stim­u­la­tion of the vagi­na or butt, many women can’t help but have to ejac­u­late a glassy liq­uid over and over again, gush by gush.

The ejac­u­la­tion flu­id of the woman is named “squirt”. Accord­ing­ly, the process of jerk­ing off the pussy is called “squirt­ing”.

It is not urine or pussy juice, but a typ­i­cal tast­ing flu­id pro­duced in the skeno glands and eject­ed through an open­ing next to the ure­thra dur­ing strong stim­u­la­tion of the G‑area (G‑spot, Gräfen­berg zone) or the anus dur­ing anal sex.

The amount and pres­sure of squirt­ing flu­id squirt­ed can be tremen­dous. It is quite pos­si­ble for 250 ml of squirt to be ejac­u­lat­ed in gush­es. It is very, very impor­tant that the cuck­old takes care that his wife drinks again after each squirt­ing in order not to get dehydrated.

Sure… All fel­low fuck­ers find it hot when the pussy squirts — But more impor­tant­ly is, that it helps the woman incred­i­bly to release the pent-up sex­u­al pres­sure by squirting.

Cuckolds Need to Be Able to Swallow Squirt Too

We rec­om­mend you to learn how to squirt the Wife before the gang­bang and prac­tice over and over again with G‑spot stim­u­la­tors, pump-up dil­dos, mas­sage bones as well as large dil­dos. Anal toys can also trig­ger squirting.

The cuck must be able to swal­low even larg­er amounts of squirt. It goes with­out say­ing that he also prac­tices lick­ing up and catch­ing squirt flu­id. For the woman, it is an incred­i­ble plea­sure kick to stand or squat over her man and squirt in his face.

How­ev­er, since group sex is where guys get won­drous ideas, the cuck­ol­dress should also prac­tice squirt swallowing.

With the help of a squirt­ing bowl under his chin, he should train to skill­ful­ly catch squirt direct­ly from the pussy with his mouth while squirting.

Conclusion: Gangbangs Are Also in Reality the Hammer!

Gang­bang fan­tasies exert very strong sex­u­al attrac­tions on hotwifes, lovers, bulls, cuck­olds, swingers, and wife­shar­ers alike. Fact is: If a Hotwife has “tast­ed blood”, it does not remain with a Lover or Bull. The desire for numer­ous, for­eign cocks as well as hard and unre­strained sex, com­plete­ly kinky sex games, and plen­ty of sperm, exerts an incred­i­bly emo­tion­al pres­sure on the woman.

The long­ing for the ful­fill­ment of gang­bang fan­tasies increas­es so mas­sive­ly over the course of months or years that most hotwifes give in to their lust one day, despite soci­etal morals.

Expe­ri­ence shows that gang­bangs are a hot time. After ini­tial inse­cu­ri­ty, most women thaw out more and more after the first hard thrusts. After a good hour, they behave extreme­ly unin­hib­it­ed. While in the begin­ning fuck­ing the cuck­ol­dress are in the fore­ground, then the mass insem­i­na­tion of the woman with very much sperm comes into focus.

But not only the woman, the lover, and the Black Bulls get their mon­ey’s worth. The Cuck­old is pro­gres­sive­ly more and more in a kind of “tun­nel” or trance. He is emo­tion­al­ly very strong­ly con­nect­ed with his wife or life-wife and feels her orgasms and pure lust qua­si-men­tal­ly. He is very busy with the absorp­tion of the alien sperm and kiss­es his com­plete­ly alien-insem­i­nat­ed wife very pas­sion­ate­ly and intensely.

Preparation and Wordless Cooperation Are Important for Couples

Real­ly impor­tant is that the wife­shar­ing or cuck­old cou­ple does not imag­ine such orgies too easy.

The big sperm mass­es must be kissed away and swal­lowed togeth­er. The men are some­times very rough with the woman and fuck her unimag­in­ably per­sis­tent and hard.

The tone and vocab­u­lary become increas­ing­ly harsh as the gang­bang pro­gress­es. Espe­cial­ly the bulls and alpha men with big penis bring the woman to her phys­i­cal lim­it, as they have absolute­ly no con­trol over the body reac­tions like squirt­ing and vio­lent orgasms.

All this requires the cou­ple to prac­tice sperm swal­low­ing togeth­er in advance with creampie eat­ing, snow­balling, and frozen cum and pre­pare for the horny event for months with sex toys, fist­ing and challenges.

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• My wife wants a gangbang
• What I learned from being Gangbanged
• How did you feel after your first gangbang?
• Sperma-Studio.com: Insight into ger­man gangbangs
• Pri­vate gang­bangs of a real wife­shar­ing couple
• Sex par­ties in British swingers club
• Gang­bangCreampie: Kinky group sex events with horny cum games