Hotwifes Have Duties Too!
If you browse through cuckold blogs and forums, you get the feeling that only cuckolds have duties and obligations. You can find there the most merciless advice and hardest tips how to subjugate, subjugate and re-educate the husband even harder to a “sissy” (cock-wife).
We would like to clear up this cliché! Because especially wifesharing and cuckold beginners don’t have it easy to find their way through the many half-truths, unrealistic fantasies of various keyboard-eroticist and sheer immoderate exaggerations.
In almost every cuckold marriage, there is a completely normal work and family routine. Not all hotwifes are permanently sex-crazed sluts who have nothing else in mind the whole day than to try out all sexual possibilities and to suppress their husbands. In reality, most couples are just looking for that “certain something” to add some spice to their sexuality.
Playful tasks and duties can definitely support women and men in their sexual development and can be very aphrodisiac and motivating due to a positive pressure. In this guide, we would like to enlighten you about the roles that the cuckoldress has to play.
Also interesting: The tasks of the cuckold
Dominant Hotwife and Submissive Mare: How Does This Contradiction Work
In a cuckold relationship, there is a power imbalance from top to bottom. At the top is the Bull, who wants to “educate” the Hotwife. On the second level is the Hotwife, who in turn educates the Cuckold, and on the lowest level is the Cucki, who is subject to both the Bull and his Hotwife.
Thus, the Hotwife takes on a dual role:
- Submissive role: The cuckoldress has various obligations to the Bull and must fulfill them in order not to be punished herself.
- Dominate role: She must impose rules on the Cuckold and demand, control and if necessary sanction (punish) compliance.
This double role requires not only a lot of time, but also a much higher libido than 0815- normal women. Hotwifes in a cuckold marriage / cuckold relationship are usually not only considerably more imaginative, but also more open, playful. They are also subject to a permanent sexual development process.
Tasks of a Hotwife:
But what are the duties of the hotwife now? In the following text, we have listed some duties. If we have forgotten something, you are welcome to write us a message via the comment function.
There are three reasons why hotwifes get duties:
- Preparation for foreign insemination by an Alpha Bull
- Re-education of the “good” wife into a Hotwife or even Slutwife
- Preparation for group sex with several men or for a gangbang
The reasons sound quite simple at first glance — but involve an incredible number of things that have to be planned, clarified, learned, practiced, and permanently trained.
1. Bull and Lover Search
If a man wants to share his wife or girlfriend with strangers, a suitable or even several sexual partners have to be found.
Probably the most important task of every Cuckoldress is therefore the search for suitable men. Even if there is already an Alpha Bull or several lovers, she should always be on the lookout for other potent Bulls who match her booty pattern
The Internet is the best source to find a Bull because here the inclinations and the optical parameters have already been marked out:
2. Duty to Educate
For classic women, sex with multiple men is a complete no-go. A real cuckoldress gets immensely excited by the thought of being fucked hard and copiously inseminated by a dominant alpha bull or even multiple lovers during a gangbang.
A hotwife should prepare herself for group sex and gangbangs and learn how these events go by means of porn. During fantasy cuckolding she can already roughly estimate how many men she wants and what they will do to the woman. This kind of “continuing education” is enormously helpful.
In addition, a cuckoldress should also exchange ideas with like-minded people in a wifesharing blog, cuckold guide or FemDom blog. On Reddit or Bdsmlr we have had good experience with cuckold videos, photos and captions (image montages with texts). In the past, Tumblr also had very good hotwife, cuckold and wifesharing blogs. Twitter and Sharesome also provide great material to get educated.
3. Pussy Stretching With Dildos, Vegetables and Fists
Since most bulls have at least a 17 cm penis, so every hotwife should also permanently stretch her pussy. Thick dildos come in impressive shapes. The monster dildos in black and brown and pump-up dildos are popular.
But also vegetables like corn, cucumber, zucchini and eggplant, several table candles, a whisk or a very thick candle are great for pussy training.
Thick objects trigger violent feelings of pleasure in stretched pussies (stretched cunts), giving extreme orgasms, often accompanied by squirting.
Many women even love vagina fisting after a few years and get one orgasm after another, accompanied with squirting.
4. Self-Education to Become a Sperm Sucker
A real hotwife MUST learn to swallow sperm. Likewise her cuck!
In many porn movies, you can see very vividly that “fucking” and “sperm” is now an inseparable symbiosis. The goal of each
sex meeting is the sexual satisfaction and insemination of the woman.
Subsequent, pleasurable-saucy sperm games are high in the course. Paper towels and “running to the bathroom”, as known to vanilla sex women, are not tolerated by Bulls and Lovers.
When having sex with many strange men at a gangbang, the woman inevitably comes into contact with a lot of cum. Even if the cuck is responsible for the clean licking, he can’t react fast enough when the hotwife’s face or mouth gets inseminated. Most fuckers insist during group sex that the hotwife licks the cock clean after cuming.
However, liking cum is a longer learning process that every cuckoldress should compulsorily go through together with her cuckold before giving herself to strange men. Some cuckold couples practice sperm games in a gloryhole of various porn cinemas or swingers clubs. Experimenting with cuckold sperm is essential.
5. Mental Submission of the Hotwife
The bull expects a submissive hotwife. Therefore, the woman should accept that she will be abused as a cleaning slave, fuck slave, horny cum cunt, fuck bitch, afro bride, married sow or even fuck cattle.
The master and slave — fantasy is also so strongly pronounced in hotwifing, as the fantasy with black men. According to the motto “Black cocks matter” many women wish to be subjected by Big Black Cocks (BBC).
Even more dominant women have to come to terms with the idea of playing a subordinate / subservient role to and serving an Alpha Bull and other Bulls / Lovers.
6. Self-Education to Become a Cuckold Dominatrix
As controversial as it sounds to point 5.… In return to the submissive role towards the Bulls, she has to develop a dominant role with your Cuckold.
Very important is the chastity in the marriage. The Cucki is only allowed to cum to orgasm with the permission of his wife.
7. Self-Education to Whore (Slut)
The Alpha Bull expects a certain slutty behavior when hotwifing. It is highly recommended to think up joint exercises and trainings with the cuckold.
She should expand her sexual horizons & fantasies with porn, erotic stories and audio book.
Dildo training with various dildos and learning to fist should be on the training plan, as well as “licking dildos clean” and “licking pussy juice from finger”.
8. Bdsm Training Together With the Cuckold / Husband
A hotwife also can’t avoid dominant sex toys with pain, bondage and submission. The following practices are called Female BDSM Training:
- BDSM on nipples
- Labia stretching
- Clit torture
- Labia torture with labia clamps as well as clamps with weights
- Pussy sucking and clitoris sucking
- Nipple suckers,
- Nipple clamps
- Paddle, whip or ruler
- Breast bondage
- Punishment bondage
In a cuckold marriage, such games could be played as “Hotwife Challenge” or “Cuckold Challenge”.
9. Organize a Private Cuckold Party
Although you can have a lot of fun in a cuckold threesome, the main goal in cuckolding / hotwifing one day is the gangbang. 😉 So, it is not surprising that the “Private Wife Sharing”, as the private wife swap in a domestic environment, is one of the biggest desires and fantasies in the cuckold marriage.
In order to organize their own private sex party, the couple must first find real cuckold fuck contacts and a suitable venue. And this turns out to be more difficult than expected in practice.
With the abbreviation “AO” is meant “all without” or “all without”. So all men fuck the woman without a condom (with proof of health) and inject themselves into the inseminated sperm pussy, which is also called mud sliding. What sounds completely disgusting to Normols and is an absolute no-go, is paradise on earth for many Wifesharing couples, HÜ- swingers and lovers.
The behavior at a cuckold party is considerably more unconventional, cheerful and relaxed compared to the organized gangbang party or swinger club men’s surplus party at “private wife sharing”. At private sex parties, the sperm pussy licking clean by the cuckold is almost always part of it.
AO contacts can also be found in Cuckold and Wifesharing discussion forums or in Cuckold contact exchange websites.
10. Cuckold Games Think Out
A Cuckoldress should also come up with various Cuckold games and challenges. The marital slave must complete these to the best of his ability.
The hotwife should give the cuckold daily tasks or weekly tasks in writing. They range from edging, to prostate training, anal training with dildos, penis pumping, collecting porn videos / sex pictures, preparing sperm ice cubes, cooking / baking with sperm, to learning to swallow sperm / autofellatio.
If he does not fulfill the tasks or not completely, she can sanction him with BDSM punishments or spanking (blows on the butt).
Conclusion: A Hotwife Has a Lot of Tasks to Do
In a cuckold marriage, it’s usually not the case that the wife leaves her husband “to the left” and only fucks other people’s bulls. This type of relationship goes very deep emotionally and is based on strong trust, genuine love and mutual sexual goading.
Accordingly, the Cuckoldress must take care of herself, her Bull, and her Cuckold. Together we look forward to the sex meetings, or sex parties, trained together, fantasized, and played.
Thick dildos, strong vibrators, pump-up dildos are just as popular as BDSM toys, strap-ons (strap-on dildo), nipple toys, and prostate toys. A hotwife offers herself on sex sites and with porn and enlarges her sexual horizon completely unconsciously.
The linchpin is the messing around with sperm and creampie. Because sperm games, sperm kisses, snowballing and practicing swallowing sperm together also serve the purpose that both partners have no more inhibitions during real sex with strangers.
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