Sugar Loaf and Whip: Cuckolds Need Tasks!
A cuckold wants his wife, life partner, or girlfriend with foreign parts, but this has a price is: He must submit completely sexually to the hotwife and the bull.
In order to be really emotionally strong enough for the foreign insemination of his wife, or girlfriend, or life partner, obligations, tasks, and regular trainings must be imposed on him.
With this post, we would like to give tips and advice to the cuckold beginner, but also to his hotwife and bull, what are the 10 main obligations of the cuck and why he needs mandatory tasks to learn and practice. Feel free to leave a comment if we have forgotten something, or if you want to share your own ideas or comments.
Also interesting: The tasks of the Hotwife
Why Does a Cuckold Need Tasks?
In a cuckold marriage, the hotwife holds the reins. She decides with whom, when and where she fucks and how she is alienated.
The husband, boyfriend or significant other is a key element in hotwifing. Although he is unfortunately often put down as a loser and a wimp with a mini penis, he exerts an enormous sexual attraction on Hotwife and Alpha Bull.
Watching his partner have sex with strangers excites the Cuck very much, but paradoxically, it is also a great overcoming. A cuckold has to be “educated”, so to speak, and continually conditioned to fully play his role in the Wife’s sex dates.
The Cuck Must Be Permanently Sexually Stimulated
A cuckold gives up his duty to sexually satisfy the wife/life partner to the alpha bull, lovers, and fellow fuckers. This often removes a huge burden from him when potency problems, a small penis size, or premature ejaculation play a role.
Nevertheless, the couple still needs to exercise the penis in order to maintain their sexual condition and keep their sexual interest at a high level. Therefore, in order to fulfill the role as a “real cuckold”, he hands over the responsibility of his sexual satisfaction to his partner.
She decides when, how often and in which way the Cuck may come to orgasm and what happens with his sperm. The way of sexual satisfaction is often associated with hurdles, challenges and playful tasks.
What Are the Duties of the Cuckold?
Even though fucking is no longer one of the main duties for the cuckold, he must still be able to sexually stimulate and satisfy the wife in other ways. So, he must not sit back and relax and lie on his lazy skin, but must remain very active sexually.
The second main task is to be willing to train and develop sexually together with the hotwife. He makes every effort to continue to desire her and does not have the right to refuse orders and instructions from the Hotwife. He must train together with his wife and support her.
In spite of all sexual rules, he must remain a lovable husband/life partner. He must be devoted to the Hotwife, take care of the household, and pamper his Hotwife even in everyday life.
A true cuckold has the obligation to stop masturbating and ejaculating on his own. If he does not comply, the Hotwife can shoot him with a chastity belt / penis cage.
Tasks and Duties of a Cuckold:
1.) Keeping Chastity in Marriage
The husband’s chastity is the be-all and end-all in a cuckold marriage. It does not mean that the man is not allowed to orgasm at all, but only that he has to ask his hotwife for permission beforehand.
Some couples swear by closing the penis with a penis cage / chastity belt. Others choose this measure only as a punishment threat or punishment for secret masturbation.
How long the Cuck must be sexually abstinent is determined by the couple together or the hotwife alone. We recommend not allowing a cum orgasm for about 7 — 10 days. Masturbating, cock milking, edging, prostate play, cuckold porn watching should remain allowed to the cuckold.
If the man does not squirt for more than a week, but ejaculates daily, considerable amounts of sperm will accumulate. If a cuck squirts a lot of sperm, he has the task to recycle it completely, without exception.
2.) Cuckold Training
The so-called cuckold training is another important point to keep the man sexually “in line” on the one hand, but on the other hand, to train him and also to punish him.
As part of a “Cuckold challenge”, the man must complete various daily tasks or weekly tasks. These cuckold games are set in writing, and the Cuck must do them very seriously and conscientiously with the utmost care.
Several times a week training with a penis pump is recommended, for example while watching TV or porn in the evening. Regular penis training has been proven to have a positive effect on penis length and thickness. In parallel, he should always wear nipple suckers to become more resilient for BDSM games (Point 9).
For prostate training (point 8.) the Cuck should use butt plugs, inflatable plugs / inflatable dildos, soft dildos, and prostate toys as often as possible. The resulting cum is collected with a plate, a sperm bowl, or a sperm glass (also named: cum collect).
3.) The Most Important Task: Licking a Sperm Pussy Clean
A freshly inseminated sperm cunt is the holy grail for every cuck! In the cuckold area, sperm pussies always belong thoroughly licked out and externally clean licked. Even in the wifesharing scene, people like to hold the opinion that sperm is a valuable commodity and must be recycled by men and women.
Unfortunately, most men resist swallowing their own sperm. Therefore, a permanent creampie training is indispensable! Without exception, every cuckold must learn to lick a sperm pussy clean. Because every cuck must be clear that one day, in the last consequence, he must also lick foreign sperm of bull and lover clean.
Until it is so far, the man should only be allowed to have sex with his wife, if he licks her clean again after the sperm insemination without any theater. Licking sperm clean is Cuckolds duty!
Experience shows that it takes three to six months for men to learn to eat their own creampie out of their pussy.
4.) Bull and Lover Search
If the joint decision for Wifesharing or Cuckolding is fixed, every Cuckold couple starts one day intuitively with the search for a suitable Bull and potent fellow fucker (Lover).
Although a real Cuckold Bitch chooses her sexual partners “officially” alone according to her taste, but in practice the husband also has the tasks to look for suitable strange men.
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5.) Duty for Further Education
Just like the hotwife, the cuckold has to continue his sexual education permanently. Reading erotic stories, listening to erotic audiobooks and watching porn videos and photos have several advantages.
Besides arousing you, these media also have the effect of learning and expanding your sexual horizons.
There are various English language cuckold sites, wifesharing blogs and FemDom blogs that provide valuable tips and ideas.
The best and the most learning you can do is watching porn that is relevant to the topic. We recommend that you schedule a porn night together several times a month.
6.) Squirt, Creampie, Pussy Juice and Swallowing Your Own Sperm
Cuckolds are basically always responsible for licking up and clean love fluids. To learn how to swallow your own juice, you should first read through our guides:
- Creampie Cleanup — Licking an inseminated sperm pussy clean
- Practice swallowing your own cum for beginners
- Why the creampie is so significant for cuckold couples
- Tips to overcome the mental block of eating your own cum
- Perfect for licking clean: Cum on your pussy
- Cuckold Tutorial: Learn to eat your own creampie from pussy
- Instruction: Licking cum creampie perfectly clean
- Cuckold training: Learn to swallow cum for couples
- Learn to swallow your own sperm
Basically, all instructions to learn to swallow sperm are based on regular conditioning, precum (pre-juice) swallowing, creampie clean licking or speed.
Autofellatio — method has proven to be extremely effective. With a little practice, any man can give himself a blowjob. With the “Self blowjob” it is almost impossible to avoid his own sperm splash in the mouth.
From cuckold level C2 to C3, the hotwife may also want to teach her cuck how to suck a man’s cock. Gloryholes in porn cinemas / swingers clubs are especially suitable for first oral contacts with foreign penises. After the training, the cocksucking is then expected at the alpha bull and at the gangbang at the fuckers.
Also, by the Hotwife used dildos, love balls, vibrators and G‑spot stimulators etc. he must always clean. The woman should also be adamant if the toys are wetted with a lot of pussy juice and ALWAYS demand a cleaning. If necessary, with threat of punishment.
7.) Orgasm Control (Cum Control / Tease and Denial)
Orgasm control means that the man has to do everything to prevent his final cum orgasm over and over again.
This is also called tease and denial or edging. Over several hours, the penis is stimulated, porn is watched, fucked or played together in bed — while the male orgasm is forbidden.
During masturbation, as well as during pampering by the hotwife, every good cuckold must train himself to ruin his orgasm voluntarily at least once. For the partner, the sight is highly stimulating.
When ruining orgasm, considerable amounts of precum (pre-cum, pre ejaculate) can run out of the penis or (depending on the level of arousal) even splash heavily. The horny juice is collected by the man independently again (cum collect) and ALWAYS recycled.
8.) Permanent Anal Training / Prostate Training
Prostate stimulation is a very important discipline in cuckolding. Almost all hotwifes want to fuck their cuck’s ass with a strap-on and occasionally give him a prostate massage.
To be ready for prostate play, prostate massage, and anal sex, every cuckold must be willing to stretch and train his anus.
Anal training is also suitable for milking the prostate without orgasm, which is an incredibly horny experience with goosebumps for the man.
We recommend that you always put a sperm plate or a sperm bowl under the penis during prostate play because larger amounts of precum (pre-cum), love drops, and sperm can run out. Sometimes, the first load also squirts out of the penis with great pressure!
Important learning effect: When milking the prostate, guys are extremely aroused. This should be exploited by the woman: Every man should be educated to really swallow any love drop by himself without backtalk and bulking out!
9.) BDSM Training
As already described under point 2.), it is indispensable to subject the Cucki to a BDSM training. Defenselessly bound and gagged, he must bravely endure all the things the wife / life partner does to him.
Therefore, the male nipples should also be trained permanently.
Very effective is training with a pair of nipple suckers. The nipples become larger and can be played with wonderfully. All BDSM sex toys are also suitable for men’s nipples, such as nipple clamps, nipple clamps, wax, whip, paddle or ruler.
After a few months, the man will be very grateful if he can touch himself or his Wife more roughly on the nipples to trigger extreme feelings of pleasure.
Enslavement and strong “female domination” (FemDom) by woman plays an increasing role in cuckolding from stage C2 to C3.
Nipple torture and regular nipple training noticeably increase the man’s sperm production and libido. Every advanced cuckold couple should perform nipple training on the man.
10.) Supportive / Submissive Behavior on a Cuckold Party
If it finally comes to the date with a Bull or even several lovers, the Cuckold has the duty to be quiet, grateful, and submissive.
In agreement with his wife and bull, he is often even allowed to support his wife during stranger fucking. Handing her drinks, dabbing sweat, holding her legs spread, spreading her labia, guiding the Bull’s cock during insertion, thrusting the Wife’s body on the cock, holding hands, cheering on his wife, and kissing her face.
If he’s lucky, he gets to watch and jerk off, take pictures, and make videos. If he is unlucky, he is allowed to attend the foreign insemination only with a penis cage and cannot jerk off.
The main task of all cuckolds is to lick the sperm clean. As a so-called “Wife sharing cuckold” he is immediately on the spot when creamy fucked pussy juice, squirt, or sperm must be licked clean. Depending on the bull and agreement, he even has to blow on the cock / cocks or lick them clean.
Some cuckolds have the task of spooning the creampie out of the cum pussy. Others have to collect sperm with a sperm plate or cum bowl so that the cuckold couple has something to play with after the party.
11.) Shoot Photos and Make Video Clips
Another task of each cuckold is to photograph and film the hotwife having sex with her bull or lover.
In most cases, the hotwife wishes that she can relive the horny sex evening in her mind.
If all involved agree, the Cuck, digitally captures the horny hard sex, the rousing orgasms, squirting ejaculations, and the cum splashes of the fuckers. Even if the foreign insemination is very horny, the cuckold has to keep a cool head to capture the hottest scenes.
To be able to take the horny photos and clips with optimal illumination, as shake-free as possible, and with great close-ups, he takes care of a good camera equipment.
For the horny event, you should not use a cell phone camera. You need a camera without annoying mirror shake (no reflex camera!), but a so-called bridge camera, with which you can zoom silently and also record videos. You also require a tripod and three permanent lights. The flash is just annoying and should not be used. Keep the curtains closed to avoid mixed light. If you want to upload the wifesharing videos and photos to the internet, we recommend Venetian masks or black eye masks to hide your faces.
Punishments of the Cuckold
If a cuck doesn’t fully complete his tasks or violates his duties, he is usually punished with BDSM punishments, a punishment bondage, or spanking. Often he then has to wear a penis cage (chastity belt).
In FemDom spanking, the slave lies on a punishment trestle, above the knees of the mistress or a comparable position with an elevated upper body, and must endure beatings with the hand, a paddle, a crop, or a flogger. Sometimes, the FemDom also makes her slave pig count the strokes herself.
Feminization / Feminization
Surely, you have stumbled over sissies on the Internet again and again. These are mostly men who have slipped into the role of a woman. This feminization is mostly lived actively from Cuckold level C3, where the man has no more fucking and insemination rights to his wife.
Most sissies are under lock and key with a chastity belt. They usually wear a noticeably small penis cage and desire primarily anal stimulation.
Conclusion: A Cuckold Has a Lot of Tasks and Duties
Once a man has decided to become a cuckold, a large bundle of tasks and duties comes his way. Classic 10-minute sex, with squirting in and “turning over for sleep” is over!
The main goal is to prepare himself and the hotwife for sex with strangers, an alpha bull, or multiple lovers in a gangbang.
Cuckolds are usually kept chaste and are not allowed to cum for several days or weeks. As a result, his libido is very high, and he is permanently sexually on high.
He is only allowed to relieve his strong arousal by performing various sexual tasks and milking some precum (sperm pre-juice) in a controlled manner.
The sperm swallowing falls within his scope of duties. Even squirted cum, squirt and pussy juice he must always lick up and clean without request. Due to his high libido, a cuck even wishes this explicitly. Depending on the development, even cocksucking and licking up of foreign sperm can follow late.
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